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Hello and welcome to the Claim Your Power podcast, the ultimate show for all things self-love, spirituality, and personal growth. I'm your host, Kim Peretz. I'm a three-time author, content creator, avid traveler, entrepreneur, and matcha enthusiast. You are at the right place if you're ready to rediscover the love within, align with your purpose, and unleash your highest potential. It's time to claim your power. Hi guys, welcome back to the podcast.
For today's episode, I've got a mini podcast episode for you today. Basically what I did is this podcast episode that you're going to be listening to today is actually footage taken from a YouTube video that I created about this topic and
And because I wanted more of you guys to listen to it and to know all about it, I decided I would transfer it onto the podcast as a little mini episode for you guys to soak up all the wisdom. I also want to let you guys know about an upcoming live workshop that I am hosting on June 21st.
drum roll please i am hosting a feminine energy workshop yes folks you asked for it and i am here to deliver a live workshop via zoom it's going to be absolutely iconic like think all of the episodes i've ever done on feminine energy but on steroids i mean we are going deep we are diving into feminine archetypes we're doing eft meditation journaling a live q a i mean there is going to be
so much stuff inside of the workshop. You really don't want to miss it. All the information is in the episode notes. Spaces are limited, so make sure to grab your spot down in the episode notes. And if you are based outside of the US, please make sure to check out with the European link. And if you don't know where it is, feel free to just DM me on Instagram, workshop, and I will send you right over. Without further ado, let's get into today's mini episode, how to enjoy your single era and how to stop throwing yourself a pity party.
Being single is not a burden. It's a blessing. Hi guys and welcome back to my channel. In today's video, I'm going to be teaching you how to stop throwing yourself a pity party and actually enjoy your single era. So if you are single right now and you're out here feeling lonely, feeling bad for yourself, constantly scrolling on dating apps, going into coffee shops, thinking every single man that you're seeing is your soulmate,
stop watch this video let's have a chat if you're new here my name is kim paretz please make sure to subscribe down below let's get into it in this video i'm going to be teaching you step by step how you're actually going to enjoy being single because the first thing that you have to realize about being single is that the universe sometimes in life isolates us for a reason and when we are experiencing a time in our life of stagnancy of
boredom of not having the relationship that we desire, that is actually an opportunity for ourselves to go inside of ourselves and do some introspection. Being single is a huge blessing. Do you know how much of an opportunity this is for you? You have to shift your mindset of this being a burden to this
being a gift. I know that if you've been single for a very long time, you've probably been overthinking, thinking you're never gonna meet your person, you're unlovable, you're unworthy, you're all of these things and all of these narratives and thoughts are just running in your head. But let me tell you something, right now, there is a reason that you are single. Maybe you do not understand that reason right now,
But with due time, you will look back at this exact phase in your life and you will miss this version of yourself because the truth is you will never be this exact version of yourself again. And if you are single right now, you have to start looking at this period in your life as a gift
as a blessing and not as a burden and not as a punishment. The weight is not punishment in life, it is preparation. And if you are single right now, you have no idea how important it is for you to start learning how to actually be in your own company. This is your time to explore new interests, new hobbies, to try new things, to get out of your comfort zone. Being single is not something to dread, it's actually something to be grateful for.
Because the universe is having you be single right now for a reason. It is because you need to learn necessary lessons. You need to go through necessary experiences. You have to become a certain version of yourself before you can let a certain relationship into your life. Let me tell you something. It is so much better to be alone than to settle into mediocre half-ass.
relationships. It is so much better to be alone than to be in a relationship that makes you feel alone. Stop throwing yourself a pity party. You need to start owning the fact that you are single because you are single by choice because you have high standards because you value yourself because your life and your personal goals are something that are important for you and you know just how amazing your energy and your heart is. Therefore, you're not going to give it to every single person that just gives you attention.
own the fact that you're single. I know that society tells you there's pressure and people are constantly trying to fill their own voids by entering relationships from a low point of view, from a low frequency. One of the greatest realizations I've ever made in my life, and this has brought me so much peace, is that being single does not equate to being alone and having a relationship or having friendships does not equate to having good company. And when I realized this,
my life shifted because I stopped comparing my journey to other people's because the truth is just because you see other people doing something with their life does not mean that your journey isn't as good. It doesn't mean that you're any less than. You are at the pace of your own path. Other people have the pace of their own path.
and you need to stop comparing yourself right now because it's not useful, it's not bringing you anywhere, and it's not making you feel good. Being comfortable alone is empowering and let me tell you something, it is honestly addicting. It is honestly addicting to the point where you know how to fill up your cup, you created a life for yourself that you genuinely love, you are emotionally independent, and you get your energy from inside of yourself.
You don't outsource it outwards. You don't expect other people in your life, other relationships, other men, other women to make you feel a certain way. You do that to yourself from inside of you. It is a power that no one can...
It is a power that no one can stand in the way of because honestly, it becomes addicting because you attain such a deep sense of peace because you know your worth, you know your value, and you know that you are not interested in giving your energy and your heart away just to anyone. Being single is about being able to celebrate and appreciate being in your own space
and your own energy. Your love, your pureness, your power comes from inside of you. It is not dependent on other people to fill that void. If you are choosing to stay single right now instead of temporary forms of gratification or half loves or relationships that you know aren't serving you, you should pat yourself on the back and you should be extremely proud of yourself because that takes a lot of consistency,
a lot of self-worth and a lot of self-discipline to choose, to know that you could settle here, you could settle there, you could have these temporary forms of gratification, but you choose the higher route. You chose yourself. And if you are that type of person watching this video right now, I want to tell you that I'm so, so, so proud of you.
So proud of you and you should be proud of yourself. If you are single right now, this is your opportunity to go out and create the life that you love, the life that no one else can take away from. So that once you are in a place where your life is so whole and so amazing and is fueled from inside of you, from your own energy, then a person can come into your life and just add
more to that. Go out and live your life. Do not wait. Don't live your life passively. Live your life now. Enjoy where you are now. And when you are present, when you pour into your own self-love, into your own healing, into your own personal growth, then you start drawing more love into your life because you become love. Don't wait to finally be in a relationship in order to be happy. Don't
Don't wait for the person to come in and then you can build a life that you love for yourself. Then you can feel confident. Then you can feel love. Start feeling that love, that confidence, that joy from inside of you first. That is the biggest lesson that being single will teach you. It is how to fill up your own cup and how to celebrate being in your own space and feeling whole regardless. Don't be a queen waiting on her king. Be a queen
building her empire, building her kingdom, and then her king will just come in and waltz into her life to court her at the right time. Do not wait passively in your life. Be present and live your life and enjoy your life because at
all this time that you're thinking to yourself how single and you're scrolling all these dating apps and you're trying to force all these relationships you could be building yourself up you can be building your life you could be accomplishing your goals you could be going after yourself you can be pouring into your friendships and that is a gift you are the love of your life you are your soulmates never forget that