Meet in the Essence - B's response to a woman about her relationship with her son
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In response to a woman about her relationship with her son.

What you share makes me think about my relationship with my son. It is the relationship where my tendency to control comes out most strongly...

B: You can change you relationship. Very quickly! Very simple thing to do: relate as Awareness-Knowing in the heart to your son. Cease dividing your relationships by relating from a someone to a someone. Cease doing this.

Relate as Awareness-Knowing, heart to heart. You have transcended the relationship as a separate sense of self but at the same time you have included the self in the wholeness of the relating to Knowing in the heart. Suddenly you will be meeting him deeper than you thought you ever could. You won't be meeting him as 'your son' you will be meeting him as 'the sun'.

You will be astonished at the awakened-ess of that meeting and the availability of more of what you are in that meeting place of heart to heart.

He won't be knowing his mother as a separate sense of self. He will be knowing the beauty and wonder of the Beingness of his mother as Wholeness caring. Meet in the essence of the other.

This ideas that he is your son, just for a moment will evaporate and you will be knowing the grace of having another being in your life and he will be knowing the grace of having another being in his life …who call themselves mother and son. And those words 'mother and son' will have radiant Meaning.

Suddenly everything is moved into real deep change. All the hooks have been removed, replaced by lights of love and Beingness and the discovery of who this is that is meeting;
a Real Living Love of a family.

From Milan, Italy 2015 Session 2
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