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Putting Eachother in the Hot Seat

2024/9/19
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Bretman Rock recounts his luxurious first vacation with his boyfriend in Kona, Hawaii, a trip filled with delicious food, a near-lost earring incident, and the discovery that they travel well together.
  • Bretman and his boyfriend stayed at the Four Seasons in Kona.
  • They enjoyed an expensive dinner at Manzo Piedmonti, known for its unique olive-fed beef.
  • Bretman lost an earring between the planks of their suite's balcony, requiring maintenance to retrieve it.

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Welcome back to the Baddest Radio, everyone. I cannot believe it's Thursday already, and I cannot believe it is already episode 10. It is a very special episode today. As you can see, the set looks a little bit different. We got Miss K moving around. Hi, everybody. And we got Princess May here with us today. Hey, Princess May. Yeah, and I don't know if you guys could see, but we're dressed as...

The Powerpuff Girls. Yes. I'm obviously Blossom. And I'm... No, I'm Blossom. I'm obviously Bubbles. And now I'm Blossom. I think you wanted to be Blossom. I wanted to be Big Soap up in the back. No, he changed his mind at the beginning. He was like...

I want to be Blossom. And then I edited the text. I'm like, I'm Bubbles. I want to wear blue. But anyways, I'm Bubbles. And I'm Blossom. And I'm Buttercup. Obviously, Miss K was going to get Buttercup regardless because green is her favorite color. What are y'all's week has been? It was fun. It was all right. What did you do? Honestly, work. Oh my God, you guys. Thank you guys for visiting me at Green World. Yeah.

I know there's so many people that's been messaging me I even saw a TikTok of a guy like was like Miss K low-key fine she works at Green World I sent it to you don't act wait what? I sent it to you it was like a guy visiting you at Green World and he was like I didn't know Bretman's cousin works here Miss K's fine oh my god I need to see it

I just met these two girls from Bulgaria and they were like, oh, we just came here just to see you. And I was like, oh my God, you guys are so cute. Wait, where is it at? Green World Cafe. Where is it at?

In Wahiwa. Oh, I need to come visit. You don't know that coffee shop in the middle of the road? I'm not a coffee girl. I know you're not. Sorry. It's okay. Do you guys have anything else? We have acai smoothies. We have smoothies for you. Lemonade. Yeah, I definitely need to go over there. Princess, how was your week? It was fun. What did I do? I had my OB appointment yesterday. I'm sure you went to Costco. Oh yeah, I did go to Costco. How'd you

I feel like you go to Costco every week, girl. I'm just going to start asking you, how was your Costco trip this week, bitch? How were the babies this week? I'm good. Good. No, I said, I'm good. I'm asking about your babies. No, I said, I'm good. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

wanted to spend time with grandma for the weekend. I only have them on the weekend. I know. I saw mom's Facebook. She took them to like a playground. Yeah. I did some content so I dropped them off to Kid City. Kid City? Yeah. Oh my god, it's so fun. Well, you're not a kid as well. I know but... But you should go with the kids. The daddies that go? Literally. No but I want to ask you a question. I don't know if you guys talked about this on your last podcast but how did you feel when Ezekiel was like I hate Costco? Because

Because mommy takes forever. We talked about it. Yeah, we did. We did. He didn't come to the last Costco run that I had. I was like, no, you're staying before you're talking about me. The funniest thing you said is that he's always the first one in the car. Yes, he loves Costco. That's the weird part. Oh. I'm like, Costco, if you would like Ezekiel to do an ad read for you, let me know. You have my shirt. Oh my God. Oh yeah, and then they went to Kid City and then they went to church the next day with Atalarena. Oh.

Yeah. Period. And they were telling me about God and all of that. Children of God. Yeah. And I was like, okay, that's cute. Period. Well, I don't mean to do this yet again, but ask me about my fucking week too, bitch. What the fuck? I was getting ready. I cared about your week. No, I don't. Okay, Brett, how was your week? Because I know you had an eventful week. Oh,

Girl, that was a peak of my week, girl. Oh my god. Yeah, yeah, I forgot that. I truly don't know how I didn't come back pregnant. Like, I don't know how. But honestly, this week, I went to my very first vacation with my man. We went to Kona. And it was all paid for by Miss Four Seasons herself. So it was just a cute weekend. Four Seasons, ooh!

I'm gonna give birth in December. So I would like, you know... No, it would be so fun. Like the three seasons. Yeah. We'll do a podcast there too. Yeah, literally. We'll do a pod episode there for seasons. We're here. Let us know. We will be free for that. But it was so fun. We stayed at this really huge suite. So we honestly just stayed in there the whole time. You know...

Things of that nature. We also had a date dinner by Manzo Piedmonti. Oh my god, it was so cute. Girl, apparently, what was really cool about the beef was... First of all, the check was checking, bitch. Like, that was the most expensive meal we ever had. But what's cool is that the beef apparently... So once since...

Until the minute the cow is born, they only eat olives. Like from a certain olive tree. And they only eat like a certain diet. And that's why it's a fat. And this is the first herd that is out of where they're originally from. I don't know where they're from. I think in like Asia, it's the first herd that they're having in Hawaii and...

And yeah, the food was fooding, bitch. I don't even like beef tartare like that. But the beef tartare was giving the scallops. I know, I was going to say, because you don't like olives too. I don't even like olives. Me too, I don't like olives. Girl, and it was so bomb. And Justice will tell you, anytime I was filming the food, it'd be gone by the time I take my first bite. Because girl, we were both, we saved our entire food for that.

Like literally we didn't eat breakfast or lunch. So we ate. We scarfed that shit up. They even made us like a birthday cake for our belated birthdays. Because we were supposed to do this around Leo season. Because we shared July as a birthday. But yeah, that was my week. It was really fun. One of my best discoveries was that my mans and I actually travel very well together. He's very patient with a bad bitch like me. And yeah.

No, because I feel like traveling is like a make it or break it kind of thing. Yes. But I will say it was two days. So like maybe we'll have to do a week trip. But no, I love traveling with him and I can't wait for more vacations. I saw the photos of you guys. I'm like, you need to frame this. This is so cute. I know. Thank you. Thank you. And it's just cool like teaching him how to like take pictures because he's like my little...

tripod oh not my little tripod within three legs girl he really is my tripod like from now on but yeah i feel like the most iconic one was when i saw on his instagram was when you lost your earrings and i was like i was wondering like how did you get your earrings inside those cracks

I was putting on my goat earrings, but before that, I was putting oil all over my body. And what is so fucking funny is before I dropped it, I literally was like, what if I drop my earring right now? And I'm putting it on and I like shake my head and I literally...

comes off and it falls on the thing. I get it the first time with the knife. I'm sure you guys saw the video but if you haven't, it's on my vacation carousel. But I failed and then when I was using the makeup brushes from Ariel and Morphe, I accidentally scooted it more in between the planks so I could no longer see it. So I ended up calling for backup. The maintenance people came.

Girl, they use like a hanger and like tape and even like the drain. Like, you know, when your hair gets stuck on the drain. Yeah. They have like that little thing that they put. They put that. What ended up working is they put tape at the end of that. So they ended up finding my earring. They put a tape on it and they lifted it up. And then somebody came in with the hanger and hooked it out.

And that was how I got it back. But yeah, I really did have my Kim K moment, bitch. They were like, girl, if we have to break this plank open, we will. And I'm like, girl, my card is on the accidental. Like, maybe not. Maybe not. Yeah, girl. And so yeah, but we're back.

And I can't believe we're already filming. Yeah. I feel like we were gone for a whole week. No, I thought you were gone for a whole week. Yeah. Princess, you filmed your first episode last week. How did you feel? Do you feel like you rested your case? I did. And I can't wait for you guys to watch the next podcast. Which is this one. Well, they probably watched it already. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I hope y'all enjoyed last week's episode. I hope you enjoyed it because I said what I said. Period. This episode is brought to you by Tinder.

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And so every 15 minutes, somebody is going to sit here and the two people that are sitting on that chair gets to ask whatever they want. This could be questions that you see online. These could be questions that you've just been burning to know about the person on the hot seat. Or this could just be like anything like fun and just anything. So for 15 minutes, you're in the hot seat and you get to ask other questions. But before that, I

I got to read the journal entry of the day. So the journal entry of the day is from December 11, 2022. And honestly, I just skimmed through my journal and I was like, I'm just going to read the first one that comes out. Oh my God. Signs on signs on signs. I feel like I have been seeing so many signs lately on my next stage of life.

I feel like I have just gotten a taste of stardom and I will fully step into Bretman Rock in 2023. This is so dramatic. I'm going to start acting on my way to becoming the best actor I could ever be. My acting era starts now and I'm ready to absolutely put my best foot forward.

And then I put on the next slide, I'm an actor, I'm an actor, I'm an actor, I'm an actor. How's that going, actor? That was very embarrassing. I don't know why I read that. But how is my acting era going? It's not going. I realized through some of my acting auditions and some of my acting classes that some of us don't need to act. Some influencers just need to influence others.

I think, and if I do believe that there is, there might be a role for me one of these days. But honestly, I love what I do as an influencer. I love this podcast. I love what my acting era has manifested into. And if it is podcast, then it is that. But like, yeah, yeah.

I honestly think being an actor for you doesn't suit you very well. Yeah. Because it's like, when you look at Brett, all you think about is Brett and not the character he's playing. Well, that's like my opinion. That's what I think. Like when RuPaul acts, I can't get RuPaul out of my head. He's just like RuPaul. And like I said, I do think there is a role for me one day. But I do think that role would be very similar to me. Yeah.

Like a gay best friend or like a makeup bestie. Like, you know, like somebody that's just like already gay. Yeah, like I watched The Proud Family.

Was it the prep? Yeah, like that. Like my character on that. So I see myself acting like as a version of myself on TV. But I don't think I could act like if I had a straight role, girl mama, I'm sorry. You're not going to get Bretman Rock out of your head being like. I could honestly see you like acting like, you know, those high school movies like Mean Girls. Yeah. Like Janice Ian, like I'm the gay best friend.

Yeah. Yeah, I could see myself doing that. Very much. That is very much my role that I feel like I could do. But I also feel like I would do like stand-up comedy. Because a lot of like stand-up

comedians start there and then they venture out into acting so maybe that's my venture that's my cup of tea maybe but I'm enjoying what I'm doing I'm enjoying my little life riding the wave yeah would y'all ever try acting? yeah actually I wanted to be like a zombie yeah you do give Walking Dead yeah I do speaking of speaking of playing roles that is already you you Walking Dead Walking Dead

Yeah. Specifically walking dead. Yeah. Wait, let's audition right now, princess. Give us your best zombie, like, you know, transformation. You transforming into a zombie. I can't.

Why? Somebody's gonna bite me first. Girl! Isn't that a vampire? No, you have to get bitten. You have to get bit to be a zombie, I think. Don't you have to die, though? Okay, princess. A zombie has bit you. Uh-huh. Three. There. Three, two, one. Action. Wait! Kim, Kim, I was laughing. That's why. Okay, okay, okay. Three, two. So I got bit already? Yeah, you got bit.

action oh oh my god zombie i thought i almost thought there was a zombie i think there was a zombie apocalypse just now i watched a lot of i watched a lot of zombie movies

That was giving. That was giving. Because when she did it, she looked like when she was shocked. Yeah. I was like... Well, hello. Your body is...

Like trying to get immune to being a zombie Okay Okay She has a backstory Yeah She has a back She didn't realize she was a zombie yet girl Yeah You know the zombie's forming Yeah Her immune Her immune was fighting it How would you transform? How would you transform? Like what do you mean? Like you're transforming into a zombie That was That was it Oh Okay You know what I mean? Okay

You know what I mean? Thank you for that, princess. Miss K, do you ever, have you ever looked into acting ever? No, never. Period? Never. Honestly, acting is not for me. That's fine. The only time I would act is when I need to get out of something. Like,

Off to work. Kind of thing. Yeah. You do give actress. Yeah. What? Can't get over it. Princess. That was so stupid. What? No. Like I really. I've always wanted to do like. Like a backup. Like just a backup. Zombie. Oh.

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And we're back. All right. Since I'm already sitting on the hot seat, I guess it's only fair that I start off at the hot seat. So I'm going to do a 15 minute timer. All right. I'm putting the timer right here. Not our 15 minutes going. Yeah. Okay. I'm going to put 15 seconds at 5.

Okay. All right. Two, one. Okay. I want to know, you were asexual once. When did you turn gay? I've always was curious. So I think... I know when. I believe that I was asexual because there was honestly nobody in my grade school that was cute. Like nobody was giving me the...

sexual awakening that I felt like it should be giving. Yeah. Because nobody was just cute in my grade. No offense to anybody that graduated with me. You knew you're ugly. You knew. Don't act. Don't fucking act. Because if any of y'all were fucking cute, I would have been sucking dick in high school. But... Okay. So that's what I thought. Honestly, I was asexual because I just didn't feel like I was having gay awakenings. At that time though, also, it wasn't because I wasn't

I was scared to come out because you were already out. So I was like, girl, I have cousins that's out. Like, I'm not like... But I just honestly was like, I don't even like boys. Like, the boys in my grade school was so fucking ugly, mean, and just like not it. And I think like I had more girlfriends and I feel like I was more drawn to girls too. And like I was... I dated girls in middle school. And...

But when I did date girls, I was like, I'm not feeling it. Like I feel her more as like a bestie. So I think it was more...

just like a confused part of my life of like I don't even like boys so I can't even say I'm gay yeah and then I reached high school and then they were like cute seniors and I was like oh the cute seniors yeah it'd be the cute seniors girl because I had PE for second period and obviously the the seniors were like our TA and like there was one specific one which hopefully one day like

I'll see you again or whatever but girl I don't even remember his name so don't ask me but I was like ooh I like that and I never miss no P.E. but yeah okay I was just always curious period mine's just super easy but who is your favorite sibling

Oh my gosh, I only have two siblings unless we count the two halfies that we have. I would say Princess May. No, no. I mean, I mean, yes, obviously. But obviously it's going to be Princess because we're closer of age. She was always like there for me per se because obviously JR was like so grown and like

Like, I think we're 14 years apart. Yes. And that will do some numbers in your relationship. Because not that JR is unrelatable or anything. But, like, by the time I was 8 years old, he already had a child. And was, like, a father. And, like, was married. So it was, like, hard to connect with him. And then also, and we'll get to this when JR, like, comes into the podcast. But, like, JR wasn't really a brother to me.

That he could be. Yeah. Because of like... Things that he was doing. And so... It really scarred our relationship. Yeah. And it really did scar our relationship. I'm sure... Kiefer, you were living with us. So you saw that. Yeah. Like happen with us. So it was really hard to build a relationship with my brother...

when I was young and so like now that I'm older I'm not saying that I don't have a relationship with him but it I feel like it's sad that my brother is in his 30s and I'm in my mid-20s and we're still working on a relationship yeah when we should have already yeah but I'm glad that we are where we're working on it yeah period but to answer your question obviously it's Princess Mae girl that's my girl okay as a working girly what would what job would you do if you weren't doing this

Oh, that was a good question. Oh, that's a good one. Okay, Google. I feel like if I wasn't an online influencer, content creator, whatever, if you will, I think I would be in like the vet field or something. With animals? Yeah. With animals, maybe something like I would love to, like I feel like my first job would be like a pet store.

Pet Depot girl. I know. I'm like an immediate hire if I ever. They wanted you to work there, right? Yeah, literally. Pet store, anything. But also now that I got older, I feel like my profession, I think that's what you're wanting. I feel like I would do something in like the horticulture where it's like I'm either like a landscape architect. Like, like.

plants like picking out plants for like hotels or like picking out like plants for people's homes like and stuff like that but I think I would also somewhat stay in the creative field I'm just not like a good drawer like I'm very creative when it comes to ideas but like when it comes to like making it happen yeah I could never draw that I could never like you know rap or like you know but

Yeah, I would say plants and animals. Something that just has to do with that. Because I think that's my one calling in life. Yeah, I see that. Ooh, that's good. Farmer too. Like growing my own shit. Yeah. My next question is, who in the industry do you not talk to anymore?

Oh my God, Princess. That is a heavy question. I honestly think a lot of people in the industry that I used to talk to, I don't talk to anymore. Not because of any malicious intent or anything like that. But because I think when COVID happened, it was hard to like keep in touch or see people, especially in the beauty industry. When I did get out of the beauty industry, obviously I'm not going to be like,

By beauty industry. And then still hanging out with everybody in the beauty industry. So I would say a lot of them. A lot of the ones in the beauty community. I no longer talk to anymore. Obviously I'm not going to name names. But like. Y'all know who. I don't talk to anymore. And then there's some that I still do talk to. Like I love talking to Patrick Starr. Yeah. I love. My homegirl. Hi Patrick. Hi Patrick.

Patrick Ta as well. Just people in the industry that I still kind of work with. I feel like you have a... Because every time I go with you somewhere, you have always a handful of people that you hang out with. And it's always the same people. But yeah, I would say a lot of the beauty girls that I used to hang out to, I don't really hang out with anymore. Just because I think we grew out of each other or just the fact that I'm not in the beauty industry anymore. And it's like, we're not really...

has the same interests. Yeah, we're not really in events, the same events. We're not in the same, we ain't in the same room. Yeah. And that's fine. We're not in the same table. Exactly.

That was a good question, Princess. You have seven minutes left. Oh my God. It's only been seven minutes. Y'all are really making this a hot seat. I'm like getting sweaty. What is your dating deal breaker? My dating deal breaker, honestly, is when you give me friend vibes. And I feel like I only say that because before my mans, I've only really been into two dates. I don't know. I don't even know if one of them was a real date. But like, I think...

like the first five minutes of meeting someone, you just know when someone's like, your girl or someone's gonna be your man, you know? And sometimes like when I'm on dates, I'm just like,

You're my bestie. You are my bestie. And that's not really like a negative thing. I think it's cool to go on dates, but it's also cool to recognize like when somebody is worth the time or not. I don't necessarily think a friend vibe is a deal breaker. I think you can work into something more. But honestly, for me, like once I see you as a friend, you my friend forever. I would also say something that

That has ever happened to you ever before? What? Like, went on a date and you're like... Yeah. Oh, yeah. Okay.

a friend. Oh, yeah, girl. Most of my dates actually have just been like, we're going to make good friends. Yeah. And like we stayed friends, obviously. I'm not like, yeah, like, you know, but yeah, I had a couple of friends through dates. But I think like a red flag or like I just don't want to see on dates. I think it's somebody with no eye contact or like just somebody boring to talk to. Yeah, I think because I am such a talker. And if I have to like

carry the whole fucking date where it's to a point where like I'm interviewing you and you're not even asking me back shit no I think it's just like a level of interest too it makes me feel like you're not even that interested so like why am I gonna entertain it feels like I'm just entertaining and so I would say that like somebody that's just not vibing well with me talking wise like someone who can't talk oh okay here you go

I was like, wow. Why y'all respond like that? Okay. No. No, it's because it's true. No, because it's true. Yeah. Because I would be like, I would literally, you're too nice. I would literally be like, okay, I have to go. Yeah. I'm like, is that all? Yeah. Yeah. I'm just like, okay, can I leave? Yeah.

I'll finish a meal. Yeah, I'm gonna finish the meal. Period. You can eat that. Like... Yes, that's what I would say. Can you give us one ick about Justin? Oh, Justin. Justin. Thank you.

No, Justice. An ick that I have of Justice. And it was like an early on. And he knows this, so I don't give a fuck. But I hate his nicknames for me. Oh. Wait, I remember there was, we were playing a game and I forgot, I forgot what the nickname he said. Brady. No. Mama Brett. I was.

I was dying. Because I have a nickname for him everywhere we go. Like he's Papa, Papi, like Pa, Justice. I call him, you know, everything under the book. And all his nicknames for me is just like, Bretty, Brittany. Mama Brett. Mama Brett. And I'm just like, girl, don't make me fucking cringe. Giving Mama mercy. And it was beginning of our relationship where like he's waking up in the morning and I'm like,

Good morning, King. And he's like, good morning, Brady. Bitch, pack your shit up. Brady. Call me fucking... I call you Brady. Yeah, I'm like, girl. And I will also say this. The first time I got upset with him, you guys know, but like, it was when he called me my phone, like, Bradman. I hate...

Me too. I hate when my man calls me by my name. Especially like Bretman. Because like nobody in my life that I love calls me Bretman. Like you guys call me Bret. You know, like Bret, I understand. But when my man's calling me Bretman, I'm like, it makes me...

want to crawl up and die. Yeah. I'm like, who is that? Who's that? Who's Bretman? So yeah. Me calling you Bretman. I know. Bretman Rock. Yeah. Girl, if he called me Bretman Rock. The full name. It's a wrap. With your dad's last name and our last name. All that name. And he has such, he has like a deep voice whenever he says it. He's like, Bretman!

Girl. At least he doesn't call you Mark Anthony. Oh my god, girl. I don't... Next question. That just pisses me off. Okay, princess. Oh, it's my turn. Oh, wait. And that has been my 15 seconds... Bitch, I wouldn't have answered my question! Well, we're too late. You'll save it for the next hot seat episode. Alright, guys. That was 15 seconds. I mean...

Damn, bitch. 15 minutes. Oh my gosh. I'm kind of scared. I kind of want to go up next because I don't want to be last. All right, sure. The next person on the hot seat is none other than Princess May. I guess. Go ahead. All right. Princess May in the hot seat, girl. Zombie Princess May. I know. All right, Princess. I guess your timer starts now.

Princess May, who is your favorite child? I was gonna ask that. Oh my god, who asked that? Actually, no, that's not fair to ask because I don't want them to watch this one of these days. But who do you favorite the most? Bitch, no. Which of your child would you say was the easiest baby? Baby? New Tophie. I know. He's so easy. Yeah. Like,

He doesn't cry. He just little whines when he's hungry. And then once he's hungry and full, he's good. He's the easiest to babysit. Yes. He's just like very... Chilled and laid back. Honestly, he was just... He's a very easy baby. Yeah. Other than like his allergies, I think that's the only thing about him. Because he...

But he doesn't even cry. Yeah, he doesn't even cry when he has like his eczema and it's like... Itchy. Yeah. Like, he just, he doesn't cry. He just starts scratching. I feel bad. Because he's easy, is that why you were like, ready for another one? Yeah.

You can have two questions at once. Bitch. Okay, bitch. Go ask your next question. Ask the question. Is that why you're ready for another one? No, actually, we were planning to have another child. And then it just didn't happen. So we stopped. And then after we stopped, like a month later, I gave like...

I found out I was pregnant. Do we know the gender yet? A girl. Yes, I'm having... A woman of color. It's a woman of color. I can't wait. Yeah, Cleo's so, so, so, so excited. I know. Another sister. Three boys, two girls. Yeah. Aww. Do you have a name for this next baby yet? Yes, I do. Her name is gonna be Rosalita. It's a combination with Tony's mom's name, which her name is Rosella. Okay.

And mom's name, Mercedita. So, Rosalita. I would have said Marcella, but whatever. That's so cute. Yeah, Marcella's cute too, but like, I don't know. Because Rosalita sounds like a wrestler. It's not Rose, it's Ra. Rosalita. Yeah, Rosalita. Rosalita. Yeah. Is she going to have a nickname? A middle name? Oh, a middle name? Brady. I don't really...

Her middle name, I don't know how to say it, but it's pretty in Samoan. Which is? I don't know how to say it. I think it's Alale, something like that. Something cute. Okay. Well, we'll ask Tony. Yeah. Period. Dang, I forgot my question. It's okay. We can wait. No, no. Do you have another? Wait, hold on. No, I asked you this earlier. What is your dating deal breaker? Dating? What do you mean? Like a deal breaker.

Like, if you're dating someone, like, oh, you gotta go. Like, you were sitting on a dinner and you're like, and he does something and you're like, okay, I'm gonna go. What is your turn offs? Oh, okay, my turn offs. Damn, bitch. Hurry up. Not you wasting our time. I know, you're literally, like, wasting our time. Because it literally jumped from a baby to a deal breaker. Like, I'm sorry. Like, my mind doesn't work like that.

Okay. Okay, what's your baby deal breaker? Don't cry too much. Just kidding. One of my deal breakers is definitely like what Bremen said too. Like if I can't be myself like around you, like I just can't. Like if I have to like try my best for you to talk and like if you're not giving me your all, that's one of my deal breakers. Like I hate being that fake vibe. Like I can't. Yeah. Yeah.

Someone that you just vibe with. Someone I just vibe with, for sure. What would you say is your favorite part about pregnancy? Because you said you love being pregnant, girl. The thing is about why I love being pregnant is because I don't have a lot of symptoms. Like, I don't have... Yeah, girl, you be doing the most when you're pregnant. I'm like... Yeah, like, I don't have any. Like, my face doesn't, like, puff up. I don't have morning sickness like that. Like, I'm not nauseous. Like, all of that, I don't get at all.

Like I move around a lot. Like I do a lot. I wish I can relate because I feel like when I got back from my vacation, I had morning sickness. I think I'm expecting actually. No, I think that was just the play. But yeah, that's my favorite thing about being pregnant. It's super easy for me. That's why. Period. Yeah. Birthing too is super easy for me. Like, well, I stay in the hospital like for like 12 hours, but like I'm chilling most of the time. I'm sleeping in it.

And then when it's time for the baby to come out, the baby comes out in like five minutes. So like, you should call the next one. I'm okay. You should go on TikTok live. Princess, I'm not trying to watch you give birth. I'm sorry. Thank you for the offer. But that's a little traumatizing because I saw, I think it was Twitter where I was like, yeah, I don't need to see that. Okay, maybe I'll just record it. I will be there after though. Like I'm always there.

I record it and then send it to you guys. I really want you guys to see it. Go on TikTok live. No, yes. Imagine on TikTok live. Guys, send me a gif and I'll push. Send me Galaxy. Thank you for the rose. Thank you for the rose. Thank you for the rose. Oh my God. Send her the Galaxy. Like, do you want to battle right now? Noice.

Was that my question? Yeah, it was. Okay, what was your biggest childhood fear and how did you overcome it? Ooh, that's a good one. Childhood fear. You guys were bullies. Bullying works in this podcast. Yeah, I feel like one of my, like, honestly... I think you being the only girl was a challenge. Yeah, it was. It was, honestly. And to, like...

I didn't have any... What is that word? No, I just didn't have like guidance. Like all of you guys were all guys. And like I didn't have anybody to look up to as a female. And all the girls were like in high school. Yeah, they were just older. And then like...

Yeah. There's just nobody I could relate to. And you guys used to pick on me a lot. Period. Yeah. And I just knew. I was like, they're one of the girls. Yeah. They're like, they want what I have. That's why they're bullying me. They're the girlies. Yeah. I used to live off Princess because I would buy her Barbies. Yes. But it turns out it was for me. It was for her. Yes.

Yeah you guys were very much The tukakampi And I was mainly with Colin Yeah I remember when grandma Thought we were like Dating or something Cause we were always together I don't know why grandma Like I was just like I know Why would grandma think Y'all are dating And y'all were like Five six years old Yeah Cause we were On the ground Playing with the Barbies Like underneath the bed Like yeah And I was like

Girl, I cannot with grandma. I miss seeing her loose titties everywhere walking around. Aw, I miss grandma. I miss grandma too. She was the queen. Hi, Inang Bakar. Yeah, with her roller. And her bread inside the rollers. Her noodles. The way we would run up her EBT too, girl.

Remember when her EBT would renew and we would all go to underneath her bed? No, but remember when we would go shopping for her at Don Quixote with her EBT and then we'd grab a couple things for ourselves? Yes.

I miss grandma so much. I know. Was it weird for you when... Oh, wait. Actually, no. It's my question now, right? Yeah. What is the biggest challenge for you, like, raising a girl? Cleo? Or just a girl in general? Just a girl in general, I think. Honestly, like... Like, being a girl mom, yeah. Honestly, like, it goes for all my kids. But since Cleo was, like, my first girl and my first child, like, I wanted to show her...

love like a lot of love yeah because I never had that and then like I'm not saying that mom wasn't wasn't like there but she was but like I just want to show her like love and tell her how much I love her because I'm scared that

she's gonna have to like go through what i've went through like not feeling love yeah yeah because like a mother's love is different like it's like i think it's the most important thing ever because you you came out of that you know what i mean like imagine like not being loved by someone that

Yeah. Took you here. And you know what I mean? So like, I just want to make her feel like she's loved and like, I want to be that person, her person, her best friend. Yeah. Yeah. That's...

And that's not to say like mom never showed us love. It's just like mom worked so, so much. And I think it was really easy for us to resent that as like when we were kids because we didn't understand that she had to work. And it was easy for us to feel like, oh, she doesn't love us. But it was because she loved us so much that she worked every day. But since I'm able to do that, I will do that.

for my daughter. For sure. I'm not saying I don't work, but like I have the blessing to be able to be with my kids and also do work at the same time. Period. You know what I mean? So like I...

Yeah, I just... That's one of my biggest challenges is that, like, I wanted her to feel loved and be loved and have a mother, you know, that's there. Always. I have a question. I don't know how to put this in as, like, a question, but, like, as a part of, like, parenting, like, you have, like, your fears of your kids. I was gonna ask that. Yeah, like, some parents are scared of, like, their kids leaving when they, like, you know, grow up. Like, are you scared? Like, oh, like, I can't wait. Like...

I'm scared when they leave or like something, you know? Oh, well, like right now, my kids leave to go to like a different household. Oh, yeah. So that like my fear is like, I'm not there for them when they're like calling out for me. Yeah. You know, like that's like, I don't want them to feel like, like I said again, not loved. And like, I'm not there. And then like, obviously, Ezekiel,

He doesn't call me because he doesn't have a phone. Like, with Cleo, she calls me, you know. Some days she's really sad and I really just want to go over there and hug her and, like, be there for her. Like, that's one of my fears is that, like, I'm not there, you know. Yeah. And, yeah, like, when they grow up, eventually they're going to have to leave and all of that. That is one of my biggest fears because I feel like I'm so attached to my kids. Like...

Before, like, it was hard. But yeah, anyways, go ahead. Next question. Period. I think, obviously, that question wasn't for me. But as their uncle, like, I think what I'm most scared for Cleo is that, obviously, she's a girl. And then, like, you know, boys are not really the coolest, like, the nicest things out there. So there's that. And there's also just, like you said, the fear of, like, not being there to protect her. Yeah, protect her, for sure. Yeah. Yeah.

My next question was because the internet loves to ask this question and to assume. Do you really have 12 baby daddies? Oh my god, not 13. How many baby daddies do you have? I was one off. Yes, what the...

Do I really have three baby daddies? Or no. How many baby daddies do you have? Because bitches love to give you numbers. There's only one that matters. I was going to say, can you rate them? Not one to five. I only have three baby daddies. Not only, but I have three baby daddies. Okay. And whose dads are whose? I mean, yeah, how many...

So Cleo has a dad. Ezekiel has a dad. And Tony and this one has the same dad. Because people love to… So I have four kids. I birthed four of them. But we have five total because Tony had one in a previous relationship. Because people are like, you got five kids with three baby daddies. No, I only have four. But five. Additional five. Yeah, kids. But one is not mine. Okay. Okay.

Period. Last question, Ms. K. If you could pick a career for your kids, what would they be? For each one. Oh my god! This is a cute question. Uh...

I feel like Cleo would be a very, very good… I feel like she would be a good coach, honestly. Volleyball. She has a motherly feel to her. She does. That's why. She has a motherly feel. She's such a big sister. Yeah, she is. And then Ezekiel, I feel like he'd be a really good dancer. Like a choreographer. Like in the creative style. Yeah, like a star. Ezekiel is a star. You know what? Like, fuck it. He's gonna be a star, honestly. And then… And then that's all for today. Thank you for watching. And Muto…

I feel like new Tophie would be a really good basketball player. Honestly. Because he likes playing with the balls. He loves animals too. For some reason. Yeah, he does. But he's allergic. He is. But he'll be petting my dogs with like a star. I'm like, okay. She's like, it's okay. Alright, princess. That was your 15 seconds in the hot seat. That was a cute hot seat. Oh my god, I'm so nervous. Cue transition music as Miss K gets into her new seat.

And welcome back. Now we have Miss K in the hot seat. Hi, everybody. Your 15 minutes starts now. Princess, kick it off. Oh, okay. What? Kick it off. Oh. Take your time. Who's your favorite sibling? Well, I don't know.

My favorite sibling at this moment. At this moment. Honestly, it'd be like that. No, it changes. Because sometimes I'm not close with another. And you have multiple options. I only have two to choose from. I honestly think Jorley is my favorite sibling right now. Because me and her has been getting along so well. We love that. We love doing... Like, because...

She's the one that takes me, like, shopping and stuff. Like, she takes me to, like… Ever since ever. Yeah, ever since ever. And, like, she would… With everybody, I feel like. No, that's what we just said. Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. Yeah. Sorry. Continue? No, yeah. But, no, Jorli is my favorite sibling right now. Because I just honestly, like…

I feel like we're in the same wave right now. We're just like riding along, going with the flow and just living life. Love that. I should have done this before you got in the house because I feel like I'm wasting some time. But update on Miss ***. Who the f*** is Miss ***? You obviously don't keep up with us. Yeah. Oh.

He's not my man anymore, but he still sends me like reels, a lot of them on Instagram. I just don't really care for it anymore. I'm like, girl, I gave you my time and you didn't want it. Period. So my time is up.

- Hopefully the next one's to the next. - Their time is up. - Their time is up. - Their time is up. Your time is never up, Miss K, girl. - Yeah. - Don't worry, girl. I cannot wait for your next man out date. - Little rendezvous. - Your little rendezvous. - No, I'm really going with that whole like meeting them in person and like that. 'Cause I honestly love that fantasy. Like meeting someone. - I see that fantasy for you. That's why I told you. Your man's outside. Princess. - Oh, okay.

Oh, she got questions. I know. I only have one question. If you were dating or messing around with a married man. I hate you. And their wife or girlfriend calls you, will you say anything? Are you a girl's girl?

I am a girl's girl. I will say... If the girl comes up to me and be like, Hey, is my man doing something weird? I'll be like, yes.

And then I would tell him the story. I would tell her the story of like how it happened. And then if it's like two different stories and it's like, girl, it's not my fault. Yeah. At the end of the day, I was just going with the guy's set. But at the end of the day, I will be a girl's girl. I would tell, even if you're my friend and if you're cheating on someone, I would tell your partner that you're cheating on them. As you should. Yeah. The same. I think also just coming from like divorced parents. Yes. That's...

stem from cheating. Yeah. And siblings. Yeah. I have a sibling that lives for cheating, but he's good now with the baby mama. Period. That's all that matters. Yes. Because you love to ask us this question, what is your dating deal breaker? My dating deal breaker has to be

It has to be communications as well. If I can't find myself like... You not giving back. Like you know how like... We're playing ping pong. So you have to give the balls back. So if you're not giving me the ball back... Girl, there's no game happening. There's nothing. Period. Yeah. And it's also if you're boring. Because right now... Honestly, I'm in the stage where like... Your face doesn't really turn me on. Like your physique doesn't turn me on. It has to be conversations. Conversations turn me on. We love that. Yeah. I think we're all like that then. Like...

it's the communication and like, the vibe. Yeah, for sure. I'm not saying like, if you say hi to me, I'm going to sleep with you right away. No. But like, yeah, a good stimulation, like communication is like, very good. Do you believe in true love? Uh,

I do believe in true love. Wait, she asked this last, ask a different one. She, because you said she believes in true love and multiple divorces. Yeah. She answered that last episode. Princess, you clearly don't watch the episodes of me and Miss K, girl. I'm sorry. She just watches the ones she's on. I watch with the kids. Okay, something else. Okay. But yeah, I do believe in true love. Okay. And multiple divorces. Say, what has been the hardest thing about dating as a trans woman?

Oh, it's really hard, especially when you're in a place where it's like you're in an island and everyone knows each other. I forgot we live in an island. Yeah, yeah, we do. And honestly, it's hard because like sometimes I am too...

I'm too much of a feminine to be with a gay person. And I'm too much of a manly for a straight man. So it's like there's never in the middle. It's always like we're always going to be like... It's kind of bad. It's so sad. But I just feel like we're always going to be only behind closed doors. Well, I don't think that. Yeah, I don't think so either. You are fair for thinking that. Yeah. But it's really hard.

Like I said, yeah, because I'm not as girly as Princess. Or I'm not as manly as Brett. Girl, please. No, that ass. Brett Fitz were girly then. It's always the case because whenever I like, yeah, they would be attracted to me because I would look like a female to them. But as soon as I tell them like, oh, I'm trans, they would be like, oh.

Or they may be like, ooh, but behind closed doors to your point. I see. Yeah. We were like, oh, I could only meet you here, here or at night. Do you have like a funny dating experience? Like just something funny that you went like that you experienced in a date?

Oh, that's a good one. I don't really have a funny dating experience, but one of the dates that I love. Or like an NIOOP. Wait, what do you mean? Miss K, all your dates, like a lot of your funny date stories, a lot of them are funny, bitch. No, like an NIOOP moment or something. Like just something funny in your head. Well, this one has to be one of my favorite dates. We went to Tentless. Tentless.

And he brought his Switch and we started playing Smash. And he was like, if we… If I beat you, you kiss me. And if I… If you beat me, then I'll take you to like… I'll buy the food. Because we were going on like a stop. And I was like, okay, fine. So did you beat him? No. No.

I just kept falling Was that Super Smash Bros? Yeah Super Smash Bros Girl you're good at that though I know But girl I wanted a kiss Oh period Yeah I don't even know How to use Bayonetta What is this What is this controller It's going to the lab

Who's your Smash character? It has to be Gray Ninja. That's my ride or die girly. I feel like no one can beat me with her. Mine says Bowser Jr. What's a Smash? Period. I don't be playing games. I don't have time to play games like that. Yeah, you're a mom. You've actually never played Smash Bros. That's crazy. My next question is...

You know how you ask us like what is your turn off? What is your turn on? Like your biggest like green flag. My turn on? Yeah, not turn on. Like green flag, I guess. Being funny. If you can make me laugh. Because I feel like I'm a very... I'm not a vocal... What is that? Like vocal comedy? Yeah. Like I can't really get those jokes because I feel like sometimes my head doesn't like... You love a good physical comedy. I love a good physical therapy. So once someone makes me laugh by like using their voice...

So you want a comedian? A little comedian. And communication is a very good thing for me. Okay. My lack of communications. And I'm just like, I feel like you're... Period. Yeah. Princess. What's your favorite thing about your job?

The people Oh The people Oh yeah I think I She also answered that Yeah I think I watched this in the show actually I'm sorry At least I'm asking a question No yeah Then go Brett then Go since you have so many questions Ah

Girl, go ask first. It's your question. Yeah, it's okay. I feel like you guys are in the hot seat. I know, because I'm always talking to Miss K. I'm like, we've already talked about so many things. And I don't talk to Miss K like that, that's why. Okay, I have a question. It's a really, really hot seat question. Okay. Why did you block me? Oh, do you want to know the real reason why? Why?

Do you want to know the real reason why I blocked you? Because I could literally say why I blocked you. No, no, no. It's okay. It's okay. Because the situation was. Let's not. You asked the question. No, I know, but I'm not. I feel like you blocked me because I wasn't communicating with you.

No, you... Yeah, you blocked me because you... No, I blocked you. No, I blocked you. No, no, no. I didn't block you. I blocked you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. No, but you said you blocked me. So I... Yeah, I blocked you. No, you blocked me. The very first time I've ever talked to Princess was at the wedding. And I was like, you look very pretty today. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I was like, oh, without you too. And then she goes, thank you. And then walks away. No, I didn't. I said...

said you too because we were still sitting down and I was like what are you gonna get because there was like steak yeah yeah yeah barbecue stick so that was it that's the only time we talked and then like when you never say sorry to each other yeah when we pick when he picked me up today and I was like oh my god like okay I'm just gonna start doing makeup like I don't know who's gonna bring it up first but I feel like we should talk about it later on yeah it's a perfect time to talk about it and honestly it's like my intention was never to like start anything yeah yeah and

But the thing is, like, I appreciate that you, you know, care like that, you know, because. Yeah. I'm looking at myself in the mirror. What the fuck am I supposed to do? You should be like. The actor you are. No, but like, yeah, let's just talk about it later. I just feel like, you know. We're almost done. We can talk about it. Yeah, but like, I just feel like, you know, I.

I get where you're coming from. I get where everybody was coming from. But, like, at that searching situation, like, I just felt like I didn't want to... Because I'm going through a lot already. And then, like, one, I'm pregnant. And, like, I'm not able to even explain myself. Yeah, I just feel like I wasn't ready enough.

ready to talk to people of why I was upset and I was sad. I felt like they should have given me like space to like really communicate my feelings to them instead of like

Like everybody knowing and everybody coming at me. But all that matters is you guys both understand where you're both coming from. I still love you. I do love you still. That's why I haven't blocked you. You all blocked me because Brett was blocking me. All of this just to fucking know why you got blocked. No, because I was like... Brett made a group chat with me and Princess. And I was like...

Wait, who's fresh? What are they talking about? Whose number is this? Because I wasn't getting the text messages that day. Oh, no wonder. That is so funny. Bitch, that is so funny. So it's fresh. Yeah. It's fresh. It's fine. But also, all I have to say is y'all had a one-hour drive here. Y'all could fucking... I was doing my makeup.

Y'all could've done that conversation on the way here, bitch. And you texted us saying, like, you guys better not be late. So all I did was, like, drive and focus on, like, driving. It was just driving the whole entire time. Well, and they made it on time. We did. And now, cue transition music. Girl, I'm not with y'all. Please.

All right, we are back. Are you two ready for the product of the day? Oh my God, yes. Did you bring yours? Yes, I did. Where is yours? It's right here, actually. Oh, can you pass it to me? We'll start at Miss K then. Miss K, what is your product of the week? My product of the week has been this prey. Evanique Eve New York. Oh. Eve New York. Oh my God, I've been saying this wrong. The distinct.

Evanic? It's because I'm right next to you. That's why. Yeah, literally. It's the reading. Comprehension. Is this even? That looks like an A. Eva?

It's Eve New York, I think. Oh, so Eve New York. This prey has been like coming in clutch with me because I've been in my going out era. And I dress very basic and like all black all the time. I love a good all black. And then this one just gives a little sparkle. I know. Yeah. So it's like a cute like little enhancer. Yeah.

Does it go on your body or your hair? Everywhere. I put Miss K on to that because Coachella, I featured them on one of my videos and I guess they sent me like a whole bunch. I can give you some on your way out, Princess. I'm actually out, Brett. I can get you more. But they gave me like an entire case full. I think I have like 25 of those. And I was just handing them out and I'm glad you like it. No, I do. I love putting it on my hair and body. I usually use this as like a setting spray. It doesn't set your makeup but it has...

It gives you like a cute glow. Yeah. It's cute. Wait, do you want to see? Your hand.

It's out. She's like, is the glitter in the room with us? I'll give you guys some. Okay, Princess, what is your mom product of the week? That mic is heavy. Yeah, it was. While he was reading his thing, I was like, is it on? Hurry up. Okay, wait, wait, wait. So my beauty product of the week is Tear Tears. This is their lip oil and I'm wearing it right now. I never put anything else.

wow i love that lip oil it's so cooling and this one is in my glow oh here i love the blue one on that one and the purple one yeah i like all of them actually but can i try yeah i can give you a miss cam

I love coming to this podcast. Okay, my product of the week would have to be my new favorite acne spot treatment. This is from Christine Chin. She has a spa or like a med spa in New York. And I went there for the first time when I broke out last Fashion Week this February. And she was like, I honestly, because I was using like pimple patches for most of the time. But she was like, this is better than a pimple patch. It's like, it's basically a pimple patch.

patch treatment but I like it because I like it. It's just really good. It's herbal. It's like berry. It won't dry out too much because sometimes I feel like when I was using other spot treatments it like literally burned my skin. This one's like gentle enough and also I use it for both like morning and night and I just like it. Do you put it all over your face? No, it's just like you just put a little dot. Like a little pump? Yeah, but I do love her other products but my favorite one would be this.

Herbal blemish gel. And I know she doesn't really have like a store. Yeah. You guys have to get it in New York or you guys have to DM her and ask for it. But yeah, Christine Chin Spa. I love you, girl. Did you get a whole box of that too? I will. I'll ask. I'll ask. Well, that's the end of this episode. Miss K, do you have anything to plug? Just follow you. Yeah, just follow me on my socials. Which is at? Oh, my Instagram is M-I-S-K-A-A-Y.

And I think my TikTok is M-I-S-K-A-Y also. Princess? Just follow me on my socials, RealPrincessMe on Instagram and TikTok.

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