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315: What if your life became a movie?

2024/4/16
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讲述者GJ Echternkamp讲述了他充满混乱和创伤的童年:父母关系破裂,父亲疑似患有精神分裂症,母亲酗酒且有诈骗行为,他在外祖父母家、父亲家和母亲家之间辗转,经历了忽视、暴力和不稳定。他最终通过拍摄关于父母的纪录片和电影,在创作过程中完成了自我疗愈,并与家人关系得到改善。他学会了原谅父母,并理解了他们行为背后的原因。他意识到,尽管父母有许多缺点,但他们仍然深爱彼此,并且在某种程度上也深爱着他。这个过程也让他学会了如何建立更健康的人际关系,并最终拥有了幸福的婚姻。

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GJ's parents had tumultuous relationships and mental health issues, leading to a chaotic and neglectful upbringing.

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After his mother falls in love with Frank, the member of a one-hit-wonder 80s band, a man’s life becomes a roller coaster of neglect, scams, and chaos, but when he turns the camera on the inside of his family, a new world opens he never thought possible. 

Today’s episode featured GJ Echternkamp. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email at [email protected]). You can find GJ’s documentary, “frank and Cindy” from 2007, as well as his feature film, also titled “Frank and Cindy” from 2015, both on Netflix. You can also find the music video and song “Whirly Girl” by OXO released in 1983 on YouTube. 

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Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic violence, abuse, suicidal ideation, explicit language

 

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