Key Insights
Why is it important to stay silent when responding to an inappropriate question?
Silence allows the other person to reflect on their question and can often make them realize its inappropriateness without escalating the situation.
How can asking 'what's your intent?' help in handling inappropriate questions?
This question can clarify the other person's motives, potentially revealing that their question was not intended to be inappropriate.
What is a lighthearted way to respond to an inappropriate question without giving an answer?
Responses like 'I like to keep a little mystery' or 'that's between me and myself' can gently deflect the question while keeping the mood friendly.
Why might someone ask an inappropriate question?
People may ask inappropriate questions due to an off day, lack of awareness, or simply misinterpreting the context.
How does using phrases like 'I prefer not to share that' help in deflecting inappropriate questions?
These phrases indicate a personal preference or past behavior, making it clear that the information is not typically shared, which can reduce awkwardness.
What should you do if a supervisor asks an inappropriate question at work?
Start with silence or ask 'what makes you ask?' to redirect the conversation. If necessary, use phrases like 'I prefer not to share that' to maintain professionalism.
Why is it important to label a question as inappropriate when it is?
Labeling a question as inappropriate can clearly communicate that the behavior is unacceptable and may prompt an apology or corrective action.
Chapters
- Use five seconds of silence paired with a nonverbal response.
- Ask direct questions like 'What's your intent?' to avoid defensiveness.
- Offer lighthearted responses such as 'I like to keep a little mystery.'
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