cover of episode EP121|恐怖情人通緝中:在愛情裡每個人都有機會成為恐怖情人?!

EP121|恐怖情人通緝中:在愛情裡每個人都有機會成為恐怖情人?!

2024/12/25
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邵忠:本集讨论恐怖情人议题,旨在帮助听众识别和应对恐怖情人行为,即使单身人士也能参与讨论。 音响:恐怖情人并非主观臆断,新竹市警察局已列出十大特点,为客观标准。 达姑:自身也可能存在成为恐怖情人的潜质,热恋中的激情行为可能导致恐怖行为,需警惕。 严立婷:分享网友投稿,例如前女友因不满而毁坏蛋糕、前任擅自更改房间布置、暧昧对象擅自整理房间等,说明恐怖情人行为多样化,需提高警惕。 林秀琴:分析恐怖情人十大特点,例如以自我为中心、言语肢体暴力、缺乏同情心、情绪失控、自残等,并结合网友投稿进行案例分析,指出这些行为的严重性和危害性。 张婷婷:分享自身经验和网友投稿,例如前男友控制欲强、跟踪、骚扰前任等,强调要保护个人信息安全,避免被控制和骚扰。 邵忠:总结恐怖情人行为,强调寻求专业帮助的重要性,并介绍跟骚法的相关内容。 音响:分享自身经验,例如男友喝醉后失控、沉迷于收集玩具等,说明恐怖情人行为的普遍性和多样性。 达姑:分享网友投稿,例如男友吸毒成瘾、控制欲强、跟踪等,强调要保护自身安全,避免被伤害。 严立婷:讨论如何离开恐怖情人,建议不要抱持好聚好散的想法,要断得彻底,并寻求专业帮助。 林秀琴:分享网友投稿,例如前女友控制欲强、男友用警政系统查到住址等,强调要保护个人信息安全,避免被控制和骚扰。 张婷婷:总结恐怖情人议题,强调要优先保护自身安全,即使单身也需警惕,避免陷入恐怖恋爱关系。

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What are some characteristics of a '恐怖情人' (toxic partner) according to the Hsinchu City Police Department?

The Hsinchu City Police Department lists ten characteristics of a toxic partner, including self-centeredness, verbal and physical abuse, lack of empathy, emotional instability, and controlling behavior. These traits often stem from an intense but misguided expression of love.

Why might engineers be more prone to becoming '恐怖情人'?

Engineers might be more prone to becoming toxic partners because they often have limited interaction with the opposite sex during their formative years. This can lead to an intense and overwhelming expression of love once they enter a relationship, coupled with a narrow social circle.

What is an example of extreme controlling behavior in a relationship?

An example of extreme controlling behavior is a partner who changes the layout and decor of their significant other's room without permission, even going as far as folding their underwear. This behavior crosses the line from being considerate to invasive and controlling.

How does emotional instability manifest in toxic relationships?

Emotional instability in toxic relationships can manifest as frequent outbursts over minor issues, such as getting angry because a partner didn't ask if they wanted a drink. This unpredictability can lead to a cycle of arguments and emotional distress.

What is the recommended approach to leaving a toxic relationship?

The recommended approach to leaving a toxic relationship is to seek professional help and cut off all contact completely. Trying to end things amicably can lead to further manipulation or harassment. It's crucial to prioritize personal safety and well-being.

Chapters
本集邀請三位愛情飛行導師,揭露警察局認證的恐怖情人十大特點,並結合網友投稿的故事,幫助大家防範恐怖情人。
  • 新竹市警察局列出的恐怖情人十大特點
  • 網友投稿的恐怖情人故事
  • 防範恐怖情人的方法

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本集我們請來了三位愛情飛行導師,汐止嚴立婷、六張犁林秀琴、以及蘆洲張婷婷,一起來跟大家揭露警察局認證的恐怖情人十大特點!囚禁、自殘、冷暴力,聽眾朋友的恐情故事究竟是會讓你練成愛情火眼金睛,還是讓你好像在照鏡子,恐情竟是你自己呢? 溫馨提醒:如果感情遇到過不去的難關,記得尋求專業幫助喔!

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