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BONUS: Unabridged Interview with Carly Ostler

2024/9/26
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Andrea Dunlop
一名专注于真实犯罪和社会问题的媒体人物和作者。
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Carly Ostler
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Carly Ostler: 本访谈中，Carly Ostler 详细解释了复杂性创伤、复杂性PTSD和复杂性悲伤的概念，并区分了复杂性PTSD与普通PTSD的区别。她指出，复杂性PTSD并非源于单一重大事件，而是长期累积的小创伤，这些创伤会影响个人的信念、行为和身体健康。她还强调了处理创伤的重要性，并介绍了EMDR等治疗方法。此外，她还探讨了来自父母或照顾者的创伤的特殊性，以及这种创伤如何影响个人的依恋模式和对爱的理解。最后，她还讨论了对虐待性父母的复杂性悲伤，以及如何支持经历此类悲伤的人。 Andrea Dunlop: Andrea Dunlop 在访谈中分享了她个人经历以及对复杂性创伤、复杂性PTSD和复杂性悲伤的理解。她与 Carly Ostler 讨论了 PTSD 的诊断和社会对心理健康问题的态度，以及边缘化群体如何更容易受到创伤的影响。她还分享了她对处理创伤的经验，并探讨了与虐待性父母的关系以及失去他们的复杂性悲伤。她还反思了对施虐者的复杂情感，以及如何平衡对施虐者的同情与对受害者的保护。

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Carly Ostler, a licensed marriage and family therapist, explains complex PTSD. She differentiates it from PTSD, highlighting how complex PTSD arises from multiple smaller traumas rather than a single event, leading to nuanced expressions of pain and stuck experiences.
  • Complex PTSD is not a recognized diagnosis in the DSM.
  • Trauma is the body's response to an event, not the event itself.
  • Unprocessed trauma can manifest as physical and behavioral symptoms.
  • A safe environment is crucial for processing trauma.

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On this week’s unabridged interview from season 4, Andrea chats with trauma therapist Carly Ostler. The two of them dive into what complex trauma is, the difference between PTSD and complex PTSD, and the co-dependent nature of abusive families. Carly explains why abuse from parental figures affects survivors so deeply, as well as the complexity of grieving an abuser. 

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