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Revisit - Kids! Parenting When They're Not Just Like Us?

2024/7/30
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Dr. Becky: 本期节目讨论了父母如何平衡对孩子的支持和尊重其独立人格。父母常常在孩子经历困境时自责,这可能是因为他们太忙,无法充分利用寻求的帮助。父母需要区分自身经验和孩子的实际需求,避免将自身价值观强加于孩子。安全感是孩子探索世界的基础,孩子在安全的环境中才能更好地探索和发展。父母应该尊重孩子的选择,并给予孩子足够的支持和空间,让他们自己去探索和发展。父母应该帮助孩子成为独立自主的个体,而不是试图控制孩子的行为和发展方向。父母应该信任孩子,而不是试图控制孩子。父母应该让孩子知道,他们被信任和接受,并且可以按照自己的方式发展。父母的信任能够增强孩子的自信心和安全感,帮助他们更好地应对挑战。父母不应该将孩子现在的情况简单地推断到未来,而应该相信孩子有能力应对未来的挑战。父母应该关注孩子内在的品质和能力,而不是仅仅关注表面现象。父母应该对孩子的未来抱有积极的期望,并相信孩子有能力找到适合自己的发展道路。父母应该尝试从积极的角度看待孩子的情况,并给予孩子更多的理解和支持。父母应该相信孩子有能力找到适合自己的生活方式,并给予孩子足够的支持和空间。父母应该通过潜移默化的方式,帮助孩子建立自信和独立性。父母应该引导孩子尝试新的事物,但不要强迫孩子改变自己的个性。父母应该坦诚地与孩子分享自己的经历和感受,帮助孩子更好地理解自己和他人的差异。 节目嘉宾妈妈: 作为外向型人格的母亲,她的儿子性格内向,这让她在如何支持儿子同时尊重其个性方面感到困惑。她难以判断在支持儿子和尊重其独立个性的平衡点。她希望儿子能有更多朋友,并发展社交技能,但又不想强迫他改变。她的儿子只和一个朋友玩耍,这让她既担心儿子社交技能发展,又不想强迫他结交更多朋友。她希望儿子将来能适应工作环境,并能从人际关系中获得满足感。她认为内向型人格在当今社会也有其价值,但父母仍需帮助孩子适应以外向型人格为主导的社会环境。她希望在支持儿子个性的同时,引导儿子尝试新的事物,并帮助儿子发展社交技能。她总结了这次谈话中获得的启发,包括使用更开放的沟通方式、分享自身经历以及避免对未来过度担忧。她认为“信任而非教导”是一种更有效的方式。

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This is a repeat of an earlier episode. What do we do as parents when our kids are very different from us? How do we know when it's ok to push them out of their comfort zone and when we should sit back and let them pave their own way? On today's episode, Dr. Becky speaks to a mom who’s struggling with how best to support her son while still honoring and respecting who he is as a person.Join Good Inside Membership: https://bit.ly/3LwXPRz)Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcastTo listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategyToday’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: Before Dr. Becky was a parent, she thought planning a family vacation would be a breeze… until she realized how much has to come together for a trip with two adults and three kids. Then she discovered Airbnb Guest Favorites. No more combing through options, reviews, and features. Guest Favorites are the most loved homes on Airbnb according to other guests. And that peace of mind when preparing for a trip is huge. Using Guest Favorites couldn’t be easier: Just go to Airbnb, add your destination, tap the filters and hit the toggle for Guest Favorites. It’s that simple.Today’s episode is brought to you by Mommy's Bliss: It seems like during the school year, kids are always coming home with something! And finding an over-the-counter medicine that Dr. Becky trusts can be a real challenge. That's why she loves Mommy's Bliss. Mommy's Bliss has been the highly trusted baby brand for 25 years, and if you’re a parent, you probably know about their Gripe Water or Vitamin D drops. Now, they’ve launched a new Pain & Fever medicine that is not only safe and effective for infants and children, but it's also the first-ever Clean Label Project Certified acetaminophen. Here’s what that means for parents: no high fructose corn syrup, no dyes, no artificial sweeteners, and it's free from the top 9 allergens. But don’t worry— they didn’t leave out the part kids actually care about. It has a delicious natural berry flavor with organic elderberry, which means kids don’t put up a fight when it’s time to take it. For minor aches and pains caused by colds, flu, sore throats, and toothaches, there's Mommy's Bliss Pain & Fever. Now that's medicine for peace of mind.