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Hello, hello, beautiful souls, and welcome to the Claim Your Power podcast, the ultimate show for all things New Age spirituality, entrepreneurship, and embodied leadership. I'm your host, Kim Peretz. I'm an author, entrepreneur, and yoga enthusiast. If you're ready to step up, tap into your gifts, and unleash your potential, you are at the right place. It's time to claim your power.

Hello, my beautiful friends, and welcome back to the Claim Your Power podcast. I want to give you guys a little life update right now. I'm actually in the process of moving, so I'm sitting in my room, and it's basically empty. I'm just sitting on the ground filming this podcast for you guys. So I feel like every time I'm talking right now, there's such a big echo, and I'm hoping it's not getting picked up by the mic.

But yeah, that's my little life update for you guys. I'm very excited for today's episode because this topic is something that I wanted to talk about on the pod for a very long time. And today I just woke up and I was like, today's the day. I feel called to talk about this. I have some personal experiences to share about this topic.

And we're doing solo. No guests today. It's just me and you. So I'm excited to dive into the topic and drumroll please. Today we're going to be talking all about how to become a super attractor and how to stop chasing and being in this desperate chasing energy and shift and alchemize into a gravitative, flowing, everything flows to me energy.

I first want to start off by saying that what I'm about to talk about today and like the techniques and this topic can be applied to every single area of your life. I feel like a lot of people when they envision like the stop chasing become a super attractor topic, they think about it only for relationships.

But I want to mention that what we're about to cover today is a topic and a technique that you can apply to every single part of your life. I mean relationships, jobs, manifestations, friendship, unhealed wounds, like all these things and everything that I'm going to cover today can be applied to all these areas in your life. And so I really hope that you feel called to use what I'm about to talk about today and take whatever resonates with you.

and then use it as a catalyst for creating beautiful shifts in your own life.

So I feel like in order to provide a foundation for this topic, we first have to dive into the energetics of it. So I want to kind of dabble a little bit on divine feminine and masculine energies. If this is like a topic that interests you, I filmed like a couple recent episodes on it and I have some episodes like all about dark feminine energy coming out with Kaylin Malley. It should probably be out by the time that this episode is out. So if that's like a topic that you feel really called to learn more about, you should definitely check out that episode.

But I want to dive into it like on the low key right now and say that in order to understand like the concept of not chasing and becoming the super attractor, you first have to understand the energetics of how things work in our day-to-day life. So there's this concept and it's honestly prevalent in so many different philosophies and like religions and spiritual notions and it's this idea of divine masculine and feminine energy.

I do want to say that divine masculine and feminine energy has nothing to do with gender. It's energetics. So every single person has a divine masculine and feminine energy to them. And it's all about finding a balance between the two. So the divine feminine energy side to it is all about flowing. It's about expression. It's about receiving. It's about being present. And

The problem is with a lot of people around the world is because we live in such a fast-paced, capitalistic society, a lot of us tend to be very in our masculine and lack a connection to the feminine energy. The masculine is all about doing. It's about taking action. It's about working towards something. It's about creating. And all of that, there's such an important balance between the two.

Now, when it comes to attracting something or manifesting or creating something, what a lot of us tend to do is be incredibly in our masculine, but lack the connection to the feminine. So we'll set out the intention, we'll take a line action, we'll work for it, but then we can't let

go and that can be manifested in relationships where a partner is showing interest in us and suddenly they're not and so we feel the need to chase them and make them stay in our lives and prove ourselves to them we're very in our masculine or that can be a manifestation when you set an intention out to the universe you're working for it but

You can't help but wonder when it's going to get to you and you're stressing out about it and you're saying the universe is not delivering on time and so you're not in your feminine energy. And while it's so important to be in your masculine and to take inspired action and to work towards something, it's also equally as important to learn how to let go and be in your feminine because when you let go, you let grace. And I'm not saying that in like a religious way, but I'm saying when you let go, you allow grace.

So much abundance to come to you because when you hold on to something, you are not seeing things clearly. That can be applied to so many things in your life. But when you are holding on to something so desperately that if you did not hold on to it, you know that that person or that opportunity would walk out of your life, that is how you know that that thing is not aligned for you. Because when you are in a free-flowing energy and a receiving mode, what's meant for you will easily disappear.

simply naturally gravitate towards you and you will not need to hold on to anything you will not need to resist or to desperately chase because you are a portal for receiving and when you align with that energy of wow i am a portal and things come to me i do not chase i attract you allow the universe to deliver to you what is most for your highest good

I very much believe in the power of co-creation and manifestation and the law of attraction and the law of assumption. And you know, the list goes on. I very much believe that we are powerful beings and we have creative power. But I also do not believe in the extremes of it.

I think it's all about co-creation. It's about meeting the universe halfway and finding manifestation meets fate. And I think a lot of us, when we get into our spiritual powers and we learn more about how powerful we are as beings, we tend to let our ego come in and control. And so we forget that in order to create, we have to co-create. We have to work alongside the universe. So if you are trying to manifest something and you see so many blocks and resistance to it and you did the inner work and the subconsciousness

conscious work and you know that you are worthy of it and that thing is something that you want and it's not coming into your life, you have to realize that there is divine timing and divine fate behind everything. And sometimes when something is not coming into your life, when an opportunity or person or a thing is

is not manifesting or coming into fruition, it does not necessarily mean that you did the manifestation wrong or that you have unhealed wounds or subconscious wounds that you need to work through. Sometimes it just means that it's not the right time. So one of my favorite quotes that I absolutely love is this idea that the universe only responds in three ways: yes, not yet, or I have something better.

And the power of becoming a super attractor and letting go of this chasing energy and surrendering is understanding that the universe will always deliver what is meant to serve you and your highest good. And so if something is not coming into fruition in your life, instead of focusing on the lack of it and the scarcity of it, ask yourself, what is it that you want to do?

what am I actually wanting out of this? Because do I actually want it? Because sometimes we think we want something. We think we want the relationship, the material, possession, the job. But then you ask yourself and you tune into your heart and you realize, you know what? Maybe I don't want that nine to five job that pays a really big salary because I have a dream to become an artist and I want to move to the Caribbean and sell my artwork.

And so when you tune into your heart, you will realize that the universe was always at your side and you will realize that the universe always had your back. And sometimes we were just blinded to that fact. Sometimes we think as humans that we know what we want, but the universe, I'm telling you, the universe knows what's right for you. So sometimes what we want is not actually what our soul wants. It's just what our ego surface level wants.

But the universe knows us on a soul level and it's going to deliver anything or everything that is going to allow you to have the most abundant growth expansion experience. Okay, going back really quick to the energetics of things, I want to mention the frequency chart real quick because when I was learning about this topic, understanding the frequency chart really helped me

understand how becoming a super attractor will change your life and how you can align with the vibrations of your manifestation to create shifts in your life. So if you don't know what the frequency chart is, I wish like I had like a way to like put it up on the podcast, but you can look up like frequency, spiritual frequency chart, and it'll show you all these different emotions or vibrations. So at the bottom, there'll be fear, anxiety,

anger, resentment, and at the top, there'll be love, peace, enlightenment. And in the middle, there'll be like neutrality, courage, pride, desire. And then you go up to the top. There's again, things like enlightenment, joy, love. Now, when you get out of that desperate chasing energy, the best way to like logistify it and explain it is through the frequency chart. So let's say you are trying to call in love into your life.

So love is like one of the top frequencies in the vibrational chart. So if you are trying to call in love into your life, but you are down below in the fear and resentment frequency, you will not be able to attract the love and the relationship that your soul truly desires because you are vibrating from a state of fear and lack.

And so in order to create something and attract what your soul truly wants, you have to change your vibration and align with a new frequency. I really don't like when people mention this idea that like, oh, you're out of alignment, like you're not aligned with your highest self. Because the truth is you are always in alignment. The question is, what are you in alignment with?

Are you in alignment with love and joy and peace? Or are you in alignment with fear and lack and resentment? And so in order for you to change your life, you have to change your frequency. And the way you change your frequency is through the thoughts, the way you express your emotions, the way you take care of yourselves, the way you allow yourself to express your truth.

So in order to become a super attractor and a magnet for your manifestation, you have to become a vibrational match for what you want to call into your life. So if you want to have more joy and love in your life, but you are in a state of fear, then in order for you to shift and change your life and become a magnet for what you truly desire, you have to begin to reflect and eliminate the things in your life that no longer serve you and call in and create space for what does.

So, for example, if you watch the news every single morning and that is how you get your dopamine, like the first thing you wake up is your first hit of dopamine. So if the first thing you do when you wake up is you meditate, then you will crave that the rest of the day. You will crave that inner peace and that quietness and that gentleness in your mind. But if the first thing that you do when you wake up is watch the news or check social media and that is how you get your dopamine right away, then you will, your entire day will desire and want to check your phone. You will always want to be

caught up in somebody else's life and so you will not be aligned with your own present moment and I think like I want to make a whole podcast episode just about like morning rituals because I think that's something that's changed my life and was very helpful to me so if that's something that you want I will I will gladly make an episode all about that but

Again, going back to the fear state of your manifestation. So if you are doing things that constantly evoke more fear in your life, like watching the news, I don't know, watching like scary videos or scary movies on TikTok, or maybe like you're in a state of resentment. And so you are constantly spending time with people that don't make you feel empowered.

or you are engaging in gossip or tearing down other people in your life. The way to become a super attractor for your manifestation is through choice, conscious choice. Because the truth is, and this is like a hard truth, and some people may not be ready to hear it. Everything comes down to a choice. And we always have a choice. That is not to say that there are consequences to our choices. But there are soul if you believe that you always have a choice,

you attain the sense of freedom that cannot be taken away from you. Because if you believe that you never have a choice in your life, you become helpless. And then when you become helpless, you are vibrating from a state of hopelessness and lack. So the way you claim back your power from these situations is understand that I always have a choice.

I am not I don't have to go to work tomorrow you don't have to I mean what are the consequences that you could get fired you could lose your salary you could lose your benefits your insurance but you do not have to go to work tomorrow you were choosing to go to work and when you change that mindset when you make that shift and you realize wow I am consciously making this choice like I don't have to hang out with that person I don't have to go out to dinner with them I'm choosing to go out to dinner with

them. And when you make that choice, you claim back so much personal power, more than you could ever imagine. And that is how you get out of the desperate chasing energy as you realize and you attain the sense of freedom of choice that you've never had before. And that my friends is how you become a super attractor is you realize that all your choices, all the things you do in your life, all the actions you take are going to vibrationally match your manifestation.

So for example, if you want to attract love into your life, you want to attract a conscious, loving, amazing relationship into your life. But all you do in your free time is talk about how much you hate men and how much men are trash and how much things never work out for you and how much your dating life sucks. How are you going to attract

Something that is opposite of that if all you do is take your energy and focus on the lack Because when you are in a place of lack you are going to attract more lack into your life If you believe that all men are trash guess what the universe responds and delivers what you believe in not what you deserve So if you believe that all men are trash You're just going to keep on going on dates with people and men that are trash

And that's just the truth. But if you worked on your subconscious breakthroughs and on your limiting beliefs and you said, okay, that is not true. I cannot demonize an entire group of people because if I exist, then that means that a reflection of me exists as well because we are all reflections of each other.

And that means that there is another person, another partner out there for me that is just like me, that feels the same way, that wants the same thing and is waiting out there for me. And right now I'm just waiting to meet them in divine timing. What you focus on expands and that is the key and the power to becoming a manifestation magnet is you realize that you can always dedicate your energy and shift your energy back to what you do want to see in your life.

something that my mom actually taught me is this idea that when you focus on what you don't want in your life, you're going to see more of that because the universe responds to your vibration and to your frequency. But if every morning you took a piece of paper and you wrote down even like three things of what you did want to see in your life, of what you do love to do, of what you do love to create, then the universe can't help but be like,

yes girl like i got you i have your back let's make it happen because the universe gets so excited when you claim back your power because the universe and your spear guides are out there being like yes the is back

They want to see you claiming your power. They want to see you feeling powerful, connected to your feminine force. And that, my friends, is how you can change your life. And as you realize that the universe always had your back, it's meeting you halfway, but you have to take that step too. That goes back to your masculine. You have to take the aligned action. You have to be conscious and be self-aware of your actions and choices. Fate meets conscious intention and choice meets aligned action.

is the formula to becoming a manifestation magnet and a super attractor. I don't know if you want to write this down, you want to take a mental note of it, but when you make the choice, you take the aligned action, and you trust in the divine timing of your life, and you surrender, and you let go,

Then you get out of that desperate chasing energy and you welcome in a new frequency and a new vibration and so many new doors of opportunities. Beautiful souls, thank you so much for joining me in today's episode. As always, feel free to DM me on Instagram if you have any topic suggestions for future episodes or if you would like to apply to be a guest on the show. I hope you feel inspired to claim your power today. Bye.

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