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10 Year Reunions

2024/12/11
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Crystal: 本期节目讨论了高中十年同学会。Crystal作为主办方,分享了筹备同学会的过程,包括联系同学、选择场地等。她提到筹备过程比想象中容易,但联系到所有同学比较困难。同学会当天,天气很好,气氛轻松愉快,大家积极互动,没有负面情绪。许多同学感谢她举办了这次同学会,让她感到意外和欣慰。她认为同学会成功的原因在于积极向上的氛围,以及大家愿意参与的意愿。虽然她本人不会参加自己的同学会,但她认为这次经历让她更期待自己的同学会。 Jisoo: Jisoo作为Crystal的伴侣参加了同学会,她分享了作为非校友的体验。她发现同学会出席人数少于预期,大部分人都在聊高中回忆。她认为同学会让大家聚在一起,重温学校时光的氛围,这是单独聚会无法比拟的。她还谈到了作为“伴侣”的感受,需要自己融入环境。她认为参加同学会后,她更希望参加自己的同学会,但班级规模大小会影响同学会的氛围和预期。她还分享了其他同学的经历,以及对未来20年同学会的展望。 Jisoo: 本期节目还讨论了不同年龄段的人对同学会的参与方式,例如父母那一辈更倾向于大学同学会。父母那一辈的同学会,更多的是分享彼此生活中的消息,而非八卦。年龄增长会影响同学会分享的内容,例如父母那一辈的同学会,更多的是分享悲伤的消息,例如疾病或死亡。

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Key Insights

Why did Crystal decide to host her high school's 10-year reunion?

Crystal wanted to attend the reunion to see how everyone had grown and catch up with old classmates. When she found out the class president wasn't planning it, she decided to step up to ensure the event happened, believing it would be a shame if no reunion took place.

What were the easier and more challenging aspects of planning the reunion?

The easier parts included securing a venue and handling logistics, which were surprisingly straightforward. The more challenging aspect was reaching out to classmates, as some emails were outdated, and relying on social media to spread the word.

How did Jisoo feel attending Crystal's high school reunion as a plus one?

Jisoo found the experience interesting and more enjoyable than her own high school reunions. She noticed fewer plus ones than expected and felt a bit like an outsider initially, but enjoyed the nostalgic atmosphere and the chance to observe the dynamics.

What was the vibe of Crystal's high school reunion like?

The vibe was very positive and wholesome, with no drama or gossip. People were happy to catch up, reminisce, and share updates on their lives. The atmosphere was relaxed and friendly, with everyone showing up with a positive attitude.

Why isn't Jisoo attending her own high school reunion?

Jisoo's reunion is scheduled close to Christmas, and she has other obligations during that time. Additionally, she feels she is still in touch with many high school friends, so the value of attending might be less for her.

What surprised Jisoo about Crystal's high school reunion?

Jisoo was surprised by how many people were still in the Bay Area and working in tech or startups. She also found it interesting that many attendees lived close to the venue, which made logistics easier for them.

How do Crystal's parents view reunions compared to high school reunions?

Crystal's parents have college reunions instead of high school ones, as their college class was much smaller. They also have a 20-year reunion tradition, referencing a Chinese song, and find these reunions more nostalgic and monumental than 10-year reunions.

What was the most surprising aspect of Crystal's mom's elementary school reunion?

The most surprising aspect was that the reunion focused more on sad news, such as people getting sick or passing away, rather than gossip. It was a more somber gathering, with less focus on fun or lighthearted updates.

Would Crystal and Jisoo attend a 50-year high school reunion?

Both Crystal and Jisoo said they would attend a 50-year high school reunion, even though they wouldn't plan the 20-year one. They joked that by then, they would likely have nothing else to do and might as well go.

Chapters
Crystal, inspired by nostalgia and a desire to reconnect with classmates, took the initiative to organize her high school's 10-year reunion after discovering the class president wasn't interested. The process turned out to be surprisingly easy, highlighting the simplicity of event planning.
  • Crystal organized her 10-year high school reunion.
  • She contacted the class president who wasn't interested.
  • The planning process was easier than expected.
  • The outdoor venue was chosen for its flexibility.

Shownotes Transcript

Today we talk about going to our 10 Year High School Reunions! We  talk about what it was like to plan and throw the reunion, and describe the vibes of the reunion as observed by the host and by a plus one! We discuss the thoughts and anxieties we had before attending, and chat about our parents’ experiences going to their reunions.

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