Things are constantly falling apart for you. Life is clearing the way so you can be given something you never thought was possible. It looks like a huge deal in the short term when in reality the world is investing your energy for you. It will return it back with greater dividends.
We are constantly training for life, everything we train for is within life. When we change our mindset to training for life, the performance for all the other things evens out. When we become better at life itself, we become better at the things within life.