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When Your Kid Drops the F Bomb

2024/7/9
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Myleik Teele: 我的五岁儿子开始说脏话,起初我感到震惊和不知所措,尝试过多种方法,但效果不佳。后来我意识到,孩子说脏话并不一定代表我的教养失败,这只是孩子成长过程中一个阶段。我开始尝试新的方法,例如指定特定的场所让孩子随意说脏话,以此来帮助孩子宣泄情绪,并引导孩子区分冲动和行为。这个过程让我和儿子关系更紧密,也让我对自己的教养能力更有信心。 Dr. Becky: 孩子说脏话是很常见的问题,父母不必过度焦虑。与其惩罚孩子,不如尝试更有效、更反直觉的方法。例如,允许孩子在特定场所说脏话,这是一种高级的应对策略,可以帮助孩子宣泄情绪,并减少孩子在公共场合说脏话的可能性。同时,父母要与孩子保持良好的连接,理解孩子说脏话背后的原因,并引导孩子用更安全、更有效的方式获得力量和影响力。父母要相信自己的教养能力,要有耐心,相信自己有时间和能力去解决孩子的问题。 Dr. Becky: 在处理孩子行为问题时,‘什么都不做’有时是一种有效的策略,这是一种积极克制,是基于长远目标的策略。父母要控制自己的冲动,避免情绪化地回应,要相信自己有时间和能力去解决孩子的问题。

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We can't parent in a bubble and so one day our sweet little children will come home with some not so sweet little words. Myleik Teele is back to chat with Dr. Becky about the moment her five-year-old made the leap from potty words to curse words.Join Good Inside Membership: https://bit.ly/3KA36HVFollow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcastTo listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategyToday’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: Before Dr. Becky was a parent, she thought planning a family vacation would be a breeze… until she realized how much has to come together for a trip with two adults and three kids. Then she discovered Airbnb Guest Favorites. No more combing through options, reviews, and features. Guest Favorites are the most loved homes on Airbnb according to other guests. And that peace of mind when preparing for a trip is huge. Using Guest Favorites couldn’t be easier: Just go to Airbnb, add your destination, tap the filters and hit the toggle for Guest Favorites. It’s that simple.Today’s episode is brought to you by Happy Egg: The other day, Dr. Becky realized that so many parents don’t eat their own breakfast. She, herself, often scrapes the bottom of her kid’s half-eaten yogurt container or snags two bites of their soggy cereal while running out the door. She's calling B.S. on this narrative. Parents deserve to eat and enjoy their own food in the mornings! Because she know that fueling her mind and body helps her show up as a sturdier leader for her kids. If you’re looking for ways to up your breakfast game, try making a quick scramble with Happy Egg. These eggs come from small family farms with hens raised on 8+ acres of land. Ready to reclaim breakfast for yourself? You can get 50% off your first dozen by going to happyegg.com/goodinside.)