Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions
The Submissive Next Door Podcast
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*We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic. *
Links for this episode:
Case Study: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission ) published in the Journal of Sex Research
Case Study: Curative Kink: Survivors of Early Abuse Transform Trauma through BDSM) published in The Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy
Case Study: A Systematic Scoping Review of the Prevalence, Etiological, Psychological, and Interpersonal Factors Associated with BDSM) published in the Journal of Sex Research
Case Study: Bondage- Discipline, Dominance - Submission and Sadomasochism (BDSM) From an Integrative Biopsychosocial Perspective: A Systematic Review) published in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine
Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients) by Dr. Sefani Goerlich
Article: 94 Non-Binary BDSM Names for Doms & Subs by Sunny Megatron)
Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski)
Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk)
Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris)
Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz)
Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt ) (Great info on the Imago Dialogue)
Additional Resources:
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom)
Site: AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists))
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance))
Site: TASHRA's Research)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality)
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality)
*Site: Sexual Health Alliance) *
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University)
Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover)
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Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom))
About SESTA/FOSTA:) Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech)
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