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Introducing: You Probably Think This Story's About You

2024/11/25
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Nobody Should Believe Me

People
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Andrea
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Anna Love
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Brianna
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Brittany Ard
Topics
Andrea: 本播客讲述了一个女人被她认为是灵魂伴侣的男人欺骗的故事,最终讲述了一个关于韧性的美丽故事。 Brittany Ard: 我追求梦想,却遭遇噩梦,但我怀有最好的愿望。在约会软件上,我多次遇到Kanen的资料,最终决定与其约会。第一次约会时,Kanen一见面就问我对 比特币感不感兴趣,让我印象深刻。Kanen向我讲述了他的人生经历,包括前妻自杀以及他如何承担起抚养儿子的责任,这让我与他产生共鸣。Kanen讲述了他使用约会软件的经历,以及他如何希望找到一个伴侣,这让我更加欣赏他。第一次约会后,我迫不及待地想和他发生关系。在随后的约会中,我们进行了深入的交谈,分享了彼此的脆弱之处。我开始记录与Kanen约会和谈话的细节,并希望与他一起写一本关于我们爱情故事的书。在海边别墅度周末时,Kanen向我表达了对一段稳定关系的渴望和担忧。他送给我一本记录我们约会经历的书,让我非常感动。然而,在洛杉矶与家人共进晚餐时,我表哥Greg向Kanen提了一些问题,让我开始怀疑Kanen之前说过的故事的真实性,最终发现他欺骗了我。 Anna Love: 作为Brittany最好的朋友,我对Brittany第一次约会迟到感到有点生气,但也为Brittany找到心仪对象感到高兴。我对Kanen的第一印象很好,认为他很适合Brittany。 Brianna: 作为Brittany的女儿,我对Kanen和Brittany在公开场合的亲密举动印象深刻。 Kanon: 我对Brittany被深深吸引,并期待与她进一步发展关系。 Greg: 通过与Kanon的深入交谈,我发现了Kanon的一些问题,并向Brittany提出了我的疑问。

Deep Dive

Key Insights

Why did Brittani Ard feel a strong connection with Kanan on their first date?

Kanon's charm, emotional availability, and shared experiences about navigating teens and athletic sports created an instant bond.

What significant event in Kanan's life did he share with Brittani on their first date?

Kanan revealed that his ex-wife died by suicide and had been an addict, which deeply impacted his role as a father.

How did Kanan's family support his dating life?

His sister-in-law, Tasha, started a Hinge dating account for him, actively helping him find a partner due to his loneliness.

What did Brittani and Kanan bond over during their early dates?

They shared vulnerable conversations about their pasts, including Kanan's feelings of imposter syndrome as a father and Brittani's experiences of feeling like an imposter.

How did Kanan make Brittani feel during their relationship?

Kanan made Brittani feel comfortable and accepted, erasing her insecurities about her body and past.

What did Brittani's best friend, Anna, think of Kanan after meeting him?

Anna found Kanan handsome, charismatic, and genuinely interested in Brittani, believing he deserved to be in her life.

What significant gift did Kanan give to Brittani during their trip to L.A.?

Kanan presented Brittani with a book featuring cartoon characters of them, illustrating their dates and adventures over the past five months.

Why did Brittani start questioning Kanan's authenticity during their L.A. trip?

Brittani noticed inconsistencies in Kanan's stories, especially about his ex-wife and military background, and his phone constantly vibrating during dinner with her family.

Chapters
Brittani y Kanan se conocen a través de Hinge y inician una relación que parece destinada al éxito, con una conexión profunda y una química instantánea.
  • Kanan es un hombre atractivo y carismático que ha trabajado en el ejército y ahora se dedica a ayudar a personas necesitadas.
  • Brittani y Kanan comparten intereses y experiencias similares, lo que fortalece su conexión.
  • La relación avanza rápidamente, con citas prolongadas y conversaciones profundas.

Shownotes Transcript

**Chapter 1: It Started as a Love Story **

When Brittani Ard matches with Kanon* on Hinge sparks fly. Their first date revealed an instant connection and chemistry. Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the most guarded heart — plus he is surprisingly emotionally available for a man in his forties. It’s as if the universe has conspired to bring them together, two soulmates destined to find each other.  

The couple spends the next five months diving fast into a whirlwind romance. Their connection so intense and their bond so deep that it seems like Brittani’s fairytale has finally found its happy ending. Until one weekend that changed her life forever. 

*Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.


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