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S19 E12: (1/2) [Jennifer Khalifa, CPEDV] The Absence of Trauma is Choice

2024/3/21
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Jennifer Khalifa: 我是一个幸存者,我的童年充满了动荡和创伤,这为我成年后遭遇亲密伴侣暴力埋下了伏笔。创伤的反义词不是没有创伤,而是选择。在缺乏选择的成长环境中,我们更容易在成年后的亲密关系中重蹈覆辙。我的第一个施暴者利用宗教信仰和我的不安全感来控制我,从情感和身体上虐待我。他不断地贬低我的价值,让我觉得自己应该为他的行为负责。在大学期间,我向辅导员寻求帮助,但得到的回应却让我感到非常无力和不被理解。后来,我搬进了施暴者的家中,在那里遭受了更严重的性侵犯和虐待。我感到非常孤立无助,不知道如何逃脱。最终,我意识到自己必须离开,并开始寻求帮助。 Tiffany Reese: 我非常同情Jennifer的经历,她的故事揭示了亲密伴侣暴力和性别暴力的复杂性和普遍性。施暴者通过模式化的行为来控制受害者,贬低受害者的自我效能感和自尊心。很多高校在面对性侵犯时无所作为,优先考虑自身声誉而非学生安全。为年轻人创造意识、教育和赋权,帮助他们识别健康和不健康的亲密关系,对于预防亲密伴侣暴力至关重要。受害者不报警的原因有很多,包括对施暴者产生同情、羞愧和自责。我们需要更多地理解和支持受害者,帮助她们走出阴影。

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*Content Warning: domestic/interpersonal violence, gang violence, murder, death, religious abuse, sexual abuse, grooming, rape, violence, stalking, purity culture, animal bite, betrayal trauma, systemic abuse, institutional abuse, threats of murder, Mifepristone (“the abortion pill”), strangulation. 

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