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Good Inside Parenting is Not Gentle Parenting

2024/1/16
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好的内部教养方法的核心是坚韧而非温柔,它强调父母在孩子情绪失控时保持稳定和连接,帮助孩子学习应对挑战和调节情绪的技能,而不是依靠惩罚或后果。这种方法关注的是帮助孩子成长和发展,而不是控制他们的行为。父母应该关注的是孩子需要什么技能才能更好地应对情绪,而不是简单地给予惩罚或后果。当孩子失控时,他们的行为是他们情绪失调的信号,而不是故意为之,父母应该关注的是帮助孩子学习调节情绪的技能,而不是惩罚他们。与其让孩子承担后果,不如让生活自然发展,让孩子在经历中学习和成长,父母应该帮助孩子发展独立解决问题的能力。父母不应该害怕让孩子经历自然后果,这有助于孩子发展独立性和韧性;重要的是父母要以支持和理解的态度来帮助孩子成长。

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The Good Inside approach to parenting is many things but gentle is not one of them. Good Inside parenting is sturdy. And sturdy parenting does not need consequences or punishments. In this episode, Dr. Becky hears situations from several parents where they aren't sure how to be the sturdy pilots their children need them to be.Join Good Inside Membership: https://bit.ly/3S4XE4n)Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcastTo listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategyToday’s episode is brought to you by Qeepsake: As a parent, have you ever thought to yourself, “I wish I could push pause right now?” There are certain moments we want to remember forever...but as busy parents, it's hard to find the time to just sit down and put those memories into a book. Now, thanks to Qeepsake, capturing these moments is as easy as answering a text. Just a daily text from Qeepsake is all it takes to start saving photos, stories, and memories of your family. It’s also a simple way to connect and bond with your kids. And the best part? Qeepsake transforms all of your captured memories into a beautiful book. No matter if they're toddlers or already in school, each cutely mispronounced word, first day of school, soccer tournament win, and family memory is priceless. And it’s never too late to start. Visit Qeepsake.com and try it free for one week. Plus, you can take 20% off your annual or any gift subscription when you use code DRBECKY at Qeepsake.com to start preserving your family’s memories today.