When I imagine a palm tree, I see a long trunk and only at the top the large leaves and immediately below its fruits, the coconuts. So these are not easily accessible. This is also the case with trees in our regions. The tree protects its fruits by making them inaccessible in a certain way - until they are ready for harvesting. If they were easily accessible, the inexperienced or impatient would take them too soon: they would be inedible and might even harm him. So what may look like a refusal at first glance is in essence a protection against harm to the recipient. If you find yourself in a situation today in which you have the impression that something is being withheld from you - check whether this is perhaps even for your protection and not out of resentment. And if you cannot see it, trust that it is for your own good .
I wish you an extraordinary day!