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Episode 10, Jai Songs Made Crush Go Crazy So this is something from around the time of lockdown. So during the lockdown, this particular girl was a friend of my friend. So she was a friend of my friend, I never knew her clearly at that time, who she was, how she was. We were just in a group on WhatsApp.
So it was like that. And when the lockdown started opening up, we thought, let's meet up. Once it's done, we're all ready to go home. So when we met, what happened after we met? We spent a good time, we had fun. But at that time, everyone forced me to sing, sing, sing, sing, sing, sing, vibe. Just because I sing, people forced me a lot. So then I sang.
And fortunately or unfortunately, I sang his favourite song, the one I'm talking about, and that song was perfect. Ed Sheeran's.
And he went crazy listening to it. He went crazy like, "Oh my God, this is my favorite song. This particular line is my favorite and you sang that." And I was like, "Okay, someone liked the song and someone else liked it." All the friends were sitting there, but someone else liked it. Okay, that's good.
Then the conversation continued, the numbers exchanged personally. Then later, my text was going on normally. And suddenly, I had a question from my friend.
Because the conversations were going on very well. We used to get video calls from her. We used to talk on video calls. Because the lockdown was still not completely open. And everything was going on on text. So then one day, my friend suddenly asked me this question. This particular girl, of course I won't tell you her name. For obvious reasons. So this particular girl, do you like her or not? And till then, nothing was going on in my mind.
Because I always feel that I am out of league for my marriage. So, when she asked me this question, I was shocked. And when I asked her, "What does he do?" I started thinking whether it is true or not. So, when I started thinking, I said, "Yes, it is true. It looks good."
Because my friend gave me an indication that she likes me. So I was like, okay, that is the first in my life that someone is liking me. So then later I talked and talked and then slowly my feelings started generating. I also started liking her and I started liking her so much that I went crazy about her.
And I was like, okay, that's good. She also does that. And I was like, yo, finally something can happen. And then what happened? Then another guy added. Now I don't know this guy. And suddenly I'm seeing that these two are getting very close. So I was like, what happened? Because she used to talk to me very lovingly. Exactly the way she used to talk that she is my girlfriend. But then I'm seeing that these two are getting very close.
So I didn't pay much attention to it. I was just watching what was happening. And one day I found out that the boy had proposed to her. So I was even more shocked. But at that time, I still had one girl who liked me. She didn't say yes, of course not.
So I took a suggestion from a friend that what should I do now? He said, "Do one thing, you tell me, whatever is in your mind, because how long will you keep it? How long will it go on like this, that yes, there is something, there is something, it is better to confirm and tell me." So I told him.
And my way of speaking was also very unique. I regret it a lot that I did such a unique shit. But okay. So the unique thing was that I sang the same song which was his favorite and I did a slide. Whatever I wanted to say, I was singing and I had written things on a very big page and while singing I was showing him a slide. And then I proposed to him.
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So I was confused and then I came to know that when she saw my video, she was already on the call with the same guy with whom the mis-and-match happened. And I was actually very shocked and very broke down that how this happened and why this happened. And if she really liked me, then she shouldn't have replied like this.
Even though she used to like me at one point, she wouldn't like me now. But what is a reply like this? I left her after saying okay. She gave me a little explanation, but I stopped talking to her. I completely ignored her. I didn't talk to her at all. After a month, she came back to my life and she started the conversation again.
After taking a good time, I thought, okay, now I can say hi, hello. And then I talked to her nicely, everything was fine. But again, there was a problem. Again, she was talking to me in the same way as I am her boyfriend. Like, hugging, talking lovingly, talking about staying together. And I was so confused that when I proposed to her,
Then you didn't say anything right. And after a month, you are doing the same things again and again you are giving me pain. I said, what are you trying to do? Why are you doing this? So, I was like, what is happening? So, I said, okay, I will feel good when such reactions and such conversations happen from the front. So, I was feeling good. But I was like, why? Then one
And I got a mutual friend, who of course became my new friend, who was already his friend. So he told me that the boy with whom they came in between, their relationship is going on. They are both in a relationship. So I said, what? He said, yes, when he proposed, he was in a relationship since then. So I said, okay. He said, yes, they have been in a relationship for about two months now.
I said what are you talking about? He said yes. I still didn't believe him because it is a word coming out of a person. There was no proof. Neither he nor I had proof. And I have never seen them together nor he has. It is not completely open. But he said that their relationship is going on. I said okay. Now it is going on. One day what happened? One day I got to know and I did a conference. I got to know through someone. Some conversations came.
So I confronted him and he strongly denied it. He said that it's not like that. And then one day, I got a direct call from the person I was in a relationship with. I got a direct call. And I kind of had a fight with him. So I handled it according to my own understanding. But it was like, yes, there was a relationship.
And in the last conversation, when she came, she apologized and cried a lot. She cried a lot. She said, "You did so much for me and you helped me so much in my... Because it was the lockdown time and there was some drama going on at home. So you helped me so much and everything." And all that happened. But it was like, what is the point? When I explained this to her,
If you are in a relationship with someone, you should have a framework to talk to. You are already in a relationship and you have a friend who is a boy. How can you talk to him in such a way that he is your boyfriend?
And literally, there were such things that I can't even describe. And it was like, he never understood the barrier of such things. That it happens sometimes. And it was like, very weird. Why? So then I explained to him about this thing very well. And...
Then I stopped talking to him. Even today, I get texts and calls from him, but I don't pick them up. Because, why? I don't want to go into his shit again. And that is, the Daira, he didn't know. And this is my story, it's kind of like a very strong crush of mine.
Whom I didn't want it to be a crush of mine. But eventually happened. Because I thought I am a crush of her. And then she crushed me all over. So this is my story.
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