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You're Not the Boss of Me!

2024/8/12
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Shankar Vedantam
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Shankar Vedantam:探讨了人们在生活中如何抵制或拒绝他人建议的普遍现象,以及心理学家Benjamin Rosenberg对这一现象的研究。 Benjamin Rosenberg:分享了他个人在生活中经历的与他人发生冲突的案例,并深入探讨了心理抗拒的理论基础、表现形式以及应对策略。他详细解释了心理抗拒的成因、飞镖效应、态度变化、对权威人物的愤怒等多种表现形式,并结合自身经验和研究成果,分析了年龄、性别、社会地位等因素对心理抗拒的影响。他还探讨了新冠疫情期间的公共卫生政策如何加剧了心理抗拒,以及如何通过改变语言、提供选择、提前告知、使用故事等方式来减少心理抗拒。最后,他还提出可以利用心理抗拒来促进积极的行为改变。 Moss Masumoto:讲述了Renee Johnson帮助其家人与失散多年的亲戚团聚的故事,展现了人际关系中尊重和理解的重要性。 Renee Johnson:通过积极主动地寻找Moss Masumoto的家人,帮助他们与失散多年的亲戚团聚,体现了人道主义关怀和社会责任感。

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Whether in your personal life or at work, you've probably experienced what it’s like to have people reject your requests. To be told that what you want is unfair, or heavy-handed. And you've likely been in the opposite position as well — pushing back against requests that step on your freedom. This week, we talk to psychologist Benjamin Rosenberg) about how we respond to infringements on our sense of autonomy, and how we can avoid sparking this resistance in our interactions with other people. 

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