Episode 287: Balance in Life with Michelle Riesgraf
A Delectable Education Charlotte Mason Podcast
Deep Dive
What is Hope Farm School and how did Michelle Riesgraf's family become involved?
Hope Farm School is a farm and school for inner-city boys aged 11 to 18 who are struggling in traditional schools. Michelle's family joined the school about four years ago after her husband was offered the position of farm operations manager. The school was founded by a man who grew up on a farm and wanted to provide a similar experience to help struggling boys. Michelle's family moved to the farm after her husband's previous business venture didn’t work out, and they felt called to this ministry.
How does Michelle balance homeschooling with the demands of farm life?
Michelle balances homeschooling with farm life by adjusting their schedule seasonally. During harvest season (May to September), they focus more on farm work and do 'homeschool light,' covering core subjects like math while setting aside other activities. In the winter months (December to February), when farm work is minimal, they focus more on homeschooling, sometimes even doing double lessons in a day. This flexible approach allows them to prioritize farm tasks during busy seasons while ensuring their education continues year-round.
What challenges did Michelle face when transitioning to farm life?
Michelle faced several challenges when transitioning to farm life, including financial uncertainty, as her husband initially didn’t receive a salary for his role. They also had to adjust to a significant lifestyle change, moving from the city to a rural area. Additionally, Michelle had to learn new skills, such as farming and managing a homestead, which she had little prior experience in. The family also had to navigate the demands of homeschooling while managing farm responsibilities.
How does Michelle's family contribute to Hope Farm School?
Michelle's family contributes to Hope Farm School in various ways. Her husband manages the farm operations, while Michelle and their children assist with tasks like driving tractors, gardening, and caring for animals. They also help new boys acclimate to farm life by hosting them at their home before they move to the bunkhouse. Additionally, Michelle has assisted with teaching at the school, particularly during a teacher’s maternity leave, and they support the schoolboys in their daily routines and activities.
What lessons has Michelle learned about balancing farm life and homeschooling?
Michelle has learned that balance looks different for each family and that it’s essential to adjust expectations based on the season. She emphasizes the importance of scheduling chores, school, and family time, even if the schedule changes frequently. Michelle also highlights the value of working together as a family, whether it’s for farm tasks or household chores, to make the work more enjoyable and efficient. Additionally, she stresses the need for self-care and maintaining a strong spiritual foundation to navigate the challenges of farm life and homeschooling.
How has Michelle's family benefited from living on a farm?
Living on a farm has provided Michelle's family with numerous benefits, including spending more time outdoors and observing nature’s cycles, such as predator-prey relationships and seasonal changes. The children have learned valuable life skills through farm chores, from hatching eggs to harvesting crops, which has given them a sense of accomplishment and responsibility. The farm has also provided meaningful work for her teenage boys, helping them develop confidence and a strong work ethic. Additionally, the family has grown closer by working together and relying on each other.
What advice does Michelle offer to other homeschooling moms managing farm work?
Michelle advises homeschooling moms managing farm work to prioritize self-care, including spiritual, physical, and social needs. She emphasizes the importance of scheduling time for reading, exercise, and connecting with others, even during busy seasons. Michelle also warns that moving to a farm won’t solve existing family challenges, and it’s crucial to address those issues wherever you are. She encourages moms to be intentional about habit training and to find ways to build community, even in rural areas.
How has Michelle's family managed financial challenges while living on a farm?
Michelle's family has managed financial challenges by learning to live with less and relying on God’s provision. Her husband initially worked part-time on the farm while taking on construction jobs, but eventually, his role became full-time. Despite the lower income, they’ve seen God provide in unexpected ways, such as friends donating money for a microscope or the school sharing excess produce. Michelle also emphasizes the importance of teaching children to be content with what they have and to trust in God’s provision.
- Michelle Riesgraf balances homeschooling with the Charlotte Mason method, farm life, and serving inner-city boys.
- She discovered Charlotte Mason through a friend and found it a good fit for her family.
- She utilizes a flexible approach to homeschooling, adjusting based on the seasons and farm demands.
- She values community and utilizes a co-op for additional support and learning.
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