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337: What if they delighted in your misery?

2024/10/29
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Witt Misseldein: 本期节目讲述了一个科幻作家Patrick S. Tomlinson在社交媒体上遭遇网络跟踪狂的经历,这些跟踪狂以破坏他的生活为乐,对他的身心健康造成了极大的伤害。 Patrick S. Tomlinson: 我在社交媒体上发布了一条看似无害的推文后,一群网络跟踪狂盯上了我,他们试图摧毁我的事业、名誉和家庭,甚至威胁要杀害我。他们的行为从网络延伸到现实生活,包括账号被封禁、名誉受损、人身安全受到威胁、住所被入侵、收到死亡威胁等等。他们还利用虚假信息攻击我的家人、朋友和同事,对我的生活造成了极大的困扰和伤害。警方对他们的行为也未能有效制止,甚至在接到虚假报警后,多次出警,对我的家人和我的安全造成了极大的威胁。 我经历了长达数年的网络跟踪和现实生活中的骚扰,身心健康受到了极大的损害,我患上了复杂性创伤后应激障碍(CPTSD)。这起事件也反映了网络暴力和网络跟踪的严重性,以及现行法律体系在应对这类犯罪方面的不足。 Patrick S. Tomlinson: 我的经历并非个例,网络跟踪狂们常常选择那些缺乏足够经济实力保护自己的人作为目标,他们利用互联网的匿名性和信息传播的便捷性,对受害者进行持续不断的骚扰和迫害,造成难以弥补的伤害。我们需要加强立法,完善法律体系,加大对网络暴力和网络跟踪的打击力度,保护受害者的合法权益。同时,我们也需要提高公众的网络安全意识,共同抵制网络暴力,维护健康的网络环境。

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Why did the cyber-stalking group target Patrick Tomlinson?

They targeted him after he tweeted that he didn't find comedian Norm Macdonald funny, which was picked up by a subreddit community known for weaponizing their followers to harass and destroy lives. They saw an opportunity to attack someone criticizing Norm Macdonald, who was defending controversial figures like Roseanne Barr.

What tactics did the cyber-stalking group use against Patrick Tomlinson?

They used a variety of tactics, including mass false reporting to suspend his social media accounts, impersonation accounts to spread defamatory content, doxing his personal information, and orchestrating fake one-star reviews on platforms like Amazon and Goodreads. They also escalated to physical stalking, vandalism, and swatting, making fake emergency calls to police to provoke violent responses.

How did the cyber-stalking group impact Patrick Tomlinson's career?

They targeted his books with fake one-star reviews, spreading lies about their content to damage his reputation and sales. They also impersonated him to attack his professional network, including female authors and agents, further harming his career.

What was the most dangerous escalation by the cyber-stalking group?

The most dangerous escalation was the swatting incidents, where they made fake emergency calls to police, including one claiming Patrick had murdered his wife. These calls led to police showing up with guns drawn, putting his life in immediate danger.

How did the cyber-stalking group affect Patrick Tomlinson's personal life?

They isolated him by attacking his friends and family, forcing some to distance themselves for safety. They also targeted businesses he frequented, leaving fake negative reviews and making harassing calls, making it difficult for him to maintain normal social interactions.

What role did Section 230 play in Patrick Tomlinson's legal struggles?

Section 230, a law shielding online platforms from user-generated content, was misapplied to protect the website hosting the cyber-stalking group. This prevented Patrick from suing the site to identify the stalkers, as the court ruled their privacy outweighed his safety.

How has the cyber-stalking group's behavior been compared to larger societal issues?

Patrick compares their tactics to those used by authoritarians and disinformation campaigns, noting their use of lies, gaslighting, and targeted harassment mirrors larger-scale attacks on governments and societies. Their actions, while focused on him, reflect a broader problem of online harassment and manipulation.

Chapters
Patrick's life journey from a rural upbringing with a rodeo-riding father to a successful sci-fi author, marked by unexpected turns and personal challenges. His early life experiences shaped his personality and career path.
  • Patrick's father was a rodeo rider and later an electrician.
  • Patrick's rural upbringing in Westfield was quiet and cloistered.
  • He excelled in college after a challenging high school experience.
  • He moved to Tampa and later back to Wisconsin.
  • His first marriage ended due to infidelity.
  • He found success as a sci-fi author and developed a large social media following.

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A self-described geek finds his voice as a sci-fi author and amasses an audience on social media, but after he posts a seemingly innocuous tweet, a hoard of internet stalkers fixate on destroying his life.

Today’s episode featured Patrick S. Tomlinson. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email him at [email protected]), or you can find him on Twitter @stealthygeek, on Threads @pstomlinson and on Blue Sky @stealthygeek.bsky.social

Visit www.patrickstomlinson.com) to find out more information about Patrick and his books. 

**Producers: **Whit Missildine

 

**Content/Trigger Warnings: cyber stalking, physical stalking, gun violence, suicide/suicidal ideation, **infidelity & divorce, pregnancy, threats of suicide, threats of violence, threats of murder, elder pet (no harm), CPTSD, authoritarianism, lawsuit, explicit language

 

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