cover of episode 81. B.J. Liske - The Liske Family Murders

81. B.J. Liske - The Liske Family Murders

2021/10/11
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Devin Griffin returns home after church to find his family brutally murdered. He initially thinks it's a Halloween prank but quickly realizes the horrifying truth.

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And that's where I post all of that information for everyone who's asking. Keep leaving suggestions for my 10 seconds in the YouTube comments and the Instagram comments. I do read those. All right. So our case sources, I do want to preface that there was not a lot of information on this case, but it is a good help.

Halloween case, so you know I had to do it for October. So our case sources are cbsnews.com, sunduskyregister.com, and medium.com. All right, so our episode begins in Columbus, Ohio. It's Halloween in 2010, and 16-year-old Devin Griffin has just finished church for the day.

He had actually spent the weekend at his dad's house, but was going home to his mom's house after church. Devin actually sang in the church choir that morning, which was why he was at church service by himself and like not with his whole family. I actually tried to sing in church choir once. How'd it go? Bad, because I'm not a good singer, but I always wanted to be a singer. Yeah.

So as soon as Devin gets home to his mom's house, Devin runs upstairs and starts playing video games in his room. He's like, hey, finished church, just going straight up to his room. But as 1.30 p.m. rolled around, he noticed something. His house was really quiet, too quiet. He knew that his mom, 46-year-old Susan Liskey, would be awake by now and moving around the house. And also, where was the rest of his family, too? He didn't hear anyone downstairs. Okay.

He'd actually dropped in at home to get his church closed earlier that morning around 930 a.m. before church. But he'd only quickly seen his stepbrother, 24-year-old BJ Liskey, while running back out the door. So he was there that morning, didn't see the rest of his family, only saw BJ, ran back out, went to church, sang in church choir, came home, ran immediately upstairs and now is like, wait, what?

Where's my whole family? Like, why haven't I seen anybody? Got it. Okay. So Devin finishes up his video game and makes his way downstairs to find his family. No one was on the main level of the home, like in the living room or kitchen where he assumed they would be. So he makes his way to the master bedroom that was on the main level and opens the door inside the master bedroom. It looks like his mom and stepdad, 53 year old William E. Liskey, who goes by Bill. They're still in bed.

but it's so late. It's like one 30 and he's like, what the heck? So Devin decides to walk over and wake up his mom. As he approaches the bed, he notices that their comforter is pulled up over both of their heads. So weirded out, Devin calls out mom.

When she doesn't respond, he tries touching her foot that was poking out of the covers, but she still doesn't move. He calls out mom again while pulling the covers down off her head. This is when Devin jumps at the sight of blood all over his mom's pillow.

He relaxes a little as he remembers it's Halloween and his family must be playing a Halloween prank on him. He's like, okay, this is a prank. Like it's Halloween. They are trying to spook me or whatever. So he's like, okay. But then Devin traumatically realizes that this is not a prank. This is much worse. When he pulls the rest of the covers down and finds his mom dead in her bed, he freaks out. Both the mom and the dad, correct? His stepdad is in the bed too. Yeah.

Um, yeah. And his stepdad is laying next to her dead as well. Okay. Devin runs outside like of the home immediately. I'm sure he's traumatized and he calls his aunt, Lori Morse, who then called nine one one for him and rushed to the home. And at first I was kind of like, why wouldn't he just call nine one one? But like the thought of calling nine one one actually really scares me. So I don't think like after finding your parents dead, it's that weird that you like call your aunt. Yeah.

Like, come help. Oh my gosh, what do I do? And she's like, okay, we need to call 911. So I don't think that's that weird. And he was young still. Yeah, he was only 16. So I could see that. When Ottawa County authorities arrive at the Liskey home, they come across a grisly crime scene. The Liskey home was in a very rural part of Columbus, sitting on roughly 100 acres.

So it's like a really secluded place. Like we're not talking a neighborhood home. I mean, their home sits on 100 acres. There's nobody nearby. Police find Father Bieliski, his body, was kind of lying in a natural sleeping position. He had been shot five times in the head and face. And from what investigators think, only about one to two feet away is how far away he was shot from.

So that's like pretty intense. It's almost like he was shot while he was asleep. So I assume whatever happened, happened between the time that he was at choir or church. Yeah. Church and came home. It,

I mean, maybe because like they said that Bill was asleep. True. So he, this was how he, I mean, woke up. I don't think he woke up being shot in the face, but he was obviously still asleep. So it happened in the early morning hours. They hadn't woken up yet for the day. And then his mother, Susan had been shot three times, but she was positioned a little bit more awkwardly than Bill. Like she had been moved after she was shot. So police think whoever did it shot her husband, Bill, while he was sleeping that obviously woke her up.

And then she was shot after him. So she was not in a normal sleeping position. And then the killer positioned her back onto the bed and pulled the covers up over both of them. So that's why she was kind of in like a weird position. So where's the stepbrother and everybody else then? We'll get there. Okay. So,

So according to Sarah Weber with the Sandusky register, the bullets that were used to shoot the parents were smaller, like were a smaller caliber, likely a 22. As police are taking in the crime scene, they wonder about the rest of the family. Devin Griffin was outside being comforted by his aunt. He's a 16 year old, but they were still missing his stepbrother, BJ Liskey, who he had seen that morning and his brother, Derek Griffin, who also lived at the home.

BJ was not actually living with the family at the time, so they were a little less worried about finding him as they were worried about locating Derek. So they searched the family home, and as they got up to 23-year-old Derek's room, they find his door locked. After knocking and finally kicking the door down, police are hit with even more tragedy.

Derek Griffin's body is curled up on his bed in kind of like the fetal position and he's facing the wall. A coroner determines that he suffered blunt force trauma to his head and died within a few minutes of the first hit. Gosh, dang it. So he too is dead in his room. Okay. Police discovered a bloody claw hammer later in the house that actually matched the wounds on Derek Griffin's head. So the parents were shot, but Derek was beaten with a hammer until he died. So weird. And was the hammer...

Like, was it their hammer? Do you know? I think so because it was just left at the house and I think, um, I'm pretty sure they were just like, this was the hammer used. After talking to Devin, police learned that the Liskey family had multiple guns on the property, but none of them actually matched the murder weapon that was used to kill the parents. Um,

police found muddy footprints by a deck near the family's pond. And so they actually believed that maybe the murderer had thrown the murder weapons in there to try to get rid of them. Like these footprints are random down here. Maybe whoever did this, walk down there and tried to get rid of like the murder weapons. But after draining the pond and bringing in weapons, sniffing dogs, so like dogs who can detect like weapons, police could not find the gun used to kill Susan and Bill. So like, we don't think it's still on the property. Okay.

All they knew was Devin was traumatized. Susan and Bill were slaughtered in their own home. Derek was beaten savagely, probably scared for his life in his bedroom. And BJ Liskey, who Devin had seen earlier that morning at the house, was now nowhere to be found. 24-year-old BJ Liskey had had a pretty troubled past.

When Bill had divorced BJ's mother, BJ really struggled. He started skipping school and misbehaving. Then when Bill and Susan got married in 2001, adding two more brothers into the family, BJ resented everything that had to do with it. When Susan tried imposing some rules on the new family, it was met with backlash from BJ. In 2002, his father, Bill Liskey, had actually called police on

on then 16 year old BJ who had actually been threatening to harm himself.

He was actually on house arrest at the time of the call. And when officers arrived, BJ attacked them. And so then he ended up facing charges in juvenile court, which I'm just telling you this to show that like he was having a very hard time. And so were the parents, his stepmom and his dad with kind of like managing this rough time he was having. Got it. It's that time of the year. Your vacation is coming up.

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Then, October of 2004, BJ got into a fight with his stepmother Susan and hit her in the chest hard. So it got physical. And then not even two months later, he was charged again, this time with felonious assault and robbery for hitting Susan with a coffee cup and stealing her keys.

So is he not in juvie at all? Did they not press charges? They did press charges, but he was actually found incompetent to stand trial. And so then his father and stepmother actually just dropped the charges because they were like, he's still like, I mean, it's still his dad. It's still a son. You know what I mean? That would be hard. It would be hard. It wasn't until 18 year old BJ tried to attack Susan again, his stepmother while she was innocently showering.

Like he, like, you know how you're like, you told me one time you were like, I always like one time I was in the shower and I was like, oh my gosh, like I'm so innocent here. If Peyton was going to kill me, this is when she's going to do it. Because my eyes are closed. I'm just washing my hair. Which is so messed up. I would never kill you. Never. But he goes in and

does that to Susan while she's like in such a vulnerable state, he goes in and tries to attack her. And so this is when Susan and bill had had enough. Like bill was like, despite the fact that BJ is my son, this is like enough. He obviously has it out for Susan. He's physical, he's violent. We've hit our breaking point.

So I think for everyone's safety, BJ was appropriately kicked out of the home. He's 18 now and moved to a Sandusky group home for mental health patients because he was obviously struggling. He actually had the cops called on him three times while living at this home. And one of those times was after his dad, Bill, came to pick him up once and then they got into a physical fight again.

Oh man. So there's, there's a lot involved. Yeah. And Bill would like kind of go back continuously to try to visit his son. I mean, he still loved him. He still cared about him at this home and it just never went well. Like the relationship was just really struggling. Yeah.

It's safe to say that with BJ missing and most of the family murdered, friends and family of the Liskys were really quick to point their fingers and voice their concerns about BJ. So was BJ supposed to be at the house though? No, he wasn't living.

there, but his brother had seen him there earlier that morning. So police were kind of like, why was he here? And now the rest of the family's dead. So it was kind of odd that he was there. Yeah. Apparently he had like been there the night before, but he didn't ever sleep there because of the violence. So it was a little weird that he was there.

At least at first police were like, this is a little weird. Mark Gradle, who is a longtime family friend of the Liskys and like a neighbor told police that Bill called him multiple times for help with BJ, whether it was that he couldn't get BJ to settle down or things had finally turned physical. It seems like Mark was called before the last resort of contacting police.

So like instead of calling police, he would contact Mark and say, can you please get over to the house and help me? And then if that wasn't enough, they would result to calling police. Got it. Mark even told police that they actually suspected BJ of killing and torturing their pets.

And despite confronting Bill with the theory, Bill reassured Mark that BJ was just acting out that he didn't mean any harm by it. No way. It's like a really bad sign. Torturing pets. Yes. That's a really bad sign. So I understand why Mark confronted him with it was like, hey, like, I don't I think he needs help.

Mark told police that despite the severe issues BJ had caused in the family, Bill loved him and never gave up on him. He wanted him to be a part of the family. In February 2006, Bill filed for guardianship over BJ because BJ had been hospitalized for schizoaffective disorder bipolar type and he needed help. He needed a guardian.

When BJ moved to the Sandusky halfway home, Bill visited often and felt bad for his son. He just wanted him to know that he was loved. So the weekend of the murders, Bill had actually taken vacation time and gone hunting with BJ so that they could get some one-on-one quality time together. The family actually had a cabin in Carroll County that they used often while hunting. And so that's where they stayed like during this little vacation together.

When BJ and Bill returned home from hunting that Saturday, they decided to spend the night with some friends together. Mark Gradle, the neighbor actually attended the gathering and said that everything seemed normal after the party BJ, who was really not allowed to sleep at the house. Like I said, due to the violence of the past actually ended up staying the night at the home that night, Bill had been drinking and he didn't feel it was safe to drive BJ all the way back to the home in Sandusky.

And so he was like, I just think you should stay tonight. Plus their hunting trip had gone well. And so had the party. They just went hunting. So they have guns. And now he's staying the night at the house. Yes. But like the hunting had gone well. And so had the party that night. Like everyone was getting along. BJ wasn't having any outbursts. So I think his dad who like, despite the fact that they had made the rule, he was like, okay, it's going to be okay. We'll just have him stay the night and I'll drive him home in the morning. Oh,

So Bill actually made up a bed on the couch for BJ to stay in that night. And we only know that because police like found the couch made up into a bed. And so one plus one equals two. Once Devin left the house that morning for church, BJ took the family's Ford F-150 and drove back to the hunting cabin.

Um, he stopped along the way to get a subway sandwich and police actually found footage of him buying the sandwich, but it went like uneaten. Like they just found it at the cabin. He never ate it. Weird. After learning about BJ and the family's cabin, police knew that they needed to head up that way. They stormed the cabin and found BJ hiding out inside. He was arrested and charged with aggravated murder and BJ pled guilty to all three murders and was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. Um,

BJ ended up taking his own life in prison in 2015 at age 29. Oh, so he was fit to stand trial. Yes. I mean, apparently like they, I think he kind of said that he didn't really know why he did it. He just did it. Like he said, he just, it seems so black and white. They found him guilty and that was it. Yeah. Cause I mean, once they found him, he confessed and was like, yeah, I did it. Like he didn't try to put up a fight or anything, which is,

I mean, that's a pretty open and shut case if the person who everyone is pointing fingers at then says, "Yes, I did it." - Yeah. - So after finding out what BJ had done to his family, Devin recalled running into him earlier that morning. This is when he was like, "Well, I did see him earlier that morning." And police were like, "How did that conversation go?" Because we think he just killed your family. Like when you ran into him, he had already killed your family.

And Devin was like, well, he couldn't remember much about the conversation because it was so fast because he was rushing in to get dressed. But he did note that BJ seemed happier than normal. Like he was a little bit more giddy. And he was also asking him a lot of questions like, where are you going? How long are you going to be there? How long is that going to take?

And so, I mean, Devin just kind of like brushed it off. Like, okay, this is just like a little, is it weird that BJ didn't kill Devin? I think so. But I think because Devin was like, oh, I'm just running in and out and people are expecting me at church. Maybe BJ was like, I can't,

because people are expecting him and then I'm not going to have enough time to get away if he doesn't show up. I'm not sure, but I do think that's weird that he killed everyone and then ran into him in the same house in the safety of the house that he had just slaughtered his own family and chose not to. Yeah. And I also like think a big part of this case is that you have to think about the impact that it had on Devin, that he entered his house not once, but twice and,

and spent hours in it with the whole family dead inside.

And didn't know that whole time he was playing video games, his family was dead. And when he ran into BJ that morning, his family was dead and he had no idea. And to me, that's just like the worst part. And it was on Halloween. That's even worse. The fact that it was on Halloween is just even worse. Horrible. But yeah, BJ said he didn't know why he did it. He just, he just said he just got up and did it. You think he was, would have been like a serial killer? Yeah.

I think that he had really, really strong mental illness.

Um, and that's why I think like he pled guilty and then ended up taking his own life. I think he really struggled with some demons. Like we don't know what he was going through. I'm not making an excuse. He brutally took people's lives, but I think there was obviously some things going on there that he was fighting in his own head. Um, and I don't know if that's what caused him to do it. He didn't necessarily say that, but I think that all signs are pointing towards some severe mental illness. So how, where's Devin now? Is there any information on that? No. Yeah.

- No, yeah, this case is like surprisingly not reported on a lot. Like I really struggled finding information on it, but it was a Halloween murder. And so I wanted to incorporate that into our October. And also like this family was completely innocent victims, like innocently taken by someone that they should have been able to trust.

And then also just to like put that impact on Devin and make him continue living on with that. It's just an awful, awful case. But that is the case of the Liskey family murders. Okay, you guys, well, don't, you don't have to wait a week to hear from us again. We will have another spooky story coming out from you guys. So you will have more content coming and we are super excited for that.

And plus, we will be dressed up again. And I'm really excited for you guys to see this week's costumes. It'll be on Thursday, right? Yes. Thursday is when we're dropping spooky stories. So we will see you then. I love it. And I hate it. Goodbye.