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325: The 82 Percent #2: What if you grew up in a polyamorous family?

2024/6/25
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Witt Misseldein: 本期节目探讨了在非传统家庭中成长的经历,以及这种经历对个人成长和社会认知的影响。节目中,Koe Creation分享了她自身在多元家庭中成长的故事,以及她如何应对社会对其家庭结构的不理解和排斥。她强调了在多元家庭中成长的挑战,例如来自社会和学校的误解、歧视和网络暴力,以及她如何克服这些挑战,并最终找到自我认同。同时,她分享了多元家庭带给她的积极影响,例如家庭成员之间的紧密联系、爱与支持,以及她对多元关系的独特理解。 Koe Creation: 我在多元家庭中长大,我的父母和家庭成员之间存在着复杂的恋爱关系。这种非传统的家庭结构给我带来了许多挑战,例如来自社会和学校的误解、歧视和网络暴力。在学校,我经常因为我的家庭背景而受到同学和老师的排斥和欺凌。在网络上,我因为分享我的故事而受到死亡威胁和人身攻击。但是,我的家庭也给了我很多爱和支持。我的父母和家庭成员之间互相尊重、互相理解,他们给了我一个安全、温暖的成长环境。多元家庭的经历让我对爱、关系和家庭有了更广阔的理解,也让我更加坚强、独立。 Koe Creation: 我认为,社会中存在着一些被刻意维持的系统和叙事,例如一夫一妻制、异性恋和资本主义,而我则致力于打破这些叙事。我运用批判性思维,扩展到自身性取向和性别认同的认知。我发现,爱和关系的可能性远比我们想象的要丰富得多。

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Koe Creation describes their upbringing in a polyamorous family, highlighting the unique dynamics and terminology they learned, such as coining the term 'polycule' to describe their family structure.

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As a child growing up in a polyamorous family and community, Koe Creation learns to navigate the beauty and complications of their upbringing, but once they begin to find and express their own voice, they face society’s larger shadows.

Today’s episode featured Koe Creation. You can find out more about Koe at their website, koecreation.com) and on Instagram @koecreation. You can also learn more about their journey growing up in a polyamorous family in their book, “This Heart Holds Many” available on Amazon or wherever books are sold. 

This episode is the first of a six-part miniseries called the 82 Percent: Modern stories of love and family, produced in collaboration with the Modern Family Institute @modernfamilyinstitute. If you’d like to find out more about the Modern Family Institute, donate to help advance their work, or get engaged, please visit their website, modernfamilyinstitute.org. 

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**Producers: **Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock

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