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He Was Doing the Best He Could

2024/6/11
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Dr. Becky: 本期节目讨论了父母在孩子成长过程中可能面临的挑战,以及修复亲子关系的重要性。她分享了与Alex的对话,探讨了父爱、与父亲的关系、代际变化、成功的意义以及他希望传承给儿子的遗产。她强调了即使父母无法提供所需的言语安慰,成年子女也可以想象出自己需要听到的话语,并从中获得力量。她还谈到了孩子们以不同的方式理解世界,并根据自己的经验构建对世界的认知,以及父母需要与孩子沟通,了解他们的想法和感受。 Alex: Alex分享了他与父亲之间复杂的关系,以及父亲自杀对他造成的巨大冲击。他描述了童年时期表面上幸福,但缺乏与父亲的联系。他父亲虽然在场,但却缺乏与他的情感联系。他父亲长期抑郁,最终自杀身亡,对他造成了巨大的冲击。他最初对父亲的去世感到愤怒,但后来逐渐理解并接受了父亲的痛苦,并通过写信的方式完成了与父亲的和解。他认为父亲的去世是疾病的结果,而不是他自己的选择。他儿子出生后,他再次经历了类似的悲伤和愤怒,但这次他选择了同理心和理解。他最终选择不让自己成为受害者,而是尽力为自己的孩子做好榜样。 Dr. Becky: 本节目中,Dr. Becky与Alex的对话围绕着修复亲子关系展开,特别关注了成年子女如何处理与已故父母之间未解决的问题。Dr. Becky强调了“最慷慨的解读”的重要性,鼓励听众尝试理解父母的困境,并从更宽容的角度看待他们的行为。她还分享了关于情感连接和安全感的重要性,以及这些因素如何影响孩子们的成长和发展。她认为,拥有情感联系和安全感也是一种特权,这种特权能够帮助孩子们更好地应对生活中的挑战,并建立更健康的人际关系。

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This episode contains discussions of a death by suicide. Please take care listening. Today on the podcast, Dr. Becky talks to a dad about fatherhood, his relationship with his dad, repair, intergenerational change, what success really means to him, and the legacy he wants to pass on to his sons.To listen to Dr. Becky on A Slight Change of Plans: https://www.pushkin.fm/podcasts/a-slight-change-of-plans/a-game-changing-strategy-for-better-relationshipsJoin Good Inside Membership: https://bit.ly/3RjNzj7)Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcastTo listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy)Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: After years of traveling together, Dr. Becky now loves staying on Airbnb so that their vacation can feel, well, more like a vacation. On a recent trip to visit family in Chicago, she found the perfect family-friendly Airbnb that had toys for her youngest, family games for all of them, and even the same book series her eldest was in the middle of reading - oh, and gave her and her husband a living room so they could have have time to themselves after the kids went to bed. Talk about an all-around win. Did you also know that while you’re away, your home could be an Airbnb for another family? It’s a great way to earn some extra money to use on your family’s next vacation. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host.Today’s episode is brought to you by Mommy's Bliss: It seems like during the school year, kids are always coming home with something! And finding an over-the-counter medicine that Dr. Becky trusts can be a real challenge. That's why she loves Mommy's Bliss. Mommy's Bliss has been the highly trusted baby brand for 25 years, and if you’re a parent, you probably know about their Gripe Water or Vitamin D drops. Now, they’ve launched a new Pain & Fever medicine that is not only safe and effective for infants and children, but it's also the first-ever Clean Label Project Certified acetaminophen. Here’s what that means for parents: no high fructose corn syrup, no dyes, no artificial sweeteners, and it's free from the top 9 allergens. But don’t worry— they didn’t leave out the part kids actually care about. It has a delicious natural berry flavor with organic elderberry, which means kids don’t put up a fight when it’s time to take it. For minor aches and pains caused by colds, flu, sore throats, and toothaches, there's Mommy's Bliss Pain & Fever. Now that's medicine for peace of mind.