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Nobody Should Believe Me is a production of Large Media. That's L-A-R-J Media. Before we begin, a quick warning that in this show we discuss child abuse and this content may be difficult for some listeners. If you or anyone you know is a victim or survivor of medical child abuse, please go to MunchausenSupport.com to connect with professionals who can help.
If you'd like to support the show, subscribe on Apple Podcasts or join me on Patreon to listen to exclusive bonus content and get all episodes early and ad-free. What would you say to people that are having a really hard time processing this idea that a mother would be capable of doing this to her child? The first thing that I would ask that person is one,
Do you believe that evil can walk boldly among us? And then the second thing is, is please have an open heart and an open mind and look at the evidence. Let the evidence lead you to a conclusion.
because in Alyssa's case, we can take you down an evidentiary trail that is overwhelming. In most of these cases where we see a child that can't walk or can't feed themselves, and all of a sudden you take that child away from that parent and separate them, and all of a sudden they can walk. They can eat by mouth. They didn't need the feeding tube. They didn't need all the medications. They're not allergic to all the food. In Texas, in investigations, often we say this: where there's a little smoke, there might be some fire.
people believe their eyes. That's something that actually is so central to this whole issue and to people that experience this is that we do believe the people that we love when they're telling us something. I'm Andrea Dunlop, and this is Nobody Should Believe Me. This episode is brought to you by Shopify.
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At the top of the episode, you heard from Sheriff Bill Weyburn. The sheriff is an incredible guy, and he
He really looks like whatever it is that might come to mind when you picture a Texas sheriff. He's about 6'4", he wears a 10-gallon hat and a big belt buckle, and he has a very spectacular mustache. He and his wife, Laura...
who we've also heard from in a previous episode, are a really big part of this story. And as you'll remember, they are actually relatives of Brittany Phillips. So now we're going to go back to Detective Mike Weber, who's going to catch us up on where the investigation into Brittany Phillips stands at this moment.
This was a nine-month investigation from the time it was reported to the time of Brittany's arrest. So you're looking at an extensive time period, right? Even though Alyssa was three, her medical records were extensive. The sheriff, I think he said there was half a bookcase full of medical records. And I mean, I...
I have a three-year-old and other than her child well visits, which are just the scheduled pediatrician, you bring them in, you bring them in a lot when they're really little and then you bring them in every six months and every year. Other than those, I count on one hand the number of times I've taken my daughter to the doctor. Right.
other than just normal stuff, right? So you continued to interview Britney's friends? The group from What to Expect later transitioned into a Facebook group. They all moved over to Facebook. And you know, this is when social media was just starting to take off.
And I also interviewed Scarlett Weathers. Scarlett Weathers was moderator of that group and she had issues with Britney. And she said the same thing that the others said, that there would be these times where her child was worse off than anyone else's. When everyone would post something, she was always right after them posting her child's sicker.
And she had actually unfriended Brittany from Facebook. Then after refriending her, she saw posts from the hospital suddenly started popping up again. Again, I interviewed these people. This all just leads into more evidence for the Facebook war. Keep in mind that this case is taking place in 2009. And although social media existed back then and people were online quite a bit, much, much less than they are today. So this was really one of the first cases
cases that Detective Mike Weber worked on where a person's online life really came into play. But now these are really considered a very central part of these investigations. And there are people who perpetrate Munchausen by proxy and Munchausen behaviors only online. So that is a term that Dr. Mark Feldman, who we spoke to last season, coined Munchausen by internet. So some of these things are only happening
happening online, but a lot of perpetrators who commit these crimes in real life with their real children will use these social media tools, online forums, support groups. They'll infiltrate groups that are dedicated to parents with a child with a specific condition or just sick children in general. And this has really become a method for them to gain attention. And I think this is something that
We all understand that social media and especially, you know, during the pandemic, social media was really the only way that we had to connect with each other. And so that is something that is a really powerful tool, unfortunately, in the hands of a purpose.
I sat down with Susan Ryle, who again was the CPS supervisor on this case, to talk about how important it is for CPS and law enforcement to work together in these investigations. Now, law enforcement, i.e. Detective Weber, would always work with us because law enforcement can get things that CPS can't get, and CPS can get things that law enforcement can't get. Yes. So can you talk a little bit about why that team approach is so important? Well...
CPS, number one, doesn't have to Mirandize anyone when they're questioning them. For context,
Mirandizing someone means reading them their Miranda rights. So if you've ever watched any cop drama, you will have seen this. This is when someone gets arrested and the officer says to them, you have the right to remain silent. You have the right to an attorney. Anything you say can and will be used against you, etc. So cops have to do this when they are detaining or arresting someone. And CPS does not. So CPS, therefore, can seem a lot less threatening.
and potentially get parents to be more open and cooperative in their conversations. And we're social workers, which investigators, very few investigators are social workers. We can schmooze. We're not scary.
Especially in the medical abuse cases, there's no way in heck they're going to say they did anything wrong. They've got to talk to all their friends. They're such good mothers and they take such, bless their hearts. So they're not scared of us. But law enforcement, they can subpoena medical records. A lot of these medical abuse mothers, they're not going to sign a waiver to release someone.
their medical information to us, but law enforcement can get a subpoena. And that is what Mike Weber was doing. Mike was in the process of digging through these voluminous medical records, along with Dr. Jamie Kaufman, who is the child abuse pediatrician at
Cook Children's, where this is all happening. You may remember her from last season. And just to remind you, in this medical record review, they're not just looking for a pattern of illness or mysterious medical happenings. They're looking for evidence of deception. They found plenty. And when you say Brittany was fabricating symptoms, you mean? She was fabricating medical history to doctors in order to get the feeding to play. So she was making essentially false reports to the doctor when she was seeing the doctor. She was
claiming that Alyssa had symptoms at home that she was not actually having. Correct. And that's one thing. But then what you discovered was that she was actually inducing symptoms so that there were things to observe. In fact, it was just that she was the cause of them. Correct. And the induction case gives us a better legal path, right? Because now we have her actually doing something to Alyssa, whereas she's tricking doctors into doing it.
And there isn't that nuance there of, oh, this is maybe a sort of hypochondriac moment or this is a nervous mom or this is a mom who's confused about what's happening. It's really a lot more straightforward than that, I would imagine. It becomes very clearly abused to almost anyone that views it at that point.
At this point in time, Alyssa was still at Cook's, where she'd been originally admitted for dehydration and then, while there, had developed a mysterious and very rare blood infection. And this, along with Brittany's bizarre behavior while they were at the hospital together, really raised alarms for doctors. We spoke to Don Ferguson, one of the prosecutors on the case. Brittany Phillips was unique because what she did to Alyssa...
She kind of covered all of the, what I would call the standard red flags of Munchausen. It started when she was young. She said she wasn't eating. They got the feeding tube. She went to the feeding specialist. And we learn from the evidence we had that when she gets to cook, she gets on the wireless. And, you know, when you log onto the hospital Wi-Fi, you have to click, I accept. And then she
anything you search while you're at that hospital is saved. And so we were able to actually get the records of what she was searching for when she was doing internet searches. And we actually had Google search terms that said she was
searching for poop in feeding tube, feces in feeding tube, what happens if you put poop in a feeding tube, things like that. Detective Mike at this time was still very focused on getting evidence about the feeding tube surgery, but he was able to get a search warrant for Brittany's computer and he was shocked by what he found. I'm looking for one thing and then all of a sudden this leads me in a totally different direction. And it was a good lesson for me to expect the unexpected.
I had no clue she was doing this to her child. I had no clue she was putting feces in her child's feeding tube and IV line until this happened. And if you, again, I think it's a good lesson to detectives. If you don't look, you don't know. And if you have probable cause to look on these cases, especially, you need to look.
I've researched a lot of Munchausen by proxy cases at this point, and these cases are always horrifying. But this particular detail about this particular case is just so stunning. I can say in my 37, almost 38 years as a police officer, I've been in the police department for a long time.
I've never come across this at that point in time, right? I've never come across a mother putting feces into her child's IV line. I doubt that very many police officers ever have, very many detectives ever have, regardless of their experience level. It has happened in other cases in other states, but it's extremely out of the norm. Even for these kind of cases? Even for a seasoned child abuse detective. Right. Obviously, now we're headed down another path.
Now we have her computer that shows that she's possibly putting something into her child, and we have to explore that path. All forms of this abuse are serious and should be taken seriously, but you do have this sort of spectrum of behaviors that can go from exaggerating existing symptoms to fabricating symptoms to actually inducing something that could potentially be deadly. So this is very far along. Right, but I think this case also demonstrates that
You don't know where they're at on that spectrum until you look at all the evidence, right? I mean, because I thought she was fabricating, but yet here we find evidence that she was actually inducing. It can be anywhere on that spectrum at any time and can skip to any area of that spectrum at any time. Yeah, so it's not like it's this path where you just like can figure out, okay, there are three out of 10 or what have you. Right, it can be any or all.
Everyone in Brittany's life had observed that she appeared to be starving Alyssa, which was the reason that Mike got so focused on the feeding tube. But as he said, these behaviors can be all going on at the same time. And that was the case with Brittany. In addition to the really disturbing Google searches that they found on her computer, they found something else, which was that Brittany had right before making those Google searches discovered
She had visited a true crime forum and read about a mother in Texas who was caught on video surveillance putting feces in her child's feeding tube. Once Mike made these discoveries, he realized that this was really going to be at the heart of the case, and he took it back to the attorney working on it. I told him we needed to meet with Dr. Mark Mazade, who was the infectious disease doctor that I pretty much ignored at the beginning of the
of the investigation other than to get affidavits saying that he thought this was medical child abuse. Had he seen a medical child abuse case before? He had maybe seen one. I don't know that he had been the prosecutor on one, but, you know, it's still, it's a lot to wrap your head around. But, I mean, he went to the meeting with an open mind, which is so important in these cases. We met with Dr. Mazed, and, you know, I asked him what I tell him
You never ask a doctor, is it possible? Because anything's possible to a doctor. All right. It's medicine's very different than police work. We're very black and white. Medicine's very gray. I asked Dr. Mazade in your 14 years as an infectious disease pediatrician.
How many times have you seen these three elements in a child's blood? Strep varidans, staph aureus, and E. coli. And Dr. Merced said, never. Not one time in my 14 years. That's what I wanted in the affidavit. Then I asked him, you know, put on a black hat for a minute. If someone was going to induce this, how would they get those three pathogens into a child? He's like, well...
Strep and staph are skin-borne. E. coli is poop-borne. So what makes the most sense is Alyssa went poop in her diaper and mom removed poop that had rubbed against her skin and placed it in the IV line or the feeding tube. It could have been either. It's really grim. I've heard and read about this case so many times and yet...
When I actually stop to picture it and when you sort of describe the likely series of events, I mean, it's really disturbing is not even the word. Depraved, I think, is the word. And again, just like with Hope Ybarra, you never know where these cases are going to lead you. You just don't know. And you have to have the open mind to pursue it. If you try to put it in a box, you're not going to get the full picture of abuse. Right.
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The series of events during Alyssa's stay at the hospital in August of 2011, the mysterious blood infection she developed, the strange behavior from her mother, and the previous reports on Brittany led up to CPS taking affidavits from the doctors and getting an emergency removal. So CPS is only able to do this when they feel that there's an imminent threat
to the child, and in this case, they did. I spoke to Susan Ryle to explain how this process works. We got the removal within a short period of time because we got enough affidavits from the doctors. We still hadn't more to gather, and we did get more.
And affidavits from the doctors saying, we think there's abuse going on. Yes, signed and notarized official legal binding statements that here's what I've got. And it has to say if the child is in a parent's care, they're at risk of significant harm or maybe death, however they want to word that, however it's appropriate.
So there's serious affidavits of that. We were able to get the removal approved by our assistant district attorneys prior to going to court. That's an emergency removal. Of course, Brittany was not happy. She screamed and cried and said, no, you're not. No, you're not. I wouldn't sign any paperwork. But
The upside of doing a removal at Cook Children's is they have security so they can walk, you know, the parents out and had that done many, many times. And that's what's so hard is separating the child from the parent.
Because that's the only way you can show and demonstrate to the court, whether civil, criminal, whatever, that what the parent's been doing is abusive and, you know, fictive. Because of the seriousness of the situation, Alyssa had been removed from Brittany's care during the course of the August 2011 hospital stay where she developed the blood infection. And Alyssa's behavior after the removal was telling. Within a day...
Like the next day, she was happy, talking, eating chicken nuggets and french fries, having no problem eating. She had problems when they wanted, when they, the nurse came in or they needed to do any medical procedure, like a shot or do anything. Now she knew
They mentioned, medical people mentioned that she knew a lot about medical care, more than a three-year-old would normally know. Yeah, I have a three-year-old and she, other than Daniel Tiger goes to the doctor, she doesn't have any medical knowledge. No, she knew blood pressure, blood tests, all of that, and medication, but she didn't like it. She would scream and have a fit whenever they were going to do anything. Yeah.
She was eating, running around with no braces or anything. Very happy when the worker first went to visit her. Now, one thing when we remove the parent from the scene and a child is still hospitalized, we try and we typically would make sure that someone was with them all the time. We had kind of a rotating list.
of workers, friends at the hospital, different people to make sure someone's with them all the time. And she did very well. You know, I have a three-year-old, and if she was separated from me under those circumstances, she would be beside herself. No, no. This was not the case with Alyssa?
I just can't help but feel that she was really cognizant that it wasn't right. Detective Mike Weber noticed the same thing. I mean, with Alyssa, it was pretty much the minute of separation. This child had a will. I don't know where she got it from. But man, I think this child scavenged for food at night. I think that's what she had to do to survive. At a very young age, she got a survival instinct that I don't know where it came from. Thank God she had it.
but I really don't know where it came from. She was looking to upgrade at the parent position from the moment she was removed. - Yeah, it just seems like this kid was like, "Get me out of here. "This is not my family. "I'm gonna go with this family." - "I want something better in life." And she knew it at three.
Alyssa's health started to improve immediately after being separated from Brittany, but still the doctors wanted to be cautious. And so they found a temporary placement for her with a foster mother who had experience as a nurse practitioner.
And just to remind you, the point of these investigations is not to prove whether or not a child has any ailments at all, but to determine if the parent has been lying to the doctors and has harmed their child in the process. Alyssa's initial foster parent also noted how she did not really seem to be very attached to Brittany at all. And she would say things like, I don't need my mommy anymore and I'm not sick anymore when her foster mother would show her pictures of Brittany.
In the meantime, CPS was looking for a more long-term placement. Immediately the waverings came to us because another thing Brittany did was she was telling everybody what had happened. What had happened with the CPS removal? Yes, that we'd removed. She was texting everyone she ever knew. It was on Facebook. She was texting relatives wherever they lived, whatever state they lived in.
Because so much attention. She just craved that attention however she could get it. So it was sort of a drama for me. For me. I'm the victim. Yes. And that's so typical. It's really, I would be hunkered down thinking, what the heck can I do to get my child back? I'm ashamed. I'm humiliated. I'm not going to tell anybody. Maybe family. Maybe close family. She told everyone she knew. Yeah.
And gave us a whole huge list of names for collateral contacts to call about her and relatives. Of course, she was looking for a relative placement, but a relative got in touch with Miss Wayburn.
they're related by marriage, kind of distantly, but thank God. So instantly, you know, they were on our radar. We instigated a home study because once we take custody of a child, CPS takes custody of a child, we can't
just stick them anywhere. You know, we're legally, ethically responsible for the care and safety of that child. Faith, who is Brittany's cousin and also the niece of Sheriff and Laura Weyburn, was in the closest communication with Brittany during this time. When she finally took her to Cook's when she was really sick and the whole incident with the, you know, feces in the feeding tube or whatever,
Brittany had actually called my mom and said they're taking her away from me. CPS is taking her away from me. Would you take her? And my mom said, well, Brittany, you know, I'm older.
I don't really think that I'm able to care for a child, especially a child that has medical issues like this. And then she was like, well, do you think Faith would take her? So my mom called me and asked me and I was like, well, you can tell her to call me. So I immediately called Laura and I was like, this is what's going on. Like, you know, they finally I think they've caught her. Here's Laura and Bill Weyburn.
Our niece, Faith, had been contacted by Brittany whenever Alyssa had been removed from her. And Faith reached out to me, basically looking for whether Bill and I would be willing to take
Alyssa. She knew that I would be so relieved and I was. I just remember thinking, finally, finally she has been rescued. She and I talked about that there were some things not right in that relationship between Brittany and Alyssa and that there were some things going on. So we weren't surprised. We were actually thankful
that this had happened, something had happened where Alyssa was safe and she was being taken care of and that Brittany was being separated from her. So from that standpoint, we were excited for Alyssa, I think would be what I was, is that, okay, now we're gonna get somewhere maybe. 'Cause we knew how difficult this was going to be both from a CPS perspective and a criminal perspective. - Then as I was talking to Laura more about it, Laura's like, well, if you don't want to take her because I know you already have five kids,
And if you don't want to, we'll definitely take her. If you can get Brittany to agree to that, we'll take her. I was like, yeah, sure. You know, because I knew she'd be going to a great place if she went with Bill and Laura. So I talked to Brittany and Brittany was kind of hesitant at first. She was like, I don't know. I don't really know them and all of that. And I'm like, you know, just talking to her and what great people they are and how she'll be safe and she'll get all the medical care she needs and she'll be well taken care of. And so she finally agreed.
So during this process, Laura and I would talk. It brought me such comfort to know that she was under doctor's care because I just thought, well, you know, surely one of these doctors will catch it and be able to do something about it. Little did I know, you know, how many doctors had tried or how many, you know, how many cases there had been. I was astounded whenever I, you know, saw the whole record.
Over the course of Alyssa's life, Brittany had been reported to CPS numerous times, including by several doctors with concerns about medical child abuse. After Alyssa was placed with the Wayburns,
Faith kept lines of communication with her husband, Brittany, open. I told Brittany, I was like, you know, I need to know what her medical issues are. And so can you text me like what doctor she's seeing? Can you text me what her allergies are? Can you, you know, I need a list of all of these things that are wrong with her. So she was just texting like she goes to this doctor and she has a feeding tube and she's allergic to chocolate and she's allergic to dairy and she's allergic to this and this and this and this. I mean, just these things.
lists of things. And then, so I would tell Laura all of these things and we would talk. And then that's when I got a phone call from Mike Weber. He said that they were going to prosecute her. And so I took my phone down to Mike and he pulled all the text messages off of my phone so that he would have those as evidence of what that she was saying to me. All I can say about that is Mike is a hero and I don't care what he says. He's a hero.
I can't say what would have happened, but I know without him, this case would have not ended the way that it was. Well, Mike Weber's quite the champion of many, many families and, of course, families.
In my opinion, he has saved several children. Like the Weyburns, I know Mike really well, and it's true that he objects to being called a hero. He always insists that he's just doing his job. This is my podcast, and I'm inclined to agree with the Weyburns. And in fact, hero is on Mike's resume. He was awarded in 2016 the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's Texas Hero for Children Award. So there. But Mike's not the only hero in this story.
The phrase that she had was, mom and Brittany didn't take care of me like a little girl is supposed to be taken care of. Knowing that and then replacing it with, this is how you're supposed to be taken care of. That's next time on Nobody Should Believe Me.
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