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When Do You Tell Your Date You're Rich?

2024/8/6
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通过在《Mac Geek Gab》播客中分享有用的技术提示,特别是关于Apple产品的版本控制。
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Alex: 在约会初期,我不主动提及自己的财富,而是通过谈论生活方式(例如,每周工作时间短,经常旅行)来暗示。我认为过早透露财富会吸引错误的人,并带来不必要的焦虑。只有在关系发展到一定程度(例如六个月)后,我才可能会被对方察觉或推断出我的财富状况。我更看重的是与对方建立真诚的连接,而不是炫耀财富。在选择长期伴侣时,我会更关注对方在财务规划和慈善捐赠方面的价值观是否与我一致。 Sam Parr: 约会中坦诚分享财务状况会带来焦虑,例如担心被利用或造成权力不平衡,以及担心显得自大或炫耀。但完全隐瞒也不是长久之计,关键在于如何以及何时进行坦诚的沟通。Alex 的策略是延迟透露,让对方逐渐了解他的财富状况,避免突兀的揭露。他还强调了找到与自己生活方式和价值观相符的伴侣的重要性。 Ann Maloum: 为了避免因财富差异导致的权力不平衡,我选择在婚姻初期就赠予丈夫一部分资金,以确保双方在财务上更加平等。这有助于在关系中建立更平衡和健康的动态,避免一方感到被控制或被利用。

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Discusses the anxieties of sharing financial status early in dating and the potential for attracting the wrong kind of attention or coming off as braggy.

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Dating is already weird and vulnerable, but when you’re wealthy, talking finances can feel like dropping a bombshell.

In this episode, we explore the complexities of dating with significant wealth and how to handle the inevitable conversations about money.

Today's guest, who we'll call Alex, is worth around $133 million. His journey to wealth began with a company he founded with his now ex-wife, and he’s here to share his experiences on navigating the dating world post-divorce.

Alex started his entrepreneurial journey with multiple failed ventures before hitting success with his third company, which he co-founded with his ex-wife. After a difficult and non-amicable divorce, which involved complex asset division, Alex found himself back on the dating scene. 

In this episode, Alex opens up about the unique anxieties of dating with a substantial net worth. He discusses how he avoids flaunting his wealth to prevent attracting the wrong kind of attention. We delve into the challenges of sharing financial details with new partners and the importance of finding someone who shares similar lifestyle values. Alex also shares practical advice on how to approach the conversation about money with transparency and integrity, and his personal experiences in navigating these waters.

This is **Moneywise, **a podcast where host Sam Parr is joined by high-net-worth guests to explore exclusive insights into personal finance and lifestyle tailored for other high-net-worth people, or those on their way. They'll get radically transparent about the numbers, revealing things like their burn rates, portfolios, and spending habits.

Who is Sam Parr?

Sam is a serial entrepreneur and the co-founder of The Hustle), which he sold )to HubSpot )in 2021. He's also the co-host of one of the world's top podcasts for entrepreneurs, My First Million). Known for his insightful business acumen and candid communication style, Sam Parr continues to be a prominent figure in the world of media and entrepreneurship. Sam's newest and biggest venture yet is Hampton), which he co-founded in 2022.

This podcast was made for the Hampton community), a private, highly-vetted, peer membership community for founders and CEOs of fast-growing, tech-enabled startups.

Chapters:

Meet Alex (02:02)

Alex's Modest Lifestyle and Financial Transparency (04:15)

Navigating Relationships with Wealth (06:54)

Alex's Approach to Dating (11:06)

Power Imbalance and Financial Compatibility (18:50)

Final Thoughts and Advice (26:17)

This podcast was produced in partnership with Lower Street) and distributed by Morning Brew.)

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