Delicacy of Sisterhood w/ Lori Roberts
2022/6/1
Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts
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Jenny Kaplan
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Lori Roberts
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Sarah Jakes Roberts
Jenny Kaplan：作为重组家庭的一员，她分享了在生活中实践革命性姐妹情的经验，强调Woman Evolved对姐妹情谊的重视，以及分享个人成长和经验对姐妹间学习和成长的意义。她认为，在重组家庭中，通过努力，可以在不失去自我和尊重的同时，为孩子创造安全的环境，让家庭成员都能找到属于自己的位置和价值。
Sarah Jakes Roberts：起初她并没有预料到会与前夫的妻子建立如此亲密的关系，这对她来说是一个意外的惊喜。她坦诚地分享了自己在建立这种关系过程中的内心挣扎和感受，以及如何克服内心的不安全感和怨恨，最终与Lori建立了深厚的姐妹情谊。她强调了在重组家庭中，保持自我、尊重他人、以及为了孩子们的幸福而努力的重要性。她还分享了在与Lori相处过程中的一些关键时刻和经验，例如，她们一起分享感恩节晚餐，以及在Wren婚礼上的合作，这些都见证了她们关系的逐渐升温。
Lori Roberts：她分享了自己在重组家庭中所经历的挑战和感受，包括最初的受伤、不安全感和不被接纳的压力。她坦诚地讲述了自己如何克服这些负面情绪，并最终与Sarah建立了深厚的友谊。她强调了在重组家庭中，保持真实的自我、接纳他人、以及与另一位家长建立开放沟通的重要性。她还分享了一些具体的做法，例如，寻求上帝的帮助，以及为了孩子们的幸福而努力。
Jenny Kaplan: Woman Evolved prioritizes sisterhood; sharing personal growth and experiences isn’t a privacy violation but a learning and growth opportunity for sisters. In blended families, with effort, one can maintain a safe environment for children without losing oneself or respect.
Sarah Jakes Roberts: Initially, she didn’t expect a close relationship with her ex-husband’s wife; it was a pleasant surprise. She honestly shares her struggles and feelings in building this relationship, overcoming insecurities and resentment, ultimately forming a deep sisterhood with Lori. She emphasizes self-preservation, respect for others, and striving for children’s well-being in blended families. Key moments and experiences with Lori, like sharing Thanksgiving dinner and collaborating at Wren’s wedding, highlight their growing bond.
Lori Roberts: She shares her challenges in a blended family, including initial hurt, insecurity, and feeling unwelcome. She honestly recounts overcoming negative emotions and forming a deep friendship with Sarah. She emphasizes staying true to oneself, accepting others, and open communication with the other parent. She shares specific practices, like seeking God’s help and striving for children’s happiness.
Deep Dive
The advice questioner seeks guidance on how to love her partner's children unconditionally, and Sarah and Lori share their experiences and tips on blending families.
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