Bad Boys, Workplace Sabotage & the Kardashians 💌 November Magic Mailbag
Sleep Magic: Meditation, Hypnosis & Sleepy Stories
Deep Dive
Why do people often find themselves attracted to toxic partners?
People may be attracted to toxic partners due to unconscious reasons, such as unresolved childhood issues or a desire to prove their own worth through being chosen by someone 'fabulous'. This attraction can be a way for individuals to work through their own growth and self-discovery, even if it is painful.
How can someone start to accept and even love a pet they initially dislike?
To accept a disliked pet, try physical interaction without focusing on aspects that repulse you, like petting the dog in a place that doesn't bother you. Additionally, write down daily things you appreciate about the pet, gradually shifting your mindset towards positive associations.
How can a long-term spouse address home maintenance issues without causing conflict?
To address home issues without conflict, first, identify and write down your fears and resentments. Then, approach the conversation by highlighting the positive aspects of your relationship and presenting the issue as a shared goal. For example, take charge of researching solutions and ask for your spouse's support in implementing them.
What are the potential benefits and drawbacks of consuming reality TV like Keeping Up with the Kardashians?
The benefits of watching shows like Keeping Up with the Kardashians include observing the lives of empowered women in extreme circumstances, which can be both entertaining and educational. However, excessive consumption can lead to feelings of superficiality and emptiness. It's important to balance this type of media with more nourishing content and be mindful of its impact on your emotional state.
How should one handle a colleague who is bad-mouthing them at work?
When dealing with a colleague who is bad-mouthing you, maintain your integrity and dignity by focusing on your work and not engaging in workplace gossip. Over time, your steady behavior will speak louder than their words, and their patterns of behavior may become more apparent to others without your intervention.
- Understanding that 'the one' is a cultural construct.
- Recognizing personal wholeness and self-worth.
- Taking responsibility for personal growth and energy.
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