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Love, Throughline

2024/2/15
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Andrea Wolfe
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Dr. Veronica Hefner
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Emma
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Maura Weigel
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主持人:探讨了现代爱情的困境,特别是在线约会带来的挑战,例如约会过程的商品化、孤独感以及对理想化爱情的追求。 Žižek:认为人们试图通过技术手段规避坠入爱河的风险,追求没有代价的爱情,这反映了肤浅的消费主义态度。 Andrea Wolfe:追溯了现代浪漫爱情理念的起源,指出其发源于18世纪后期的德国耶拿,一群年轻的思想家和哲学家在那里发展了浪漫主义的理念,强调个人主义、情感体验和解放,但这种理念与我们今天理解的浪漫主义有所不同。 Dr. Veronica Hefner:研究了媒体对爱情观念的影响,指出浪漫理想包括爱情战胜一切、灵魂伴侣、一见钟情和理想化伴侣等四个方面,并分析了这些理想对人们约会期望的影响。 Emma:分享了她多年使用约会软件的经历,指出其积极和消极方面,最终选择删除软件,认为这改善了她的生活。 Maura Weigel:从历史角度探讨了约会的演变,指出约会内在就存在着对求爱的危机感,历史上一直存在对约会的道德恐慌,并分析了约会软件的经济激励机制以及其对人际关系的影响,认为约会软件的算法并不能很好地匹配人们,它只能筛选掉那些有无法调和的差异的人。 主持人:总结了节目的观点,表达了对未来约会方式的希望,认为未来的约会方式将会打破目前的僵局,最终找到爱情会比现在更好。

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We asked you to call us with your stories of looking for love in the 21st century — and man, did you come through. We heard the whole range of human experience in your stories, but one theme rang out loud and clear: dating, and especially online dating, is a struggle.The data backs this up. Despite the fact that meeting someone today doesn't require much more than swiping on your phone, people who are looking for long-term relationships are lonelier than ever.Why is it like this? How did love – this thing that's supposed to be beautiful, magical, transformative – turn into a neverending slog? We went searching for answers, and we found them in surprising places. On today's show: a time-hopping, philosophical journey into the origins of modern love.Correction: An earlier version of this episode incorrectly said that the Jena Romantics shared a house for 10 years. In fact they lived and worked in close proximity, occasionally cohabitating, for approximately five yearsLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices)NPR Privacy Policy)