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216. The psychology of resentment

2024/7/26
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怨恨并非负面情绪,而是对公平与尊重的渴望。它源于我们对自身价值和应得待遇的认知,以及对不公平对待的感受。怨恨可以被视为一种情感警报,提醒我们人际关系或自身处境中存在问题。忽视怨恨只会加剧负面情绪,损害人际关系,并对身心健康造成负面影响。处理怨恨的方法包括:坦诚沟通、运用“自我疏离”技术、降低期望、书写感受、明确自身需求,并决定如何行动(沟通、降低期望或寻求新的关系)。最终目标是获得平静,这可能并不意味着原谅,而是为了自身的安宁。

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Resentment is sometimes labelled as an ugly or bad emotion, something that is derived from a sense of entitlement. In actuality, resentment is a really useful emotion, it serves as an emotional alarm, it teaches us what we value, and it can help us understand our own expectations and sense of self worth even more. Despite that, when we don't manage our resentment well it can also come to harm our relationships or cause us to be too rash. In today's episode, we break down the psychology of resentment, including:

  • Why we experience resentment
  • What you resentment may be telling you 
  • Our 3 ways to respond to resentment 
  • How to release resentment and move through it

 

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