Deep Dive
What is Becky's main concern about her husband?
Becky is concerned about her husband's infidelity, as he has been texting, calling, and video chatting with another woman despite her efforts to work on their relationship. She feels betrayed and unsure about what to do, especially since they have six children together.
Why does Becky feel conflicted about leaving her husband?
Becky feels conflicted because she loves her husband and has been with him for 23 years, standing by him through difficult times, such as when he was burned. She also believes in the commitment of marriage and doesn't want to divorce, but she struggles with the lack of trust and his repeated infidelity.
What advice does Dr. Laura give Becky regarding her situation?
Dr. Laura advises Becky to stay in the marriage for the sake of her children, as divorcing would mean the kids would have to split time between homes and potentially meet her husband's new partners. She suggests making the best of the situation, maintaining a peaceful home, and using condoms to protect against potential sexually transmitted infections.
What does Dr. Laura say about Becky's belief that she can fix her husband?
Dr. Laura criticizes Becky's belief that she can fix her husband, comparing it to trying to fix a car without knowing how. She emphasizes that Becky cannot change a man who is a 'creep' and that her efforts to fix the relationship have only led to more children and prolonged unhappiness.
How does Becky feel about the impact of divorce on her children?
Becky is concerned that divorce would negatively affect her children, as they would no longer have their father under the same roof and would have to split time between homes. She believes it is unfair for them to go back and forth and potentially meet her husband's new partners.
What does Dr. Laura suggest Becky do to protect herself and her children?
Dr. Laura suggests that Becky make the best of her situation by maintaining a peaceful and pleasant home environment for her children. She also advises Becky to use condoms to protect herself from potential sexually transmitted infections and to avoid arguing or creating negativity in the home.
- 23-year marriage with six children
- Husband's infidelity (texting, calling, video chatting with another woman)
- Wife's internal conflict between love for husband and desire for a better life
- Consideration of impact on children
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