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113. “I feel like the parent in our marriage. And I hate it”

2023/7/18
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Nicole：长期以来，我在婚姻中承担了主要的理财责任，扮演着父母的角色，这让我感到厌倦和不满。我担心未来的财务状况，这源于我观察到一些亲朋好友退休后财务状况的窘迫。我希望与Matt建立平等的财务伙伴关系，共同规划未来，而不是单方面主导。 Matt：我过去有冲动消费和酗酒的习惯，这导致我的财务状况长期不佳。尽管最近收入增加，我的消费习惯并没有改变，我仍然缺乏理财规划和自律。我害怕金钱，并因此逃避与金钱相关的事情。我需要学习基本的理财知识和技巧，并建立系统化的理财方式。我需要改变过去贫困的思维模式，并建立新的理财习惯。 Ramit Sethi：Nicole和Matt的理财问题根源于过去经历和情感。Nicole对财务的过度掌控源于她的焦虑和对未来的担忧，而Matt的财务问题则与他的消费习惯、成瘾行为和对金钱的恐惧有关。他们需要改变旧有的行为模式，建立新的理财习惯，并改善彼此间的沟通和信任。需要考虑双方各自的财务起点和认知水平，从基本的理财知识入手，逐步建立系统化的理财方式。

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Ramit Sethi announces the release of his new book, 'Money for Couples,' and discusses the importance of couples aligning their financial goals and behaviors.

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Nicole and Matt, 41 and 37, have weathered deaths in the family, a battle with alcoholism, and career difficulties to finally be on the right track and earning more income as a couple. But, the past has left them with trust issues and a stark imbalance when it comes to money responsibilities.

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