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#855 - Richard Reeves - Why Do Modern Men Feel So Left Behind?

2024/10/24
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Chris Willx：讨论男性心理健康问题时，很容易被贴上厌女症的标签，即使只是措辞不当。这使得讨论男性问题时，不得不顾及女性的感受，而女性相关的讨论却不需要考虑男性感受。同时，长期倡导男性议题而未被重视，会导致挫败感累积，最终以愤怒和具有煽动性的言辞表达，反而适得其反。在互联网上，人们对观点的精确度要求很高，即使是细微的错误也可能导致被批评。在公开场合思考和表达观点时，难免会犯错误，但这些错误不应该被过度解读，应该允许人们在对话中犯错并进行修正。互联网上存在“专家至上”的现象，人们只关注专家的观点，而忽略了其他人的观点，即使这些观点可能包含一些有价值的见解。任何对话中，双方都可能持有部分真理，应该关注双方观点中的真理成分，而不是一味否定对方的观点。应该重视不同来源的知识，学术研究和个人经验都具有价值。 Richard Reeves：关于男孩和男人的讨论空间正在扩大，即使是几年前还被认为有争议的话题，现在也更容易被讨论。为了更有说服力，在讨论男性问题时，需要将之置于女性问题的背景下进行讨论，并理解人们对此的不适感。长期倡导男性议题而未被重视，会导致挫败感累积，最终以愤怒和具有煽动性的言辞表达，反而适得其反。为了说服他人，需要在讨论男性问题时，承认并回应女性所面临的问题，避免被误解为厌女。被群体排斥是人类的一种基本恐惧，这会影响人们在发表观点时的策略。在公开场合讨论观点时，难免会表达不精确或错误的观点，但这些错误不应该被解读为恶意或同谋。为了说服他人，需要在讨论男性问题时，承认并回应女性所面临的问题，避免被误解为厌女。讨论男性问题时，需要将之置于女性问题的背景下进行讨论，并理解人们对此的不适感。长期倡导男性议题而未被重视，会导致挫败感累积，最终以愤怒和具有煽动性的言辞表达，反而适得其反。为了更有说服力，在讨论男性问题时，需要将之置于女性问题的背景下进行讨论，并理解人们对此的不适感。

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Richard Reeves discusses the struggles of modern men and the need for resources and understanding to address the decline in male well-being. The conversation explores the growing discussion surrounding men's issues and the importance of creating a safe space for dialogue.

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Richard Reeves is a writer, researcher and the Founder of the American Institute for Boys & Men.

Men have been struggling for a long time. What exactly is going on? What resources can genuinely help modern men, and how can we better understand the dynamics that are driving this decline in male wellbeing.

Expect to learn why Obama endorsed Richard’s book, the scary trends about male suicide, why it's important for humans to feel needed, whether the Harris-Walz campaign has even considered men's existence, if this upcoming election will be decided by masculinity, Richard’s thoughts on therapy for men and much more….

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