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193: Genuinely Self-Absorbed?..

2024/11/28
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本期节目探讨了几个故事,这些故事中的主人公都表现出不同程度的以自我为中心的行为。第一个故事中,一位母亲在女儿挑选婚纱时表现出冷漠和以自我为中心的行为,导致女儿感到受伤并最终独自挑选婚纱。第二个故事中,一位丈夫阻止妻子参加妹妹的婚礼,并取消了妻子的机票,这体现了他极端的控制欲和以自我为中心的行为。第三个故事中,一位37岁的男友要求从女友的绘画作品销售收入中抽取分成,即使女友已经支付了画布费用,并为男友提供了许多帮助。这反映了男友的寄生和以自我为中心的行为。第四个故事中,一位丈夫希望妻子进行剖腹产手术,因为他担心自然分娩会影响他们的性生活。这体现了丈夫的以自我为中心和对妻子身体的漠视。第五个故事中,一位女友要求男友出售其有争议的家族传家宝,这反映了女友的以自我为中心和对男友感受的漠视。第六个故事中,一位丈夫坚持要观看大量的橄榄球比赛,即使这影响了与妻子和孩子的相处时间。这体现了丈夫的以自我为中心和对家庭责任的忽视。 在这些故事中,以自我为中心的行为表现形式多样,包括情感虐待、控制欲、财务剥削、漠视他人的感受等。这些行为对人际关系造成了严重的损害,并引发了道德和伦理问题。节目主持人和嘉宾对这些行为进行了分析和评论,并提出了应对策略。 节目中还讨论了其他相关话题,例如灰石方法、婚纱挑选的压力、分娩方式的选择、家族传家宝的处理、以及工作与生活平衡的问题。这些讨论丰富了节目的内容,并为听众提供了更全面的视角。

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Why did the mother in the first story make hurtful comments about her daughter's appearance?

The mother in the story has narcissistic traits and tends to be negative towards everything, including her daughter's weight and appearance. She made comments like 'you aren't beautiful, you're cute, but you'll never be beautiful' during important moments like prom dress shopping.

Why did the husband in the second story cancel his wife's plane ticket to her sister's wedding?

The husband canceled his wife's plane ticket because he didn't want her to leave the house, possibly due to controlling behavior. He also didn't want to hire a babysitter after a previous one robbed them, and he dislikes her sister, calling her a slut on a regular basis.

Why does the girlfriend in the third story want to sell the family heirlooms?

The girlfriend wants to sell the family heirlooms because she is vegetarian and adamantly against any animal cruelty. She finds it immoral to own items like ivory, taxidermy, and fur coats, despite them being legal and registered. She believes the only ethical use for these items is in museums and cultural practices.

Why is the wife in the fourth story asking her husband to reduce his football watching time?

The wife is asking her husband to reduce his football watching time because they have a baby now, and she feels that his commitment to watching football four days a week is unfair, especially since it's not a year-round activity. She needs more help and support with childcare and household responsibilities.

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Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-host Michaela Okland! After seeing wicked a few times Michaela helped craft this week's theme.. genuinely self-absorbed? Meaning, are the people in these stories only thinking about themselves or is there something else going on? How else can you explain a husband wanting his wife to have a c-section or someone's partner trying to have them sell their inheritance?! Can't wait to hear your thoughts!

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