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How to Not Ruin Your Kids with Your Wealth ft. Dr. Becky

2024/8/20
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以《My First Million》播客主持人和企业家身份而闻名,专注于发现和分享高利润商业模式。
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Sam Parr: 作为一名成功的企业家和新手爸爸,Sam Parr 非常关注如何避免财富对孩子产生负面影响,他希望孩子能够成为一个有韧性、有动力、全面发展的成年人,而不是一个被宠坏、缺乏动力的孩子。他认为,即使有足够的财富可以避免孩子经历挫折,但让孩子学会应对挑战和克服困难至关重要。他邀请了育儿专家 Dr. Becky 来分享她的经验和见解。 Dr. Becky: Dr. Becky 是一位临床心理学家,也是 Good Inside 的创始人。她结合自身经验和专业知识,分享了她在富裕环境中养育孩子的经验。她认为,父母应该有意识地让孩子经历一些挑战和挫折,即使他们有能力避免这些困难。她强调了培养孩子韧性的重要性,以及如何帮助孩子学会容忍挫折,避免他们对挫败感的恐惧,从而避免特权感的产生。她还分享了如何平衡事业和家庭,以及如何设定界限来保护自己和孩子的时间和精力。她认为,父母应该成为孩子的榜样,以身作则,让孩子看到父母是如何克服困难的。她还强调了培养孩子内在动力的重要性,而不是仅仅依赖外部奖励。她认为,父母应该帮助孩子找到自己的人生方向,并过上符合自己价值观的生活,而不是强加自己的期望给孩子。 Dr. Becky: Dr. Becky 认为,父母应该帮助孩子学会容忍各种情绪,包括挫折、无聊和等待。她建议父母不要总是为孩子解决问题,而是让孩子自己去面对挑战。她还建议父母让孩子参与一些他们不情愿但对成长有益的事情,例如,陪同兄弟姐妹参加活动。她认为,这些经历能够帮助孩子培养韧性、自信和独立性。她还分享了如何平衡事业和家庭,以及如何设定界限来保护自己和孩子的时间和精力。她认为,父母应该成为孩子的榜样,以身作则,让孩子看到父母是如何克服困难的。她还强调了培养孩子内在动力的重要性,而不是仅仅依赖外部奖励。她认为,父母应该帮助孩子找到自己的人生方向,并过上符合自己价值观的生活,而不是强加自己的期望给孩子。

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Dr. Becky discusses the challenges of raising resilient kids in a wealthy environment and introduces her approach through her platform Good Inside.

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Worried that your wealth might turn your kids into spoiled, unmotivated adults?

Dr. Becky’s here to show us how to raise resilient, grounded kids even when money isn’t an issue.

She’s the force behind "Good Inside", often called the "millennial parent whisperer." With a clinical psychology background, and her own experience parenting young kids while founding a rapidly growing successful business, she’s full of valuable insights on how to raise kids in a wealthy environment without them becoming spoiled and entitled.

In this episode, Dr. Becky explains why it's crucial for kids to experience challenges, even when you can afford to remove obstacles, and why you too need to do more hard things. She provides actionable tips on setting boundaries, managing a demanding career while being present for your family, and encouraging internal motivation. We also explore how your behavior and energy as a parent shape your children's growth and resilience.

This is **Moneywise, **a podcast where host Sam Parr is joined by high-net-worth guests to explore exclusive insights into personal finance and lifestyle tailored for other high-net-worth people, or those on their way. They'll get radically transparent about the numbers, revealing things like their burn rates, portfolios, and spending habits.

Who is Sam Parr?

Sam is a serial entrepreneur and the co-founder of The Hustle), which he sold )to HubSpot )in 2021. He's also the co-host of one of the world's top podcasts for entrepreneurs, My First Million). Known for his insightful business acumen and candid communication style, Sam Parr continues to be a prominent figure in the world of media and entrepreneurship. Sam's newest and biggest venture yet is Hampton), which he co-founded in 2022.

This podcast was made for the Hampton community,) a private, highly-vetted, peer membership community for founders and CEOs of fast-growing, tech-enabled startups.

Chapters:

Dr. Becky's Journey and Good Inside (02:41)

Balancing Business and Family Life (07:57)

Teaching Kids Resilience and Handling Frustration (13:04)

Self-Improvement and Parenting (21:57)

Small Steps for Big Changes (23:09)

Managing Anxiety and Productivity (24:23)

Balancing Family Time (25:50)

Teaching Financial Responsibility (28:41)

Legacy and Parenting Philosophy (33:36)

Good Inside App (36:45)

This podcast was produced in partnership with Lower Street) and distributed by Morning Brew.)