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Join The Top 1%: The Mindset Behind The World's Top Performers - Professor Steve Peters

2023/11/16
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Ali Abdaal: 探讨顶级运动员与普通运动员在心态和行为模式上的差异,以及如何提升已达到高水平的运动员的表现。 Steve Peters: 成功的关键不在于某种神奇公式或特定性格,而在于个人与方法的契合度以及合适的环境。教练的工作是帮助运动员理解自身思维运作方式,而提升表现则需要运动员自身的努力和技能提升。教练会与运动员沟通,了解其目标、方法和障碍,并提供个性化的指导。不同运动员对教练的期望不同,有的关注竞技表现,有的关注个人问题。 Ali Abdaal: 探讨《Chimp Paradox》中提出的思维管理模型,该模型基于大脑中的三种基本力量:冲动易怒的“黑猩猩”、理性冷静的“人类”和储存记忆经验的“电脑”。 Steve Peters: 大脑运作模型包含三个部分:理性冷静的“人类”、冲动易怒的“黑猩猩”和储存记忆经验的“电脑”。大多数人的“黑猩猩”系统都比较活跃,但存在个体差异,过于平静的“黑猩猩”系统并非优势。“人类”和“黑猩猩”系统都会向“电脑”系统输入信息,而“电脑”系统会影响二者的决策。拥有平静的“黑猩猩”系统在某些方面是优势,但在其他方面也可能导致缺乏警觉性。应对冲动行为的方法取决于个人的应对能力和生活方式。保持积极的心态有助于提升生活质量和人际关系。冒名顶替综合征并非完全负面,它可以作为一种警示信号,促使我们反思和改进。应对冒名顶替综合征的关键在于保持客观,将想法与自身分离,并采取行动。“黑猩猩”系统寻求外部的答案和稳定感,例如来自朋友或伴侣的支持。“小妖精”代表难以改变的深层心理创伤,“小精灵”代表可以改变的错误信念和行为模式。“小精灵”是可以被移除的错误信念或行为模式,“小妖精”则是根深蒂固的、难以移除的心理创伤。要改变不良行为模式,必须用新的行为模式来替代,而不是简单地压制。找到那些能够引起共鸣并带来稳定感的“自动驾驶仪”至关重要。遇到问题时,要立即制定计划,而不是被情绪左右。理解情绪的深度取决于个人需求,过度分析可能会适得其反。丰富“黑猩猩”系统的词汇量有助于更好地管理情绪。

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Season 7 Episode 7

Today I’m joined by Professor Steve Peters. He’s a world renowned psychologist who’s dedicated himself to understanding the way the human mind works. He’s worked with elite athletes like the Olympic cyclists Sir Chris Hoy and Victoria Pendleton, 5-time snooker world champion Ronnie O’Sullivan, as well as the England football team, to help them overcome mental barriers and optimise their performance. He’s perhaps best-known for his first book, 'The Chimp Paradox', which has sold millions of copies worldwide. The book gives us a mind management approach based on the idea that there are three forces which govern our brains. The emotional and primal 'chimp' is impulsive and often anxious, while our inner human is calm, logical, and rational. This system can help us better understand our behaviour and handle moments of stress and difficulty. In this episode we’re going to talk about how to use the Chimp Model to change your life, and how it can revolutionise the way you see yourself and others. You’ll get an insight into Professor Steve Peters’ world renowned coaching methods that have helped so many people lead happier, healthier and more successful lives. Enjoy!

(0:00) Intro (6:53) Steve’s work (12:01) The Chimp Paradox (27:42) Dealing with imposter syndrome (37:00) Dealing with mental goblins and gremlins (46:00) Motivation and commitment (51:53) Goblins vs. gremlins (1:0054) How to cope when things go wrong (1:06:17) Understanding and describing our emotions (1:13:54) Can we really control our emotions? (1:23:21) Managing anxiety (1:27:00) ADHD and depression  (1:31:06) Being an elite performance coach (1:37:30) Do you need to work out your life plan?(1:42:33) Does success lead to happiness? (1:47:44) Figuring out your values (1:52:39) Final words of wisdom

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