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claim your power and if you want to start your own podcast and if you want to change your life in the podcasting world all you have to do is download Spotify for podcasters and get started what's up beautiful people and welcome back to the claim your power podcast I hope you're having an amazing day and if you're new here my name is Kim and I'm your host and this is a warm welcome from me to you guys I'm so happy to be back
in the pod. It's been a little over a week since I filmed my last episode. I've been kind of busy lately, but currently it's 7.50 in the nighttime. 7.50 at night. No, currently it's 7.50 p.m. and I'm reporting at you live from my desk in my room. And today we're going to be talking about a really important topic.
um, about worthiness and mainly about the fact and this whole podcast episode is just going to be that mere reminder that you, my friend, are enough. So in this episode, um, we're gonna, we're gonna pretend like I am your older sister today, even though most of the demographics of my listener are actually older than me. Um, but we're going to pretend that
you know, you are not feeling like your highest self. You are lacking your worth. You are doubting whether you are enough for a job, for an experience, for a person. And today in this episode, you guys, I'm going to give you that pep talk because I'm energetic today. I'm hyper today. I'm a little bit of a mess and I'm a little clumsy today.
But folks, that does not deter me from the ability of giving you an amazing pep talk and reminding you that you are enough. So if today...
You have been doubting your worth. If today you have not been feeling like your highest self, you have not been feeling like you are enough for something, for someone, for anything, I've been called to make this episode and I think I felt that on an energetic level. And I'm going to remind you that you are 100% enough. Doubting your self-worth and who you are and your authenticity is
at least for me, has always stemmed down to my need to be externally validated and my need to be constantly understood and accepted for who I am as a person and as a soul and as a human being.
And the more I chased that, the more I chased the feelings of feeling understood, of fitting in with the crowd, of just perceiving things the way other people perceiving them, the more unhappier I grew and the more self-worth I actually lacked. And
Once I shifted my mindset and really started reminding myself of who I am and of my worthiness and that I am enough, I grew so much more comfortable in my own skin, in my own views, in my own perspective. And I think that is something so, so important. But
That step really starts with stepping into your power and claiming back your worthiness. Because a lot of the time in our lives, we allow other people, other experiences, other energies to strip us away from our worthiness. Whether it is from an experience with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend or with a friend or with a boss or with a family member.
We are constantly giving away our power when we abide to other people's standards and other people's perceptions of us. And this is something that we all do. This is something that everyone is guilty of. But the amazing part about this experience is that it teaches us to value our self-worth and to prioritize our well-being and our happiness and then claim it back. And where does the claiming back take place?
It takes place when you stop over explaining yourself to people because people only understand you from their level of perception. So a lot of the time, our worthiness wounds and our lack of not feeling enough really starts from the fact that we feel misunderstood. When we feel misunderstood, we try to over explain ourselves so that we are understood by our peers, by our family members, by the people around us.
But the mere truth is, is that people only perceive and understand you in the way that they perceive themselves and others. So no matter how much energy you drain out of yourself and put it towards proving your worth to someone, like chasing someone, chasing a boy or a girl or a man or a woman that does not want to be with you, and you constantly chase them and prove them your worth, you are
decreasing and lowering your personal vibration because you are chasing after someone and you're basically telling giving them your worth and you're telling them okay my worth belongs to you and you determine that so if that person doesn't replicate that same energy to you doesn't abide by your standards doesn't love you the way you want to be loved doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated it basically strikes your worthiness and
Giving away your worthiness is the same thing as giving away your power. It's basically saying to that person, to that entity, you know what? Cherish my worthiness and my self-love and my enoughness in someone else. And this stems back to our need for external validation because it's human nature to want to be externally validated and accepted, especially in society and
during these difficult times when there's a lot of polarization, a lot of separation, it's really hard for us to feel accepted all the time, to feel understood all the time,
And what's important is for us to be that friend, for us to be that person for ourselves that understands them, that doesn't abandon ourselves when it's hard, that reminds themselves every day in front of the mirror, I am enough just the way that I am. Okay, let me say it louder to the people in the back.
You are enough just the way that you are. You don't need to change one single thing to fit into anyone else's standards, anyone else's perceptions of you, expectations of you. The only person that you should be proving your worthiness to and your love to is yourself.
And if you are someone today that has really lacked that feeling, that has not felt like your high self, this is your reminder to step back into your power and to tell yourself right now, hug yourselves and say, I am enough. Kim is right.
I am enough and I'm here for a reason and I'm going to embrace my faults. I'm going to embrace my truth, my authenticity, and I'm going to show up as my highest true selves every day knowing my worth. You guys, I'm about to drop a major truth bomb on you, okay? Your value doesn't decrease based on someone else's inability to see your worth.
And when someone else is unable to see your worth, unable to see the love and light and the beauty in you,
It is someone that you should treat with compassion because that person is projecting their own wounds onto you. That person in themselves is not feeling worthy, is not feeling enough. And you guys, this is exactly where compassion comes in because someone who is sovereign in their authenticity, in the love they have for themselves, in their worthiness and in their truth,
does not need to bring someone else down, does not need to make someone else feel unworthy or not enough because they are full and fulfilled in their own being.
Worthiness stems from within. It stems from the inner work. It stems from your self-love. And in times, it's very, very hard to feel worthy and feel enough, especially when you have been through certain experiences that, you know, you were with a partner, with a family member, with a friend who is constantly over the top making you feel unworthy.
And it's really, really important to cultivate compassion and forgiveness to yourself after those experiences because you survive those experiences and you are here. You are here unleashing your potential. You are here claiming back your power and showcasing to the world your highest self because you are enough. You
You are enough. I'm gonna keep saying that. And if someone hasn't made you feel like that today, and I'm the first person to remind you this, I am so glad to be able to do this for you because you are worthy. You are enough of all the beautiful things in your life. You are worthy of all the amazing blessings and experiences in your life. You are worthy of true love. You are worthy of success.
You are worthy of abundance of health and claim that. Don't go around thinking that you aren't because the universe responds to your vibration. Claim back your power. Look in the mirror.
smile, make a duck face, I don't know, and remind yourself, yes, I'm sexy. Yes, I'm successful. Yes, I'm beautiful. Yes, I'm worthy. Yes, I love myself. Because guess what, guys? The way you love yourself is the way you teach others to love you. If you are in a constant vibration of feeling unworthy, of feeling shameful, of regret, of not loving yourself,
You're constantly going to be attracting experiences by the law of vibration, by the law of attraction. You're constantly going to be attracting experiences subconsciously into your life that will magnify that for you. You're constantly going to be attracting relationships, friendships, relationships
And, you know, opportunities into your life that will showcase to you, hey, guess what? Some part of me is unhealed. Some part of me doesn't believe I deserve it. And you will get also experiences that will challenge that and provide you room for growth. You will get experiences that will make you realize
reflect and make you think, okay, maybe I have been feeling unworthy. Maybe I have been feeling like I'm not enough. How do I cultivate those feelings back into my life? And when you step back into that vibration and into that power of knowing your self-worth and knowing that you are enough,
you're going to be constantly attracting so many beautiful, amazing people and experiences and opportunities that will confirm that for you. Okay, but if there's one thing that I can't leave out when we talk about worthiness, it's our ego.
And if you know that voice in your head that every time something good happens to you, every time you're successful at something, you meet someone new, that voice in your head is like, no, you're not worthy. You're not enough. You don't deserve that. What are you doing? You're not worthy of that. So if you're familiar with that dialogue, I want to present to you a different perspective.
and let you know that your ego and that voice in your head is actually not you. And it's in fact a product of all the judgment, wounds, and comments that you've received your whole life that have made you doubt your worth. Because when a new situation or opportunity arises for you that showcases your worth and your self-love, your ego is always one to point fingers. It's always one to bring you down. And our mind...
this is why i meditate all the time it's all about bringing you back to source and bringing you back to your worthiness into your sovereignty a really good signal to see when your ego you know goes into that fight or flight mode into that alarming phase of lacking worthiness it's so important to be conscious of that and identify when it's your ego talking versus when it's your highest self talking
And if you feel that your ego does a lot of that talking in your head about making you die of self-worth,
It's really important to ask yourself, what people or experiences in my life are actively making me feel this way and making me doubt my self-worth? And by even just identifying those experiences, whether they are in the past or in the present, those people from the past or the present, it's really important to actively remind yourself that those experiences, those people, do not define your own worth.
and your own sovereignty and your own authenticity. Those experiences shaped you into who you are. And by having a new perspective on those difficult experiences in your life,
You are able to provide yourself and cultivate a sense of gratitude. A gratitude for having those experiences because they shaped you into who you are and they challenged you to see things in the third eye and to cultivate more love for yourself and your self-worth. And those experiences no longer serve you. So if there's something in your head that has been bothering you, that has been making you doubt your skills, your gifts, your authenticity, your worth,
Remind yourself right now, pause this podcast episode and take a few moments to just tell yourself, I am enough. I am fulfilled and I am worthy. And just by saying those few words to yourself actively every day, and even in just in this present moment, you're actively stepping back into your power and claiming back your worth.
And if you are someone that has lacked that worth, that that worth has been missing from you for so, so long,
I really hope that you feel inspired to claim it back. Those feelings of worthiness and being enough all stem from within. It is only a service that only you can do to yourself. Okay, beautiful people. Thank you so much for joining me on this episode. I really hope that you feel empowered to take on the world, take on the rest of your day in a vibration of worthiness and self-love.