You have probably eaten Rampon salad before - and then there were strange noises between your teeth - as if you were biting on sand. This often happens with Rampon salad if it has not been washed well. And then the whole salad can be as good as it is - but the moment when you think you're eating sand then spoils the whole other far greater part of the pleasure. It is the same with our appearance to others. If we are not pure in our motives, words and often also thoughts and intentions, this is also perceived without words and not infrequently experienced and rightly interpreted as unpalatable. Therefore, make sure that you are as pure as possible in your thoughts, your heart and your dealings with yourself and others. And otherwise: please wash and clean again, as with the Rampon salad. It is worth it - for the enjoyment for others and yourself!
I wish you an extraordinary day!