Have you ever felt like just another cog in someone’s emotional machinery? Phoenix Gould, a coach with an intimate understanding of the narcissistic mind, joins us to unravel the perplexing web of narcissistic relationships. Born from a personal history of entanglement with a narcissistic mother, Phoenix brings clarity to the manipulative tactics these individuals employ, whether consciously or unconsciously. Together, we dissect the analogy of people as appliances to narcissists, where emotional reactions are harvested as fuel, and how one can recognize and protect themselves from such exploitation.Navigating the murky waters of self-care, we confront the stark contrast between narcissism and empathy. With Phoenix as our beacon, we illuminate the healing power of group therapy and the concept of being 'selfish in an unselfish way'—a balance of nurturing oneself without encroaching on the well-being of others. We reflect on the transformative nature of human connections that offer true nourishment, as opposed to the draining interactions with those who wield narcissism like a weapon. Through these revelations, we foster a deeper appreciation for the genuine bonds that can be forged in the aftermath of narcissistic abuse.Rounding off our heartfelt discourse, we spotlight the cathartic journey to radical self-love. Phoenix shares her pivotal moments of self-discovery, emphasizing the need to integrate all facets of oneself, even the less appealing traits. We examine the profound impact of acknowledging and nurturing our emotional scars, allowing us to process and respond to our emotions with greater agency. Wrapping up, we provide resources and avenues for listeners to further explore the path to self-acceptance and recovery from the lingering effects of past trauma, all while preparing for next week's tales of resilience and triumph.https://www.facebook.com/phoenixcorecoaching/)[email protected]
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