11月被比喻为星期六晚上,是因为它标志着秋季的尾声,接近年底,时间流逝得飞快,给人一种周末即将结束、即将迎来新一周的感觉。
时尚圈的时间总是提前,因为它的轮回是提前规划的。比如,当你还在准备2024年秋季的服装时,2025年夏季的潮流已经发布,这种时间错位感让人感到时间的加速流逝。
古典音乐界通常提前一年规划下一个乐季,因此人们的生活节奏也常常跟着乐季走,导致时间感错位。
全球变暖导致季节变化的时间点推迟,比如以前11月中旬的第一场雪,现在可能推迟到12月初甚至1月,这种变化让人感受到气候对生活节奏的影响。
今年的大选关注度不如以往,可能是因为人们意识到在网上说服他人几乎不可能,且政治系统本身让人感到幻灭,因此许多人选择减少关注,只在必要时才去了解。
随着年龄的增长,人们开始思考自己是否应该更成熟,社会对他们的期待是什么,以及如何处理与晚辈的关系,这些新的责任和身份让一些人感到无所适从。
成功的定义是主观的,因为每个人对成功的标准不同。有些人认为成功是符合自己标准的事情,而不是外界强加的标准。
投行文化被认为是有问题的,因为它强调高压、过劳的工作环境,且行业文化与成功并无直接关联,反而可能导致员工的不健康和道德模糊。
【聊了什么The What】
今年是不是加了速?
在时间的加速阴谋下,四个女的照例录制了一期秋季氛围检查。然而,等到节目剪出来要写文案的时候,已经是十一月初(?怒录一期冬季氛围检查然后回家过年)。
每年的十月份、十一月份、和挤满节日的十二月,都像是一个星期中消耗速度最快的周末。我们期待它们,但是它们也在宣告着时间在以不可思议的速度流逝的事实。下一年的音乐会排期已经出来了,时尚圈也开始宣告2025春季和夏季的trends——这些穿插在社交媒体和我们邮箱中的图片、讯息、数字、速朽的标题和色彩,都让人产生一种时间错位感。
每期的氛围检查我们都基本上100%脱稿,想哪说哪,想聊什么就聊什么。这期也是一样的闲聊风格。我们聊了身处在美国社会对于大选的“逃避”,最近读了什么书,我们对于年龄和身体感知的感悟。还有一些乱七八糟想哪说哪的话题。
各位娃们11月快乐!
Has time been accelerating this year???
Under the conspiracy of time's rapid passage, four of us gathered as usual to record our fall vibes check. By the time we finished editing and about to drop this episode, well, it was already early November…
October, November, and holiday-packed December always feel like the fastest-passing weekend of a week. We look forward to them, yet they also declare the undeniable fact that time flows at an unforgiving speed. Next year's concert schedules are already out, the fashion world has begun announcing trends for spring and summer—these images, messages, numbers, ephemeral headlines, and colors interweaved throughout our social media and emails create a sense of temporal displacement: when is this?
As with all our vibe checks, we kept this episode 100% unscripted, speaking freely of our stream of consciousness. We have been "avoidant" of this election (as we all live in the US), we discussed some books we've read, and as usual, this episode is packed with various random stuff uttered from our mouths.
Happy November, everyone!
【时间轴 The When】
03:05) 十月约等于星期五,十一月约等于星期六
08:00) 四个女的在关注大选吗?对于这场选举的心态发生了哪些变化?
15:10) 四个女的最近在看什么剧
39:55) (一个关于年龄的感慨)“身体表达”逐渐变成了不一样的概念,和身体的关系在逐渐变化
52:35) (又一个关于年龄的感慨)我到底应不应该更成熟?我应该如何对待所谓的晚辈?
59:50) (还是一个关于年龄的感慨)“成功”是个模糊且主观的概念
01:03:50) 从美剧聊到投行,以及我们如何看书、听书
03:05) October feels like a Friday, November feels like a Saturday
08:00) Are four of us following this election? (NO) How have our attitudes towards this election evolved?
15:10) What shows are we watching lately?
39:55) (Reflections on age) "Physical expression" takes on new meaning as our relationship with our bodies evolves
52:35) (More thoughts on aging) Should I be more mature? How should I interact with younger generations?
59:50) (Yet another age-related musing) "Success" is an ambiguous and subjective concept
01:03:50) From TV shows to investment banking; how we read books and listen to books
【拓展链接 The Links】
Outliers: The Story of Success)
Nexus: A Brief History of Information Networks from the Stone Age to AI)
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