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316: What if a masked man appeared at the foot of your bed?

2024/4/23
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Danielle Leukam: 本期节目讲述了Danielle Leukam在家中遭遇蒙面男子持枪袭击和强奸的经历。她详细描述了事件的经过,以及事后她所经历的创伤、痛苦和复仇之路。她童年时期目睹父母的冲突和暴力,并学会压抑自己的情绪以避免冲突。这种压抑的情绪在她成年后的恋爱关系中也体现出来,她选择取悦他人以避免冲突。在经历了性侵犯后,她经历了创伤后应激障碍,并与家人和朋友的关系也受到了影响。她通过一些方式来重新获得掌控感和力量感,例如购买大卡车、德国牧羊犬、进行拳击和跑步等。最终,袭击者被逮捕并被判刑。Danielle Leukam在节目中分享了她从受害者到复仇者的转变过程,以及她对创伤的反思和对未来的展望。

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Danielle recounts her childhood with a narcissistic father and the impact it had on her family dynamics and personal development.

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Growing up with a narcissistic father, a woman learns to play small, but one night when an unknown masked man enters her room, she faces the worst night of her life, and emerges on the other side with a new found ferocity. 

Today’s episode featured Danielle Leukam. You can learn more about Danielle on her website, danielleleukam.com). And you can find her on Instagram @danielleukam, as well as Twitter and Facebook. You can also learn more about her story in her two memoirs, Four Pounds of Pressure: A Memoir of Rape, Survival, and Taking Back My Power https://amzn.to/3QHxMJW) and Another Four Pounds of Pressure: Case Files, Statements, & a Survivor's Redemption https://amzn.to/49I0umr), and lastly, you can check out her novella The First Sister: A Dangerous Bloodline, https://amzn.to/3TjLaXq), as well as the two children’s books she’s authored. Danielle now works full-time at the Mayo Clinic. She is passionate about public speaking, writing, and advocating against sexual violence. And she also the president and founder of a non-profit organization called WISH: We Inspire Survivor Healing. Learn more about WISH on their website WeInspireSurvivorHealing.com)

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Content/Trigger Warnings: rape, violent assault, child endangerment, gun violence, alcoholism, explicit language

 

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