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SNL & Simpsons Star Phil Hartman Killed by His Wife… Was Jealousy the Driving Reason?

2023/7/4
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Phil Hartman was a talented comedian and actor known for his work in the 70s, 80s, and 90s, particularly on SNL and The Simpsons. His early life and career trajectory are explored, highlighting his struggles for attention as a middle child and his eventual rise to fame through his humor and creativity.

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Hello, everyone, and welcome back. I'm so happy to have you here with me today to discuss yet another case. And if you are new, then welcome. So today we are going to be talking about the life and the murder of Phil Hartman. Now, Phil Hartman was a comedian who was famous through the 70s, 80s, 90s. He was an SNL star. I know a lot of my audience is on the younger side, and I myself am.

I did not know who Phil Hartman was until I started researching this case and became familiar with his career and everything he did. And he seemed like a real light in the industry who had a very successful career still ahead of him. And what happened to him is extremely tragic. We are going to talk about how his life came to an end.

However, I wanted to really start this out and for the majority of it, talk about his life and what led up to that day. So Phil Hartman's career is really one that so many comedians and actors look to for inspiration in the industry. He was someone who figured out what his dream was and then stopped at nothing to make it come true.

though his career peaked before I was old enough to even know who he was and he passed when I was about five, his work is well documented and so I had a lot of material to kind of get familiar with who he was and learn a lot about him and how many people he impacted in a positive way. Phil Hartman was such a talented person and from

From everything that I've learned about him while researching, he seemed to be also just a really good person. I mean, he wasn't perfect by any means, but it seemed like he always had the best intentions. And for those of you who aren't super familiar with Phil, you'll probably recognize a lot of his work or at least the platforms that he had success on, mainly SNL. Not only was he on SNL, he was also a co-writer for the

Pee Wee Herman show and even had his own character on The Simpsons. And these are just a few of the things that he accomplished in his career. He was born on September 24th, 1948 in Brantford, Ontario to his parents, Doris and Rupert, and was one of eight children in his family. He first moved to the United States when he was 10 years old. And over the next few years, they made their way from Maine to Connecticut and then finally settled in the West Coast.

And as a middle child, Phil mentioned later on in his life that he always struggled to get the attention in his family that he wanted and needed. And because he didn't get that attention and sometimes love from his family, he says that he started looking elsewhere for it. And he began really relying on his humor and quirkiness to get people to pay attention to him. And little did he know, this behavior would end up making him extremely

extremely famous one day. As Phil got older, he first attended Santa Monica City College, but ended up dropping out in 1969 when someone close to him asked if he wanted to be a roadie for their band called The Rockin' Foo. And not only was he their roadie, but he also made some graphic design stuff for them and really loved doing that. He loved the whole atmosphere. He really embraced that lifestyle and

As a creative person himself, I can only imagine how much he enjoyed being around other free-spirited creative people. Eventually though, he did end up returning to college in 1972 at Cal State Northridge, where he pursued a degree in graphic design. He ended up becoming a graphic designer, and even though this was the first job of his career, he definitely did it well. He designed over 40 record covers, many of which are still famous today. But graphic design was just the start for him.

And in the early to mid 1970s, he ended up starting to work for his brother who owned a talent agency. And this opened up a lot of opportunities for him. And being around all these other creative people really inspired him to want to be in the spotlight himself. And he definitely had the talent. So in 1975, he started attending sketch comedy nights at the Groundlings Theater.

theater. Now, if you're not familiar with the Groundlings, it's not only a theater, but also the name for the troupe of comedians who perform there. And when I say that a lot of today's famous actors and comedians got their start with the Groundlings, I really mean a lot. Just to name a few, we have Will Ferrell, Melissa McCarthy, Maya Rudolph, Conan O'Brien,

Lisa Kudrow, Jennifer Kulit, Jimmy Fallon, Kristen Wiig, and so many more. At this point, Phil started attending comedy classes with the improv group because he was interested in becoming more social with his creative output. And at first, he would just spend time in the audience and observe, but one day he spontaneously just got up on stage and joined in the skit.

And at that point, it was very clear to people that he was exactly where he was supposed to be. He had so much talent. One comedian even said this about Phil. I never saw an audience member come up with that kind of excitement and energy. It was like a hurricane hit the stage. And I mean that in a good way. And I think it will become super apparent to you the more that I talk about him, that Phil's

Phil had a great reputation in the industry. He was known as being easygoing, easy to work with, very kind. He never asked much of those around him and he was always willing to say yes to benefit the group. Phil ended up performing with the Groundlings from 1975 all the way to 1985, but he definitely didn't let that restrict him from other opportunities. Like I mentioned earlier, he was a co-writer that helped create the very famous character,

Pee-wee Herman. After meeting Paul Rubens through the groundlings, the two of them worked together to create the show, and Phil himself even had his own character named Cap'n Carl. Cap'n Carl! Permission to come aboard, Pee-wee! You have to know the passwords! Spaghetti! No! Sardine! No! Turnip! No! Toboggan! Well, sweet! I give up! You can't give up! You have to know the passwords! Open this door, Pee-wee! I gotta use your latrine! Latrine! That's the best! Ha ha ha!

And Phil really established himself as a comedian through his voice acting abilities. Any type of voice, you name it, he could do it. He had a bunch of characters that he would come up with that had all these different voices. John Lovitz, who is a very famous actor, said this about working with Phil. Whatever he was going to imagine or say was nothing you could imagine or think of.

He could do any voice, play any character, and make his face look different without makeup. And he was the king of the groundlings. But there was one area of his life that people say he really struggled. And that was his love life. In his lifetime, Phil was married a total of three times. He married his first wife, Gretchen, in 1970, five years before he was ever on anyone's radar. The two of them divorced in 1972. And then he married his second wife,

Lisa in 1982 and the two of them stayed together for three years before they finally ended up divorcing. But Lisa ended up staying friends with Phil following their divorce and said that he was someone who liked to

disappear emotionally. Things with Phil always started out quick and there was a lot of passion in his relationships, but once that died down, he pretty much checked out of the relationship. Lisa explained that just like the characters he would play, Phil was kind of two different people. He had this really energetic, playful side, but then he also had a very

quiet, introverted side. He was someone who really liked alone time and he

Being famous and in this industry, you don't get a lot of alone time. And that was something that he really craved. But with every failed relationship, he always had something to rely on. And that was his career. And in 1986, just a year after him and Lisa split up, his career really hit a whole new level when he auditioned, had an incredible audition apparently, and was immediately cast on Saturday Night Live, which is a big deal. ♪

I wish I could play you guys some of the clips from SNL, but SNL is really tight on the copyright. So I definitely can't do that. However, if you just, you know, search Bill Hartman, a bunch of his skits on SNL will come up and I recommend watching them. They're pretty funny. He was really an instant success once he got on SNL and he was most well known for his impressions, specifically of Bill Clinton and Ronald Reagan.

Now, ladies and gentlemen, as you know, the news has been full of this whole presidential intern sex scandal business. So I thought we would go live via satellite to the Oval Office in Washington and find out for ourselves what is happening from the president himself. Ladies and gentlemen, Mr. President. Mr. President, are you there? Can we go to the Oval Office? I can't go down! I can't go down! I can't go down!

Mr. President, can you hear me, sir? Oh, hi, Jay. I'm just doing a little homework here. Here are your briefs, Mr. President. Oh, thanks, Connie. Here are your briefs. Now, Mr. President, I thought it would be good if our audience heard the story straight from the horse's mouth. Oh, I wish I could help you, Jay, but Monica's back in Los Angeles. Oh.

He really had such a talent for impersonating people and his time on SNL is really what made him part of the big leagues, you could say. And despite becoming well-known for some of his lead roles in SNL skits, he was also known for his ability to play secondary roles. He didn't really care if he was the big star

He once said that he actually preferred to be in these middle tier roles because if a skit went poorly, then he wasn't the one who got blamed. And I loved this, but his nickname on SNL was The Glue. And Adam Sandler gave him that name because he held the skits together and made the jokes stick. And what I found interesting is he went on SNL with much bigger dreams in mind. He kind of

wanted SNL to be a launching point for him. He had hopes that it would put him on the map so he could start acting and writing as well in bigger movies. And while he did go on to act in different shows and movies, SNL was really the biggest, most successful part of his career. But he stayed on SNL for a long time. And by his eighth season, he had performed as more than 70 different characters. And like I said, his impressions of former presidents were really his...

biggest hit and probably what he was most well known for. But he first became known for his impressions of Eugene, the anal retentive chef and the unfrozen caveman lawyer. I can remember my parents talking about the unfrozen caveman lawyer all the time. So when I started researching that, I kind of connected the dots that that was him. This was a really funny

character. And even just looking at the photos of him, you can just see how likable he was. He had this energy about him and real excitement about comedy that totally reminds me of Robin Williams, who is...

God, one of my favorite actors of all time. I get choked up even talking about Robin Williams. He was just so amazing. And Robin was building a career right around the time that Phil Hartman was. Phil's comedy overall was just incredibly influential. And many believed he set himself apart from others by his ability to write jokes that nobody in their right mind would ever think of. He just really...

thought outside of the box. And he was so talented in many different ways. He could write, he could act, he could direct. I mean, you name it, he could do it. And I could keep talking about Phil's career, but at this point, I want to start talking more about his personal life. Like I mentioned earlier, Phil was married three times, but so far I've only told you about two of his wives. But we have to talk about his third wife.

who is the reason that I am talking to you about Phil's murder today.

So in 1986, the same year that Phil made his SNL debut, he was set up on a blind date with a woman named Bryn Omdahl. Bryn, who was born in Thief River Falls, Minnesota, with the name Vicky, was an aspiring actress herself who definitely thanked her lucky stars that she was introduced to Phil. And there are many people out there that think that Bryn really hitched her wagon to Phil because

Because he could maybe help get her to the top because she wanted to be famous. There's no doubt about it. That was a huge priority to her. And like I mentioned, her name was originally Vicky. And she actually changed her name a couple of times while she was sort of trying to figure out her identity.

She first moved to LA and worked as a model, but she didn't want that to be all she was. Mostly Brynn wanted to be an actress, but not just any actress. She wanted to be famous. And I'm guessing that meeting Phil really gave her the confidence that one day she would be. And even though they met just as...

Phil's SNL career was taking off, there was a lot of promise that he would really find success. And what better way for Brynn to get famous than through rising star Phil Hartman, who, by the way, she married after only one year of dating. But here's the thing. As Phil's career started really taking off,

Brins just didn't. Now that left her with, as you can imagine, a lot of jealousy and I'm guessing probably a lot of resentment as well. She was constantly asking him to help get her gigs, but the truth was...

Bill didn't think that she was that funny. And I mean, he loved her, but he didn't see a future in acting for her quite the way that she seemed to see a future in acting for herself. But that doesn't mean he didn't try to help her. He's

certainly did. And at one point, Phil was on SNL and asked Brynn to be the woman sitting next to him during the filming of one of the scenes. And during this, the camera pans over to Phil and Brynn is sitting next to him and she ends up looking over at the camera. And the director literally stopped and

and had to tell her to look away so she wasn't on camera. So it was things like this that made that jealousy really grow. And later on in the 90s, Phil was on some late night shows and Brynn made appearances with him. And many people believe that it wasn't really Phil's idea to have her there. And I can't imagine that anyone with jealousy issues would

took it well that their husband was in the spotlight that they so wanted and they just weren't. Bill and Brynn had a very rocky relationship with a lot of fighting. And I mean a lot. But before I get more into the bad, I want to talk about some of the good. Bill had always wanted to be a dad. And in 1988, Brynn gave birth to their son, Sean. And actually jumping back to the bad here for a sec.

This is a good example of Brynn's jealousy. Remember how I mentioned that Phil remained good friends with his ex-wife, Lisa? Well, she called Phil to congratulate him on the birth of his son a day after he was born. And when Brynn found out she called him, she wrote Lisa a letter threatening her to never contact Phil again.

And Phil even told Lisa later that the letter Bryn sent her was tame compared to what she wanted to send her. But back to the good here, Phil was so happy to be a father. He really was over the moon that his son was born. And Bryn was very happy to be a mother as well. And then in 1992, their daughter Bergen was born. ♪

So, but I didn't get any sleep. I came back eight in the morning and the labor wasn't happening. She wasn't dilating. So they went under the knife. And at noon, I got a little baby girl in my hands and I'm just...

You know, you think you're gonna be more blase on the second one, but if anything, I was more blown away. So then I have to go to work. Begin a 12-hour day and 100 people, one at a time, come up and say, "Well, what happened?" And I'm going through this story and every time I get to the part, I'm bursting into tears. I mean, I'm like sleep deprived. I'm just a wreck and I'm crying all day long. And then at the end of the show, Lauren puts me right together with our host, Susan Day,

And it makes me cry just thinking about it. But Susan Day, her good night was, "On behalf of everyone in Studio 8H, we want to welcome Miss Bergen Hartman to the world." And I just went... I completely lost it. -Yeah. -But it's, you know... Look at Phil tear it off. You know... Bergen, I love that name. It's a Norwegian, Swedish... My wife is Swedish-Norwegian. And we wanted a Scandinavian name. Phil's wife, Olaf.

Oh, Brent, Brent, Brent. Hi, Brent. Talk amongst yourselves. You're okay? Stabilized, huh? Let me hold you. You know what's interesting, though? You become... This will happen to you, because you've got a little boy, too, but if you ever have a girl, you become an instant feminist. Anybody gets in the way of my little girl. None of this glass ceiling stuff. She's going straight to the top of the executive pool. You

You are running the emotional gamut here. So in the span of four years, he became a father to a little boy. He won an Emmy while on the writing staff for SNL and then became a father to a little girl. SNL was always going to be Phil's family in a way, but now he had a family of his own that meant everything.

to him. But of course, I do have to mention that despite being a new father, the late 80s and early 90s were a very, very busy time for him. And Bryn took on a lot of the parenting responsibilities. At this time, not only was SNL giving him national recognition, but he was also filming commercials for brands like Cheetos and McDonald's. You mechanic here with Peggy Walter, who dove right into McDonald's this morning to get a 99 cent sausage McMuffin with eggs. I was out of control.

I know how you feel. I'm craving one right now. I really want to get down

Me too, but I've got to finish my broadcast. It's 99 cent deals at McDonald's even if you just walk in. And the world got to see more of Phil in the early 90s as he really began to make his rounds on all the late night shows. He was on the Rosie O'Donnell show, the Jay Leno show, the Dennis Miller show, Conan O'Brien, and so many more. But for all the good in Phil's life, all the attention he was getting that he so desperately wanted as a child, all the success that he had dreamed of,

Things in his marriage were not going well at all. Like I said, he and Brynn fought constantly, and so many people could see that this was taking a real toll on him. I mean, he was exhausted from all the back and forth and drama at home. Many people said he put on a brave face, but that didn't always hide what was happening behind the curtain.

Literally. Brynn was berating him at home. She was yelling at him all the time. She had so much resentment building up. And it got to the point where Phil had to just go to sleep to get her to stop yelling at him. And of course, there is so much that goes on in a relationship behind closed doors. We don't know exactly what was going on at home. We don't know exactly what all their fights were about.

And I'm certainly not saying that Brynn was responsible for all of these arguments. But most people in Phil's life argue that she was the catalyst for most of their problems. We do have to remember, though, that it takes two to tango. And for as miserable as things were, I think they were trying to work through things for their kids. And a lot of their arguments and tension definitely stemmed

from Brynn's jealousy and resentment as she was home raising the kids most of the time and he was experiencing this successful career that she always wanted. But there was also another big thing going on here. Brynn really struggled with an addiction to cocaine. She was in and out of rehab centers for many years, but sadly always found her way back into addiction. In one instance, she only lasted a

few days in a rehab facility because she said it was just too hard to be away from her children. And I've said this before in so many videos, I'll say it again, I don't care how many times I have to say it, addiction is a disease. Again, the American Society of Addiction Medicine defines addiction as a primary chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory, and related circuitry. In

In 1987, the American Medical Association and other medical organizations officially termed addiction as a disease. I'm not making excuses for her. I mean, Brynn had many faults and Phil did too, but her addiction was something that she actively wanted to overcome, especially for the sake of her family. And it's important to note that Brynn spent a lot of time alone, which I'm sure made her feel less supported in her recovery. But

But addiction aside, Brynn wasn't the perfect wife and Phil wasn't the perfect husband. And like I said, they tried to stay together for the kids. They tried to do right by their kids. They loved their children. They both really did. However, over time, they did really grow apart. And that's when Phil started to spend more and more time away from home. He loved Catalina Island and spent a lot of money on boats there.

and even a plane. He loved to go out fishing with friends and take a break from life as a star. And I struggle with this because, of course, I do believe that parents should get some time away from their kids. It's healthy as a parent to take time for yourself. But I do feel like he did a little bit too much of that.

It sounds like there was a good amount of time that he could have spent with his family and really chose not to. Parenting is always going to look different from family to family, and I know that. And I have read and watched so many things that insist that Phil was a very devoted and good father, so I'd like to believe that this is true. It seemed like most of the issues and him wanting to spend time away was...

because he was in such a toxic marriage. Many people who knew Phil said that it seemed like when he was at home, he almost had to play a character to make it through life with Brynn. Like it was somehow easier to not be himself when he was around her. And sure, she still spent time next to him on red carpets and got all the attention that Phil was publicly able to give her. But at the end, this

just wasn't enough for her. A feature here and a feature there wasn't a full-time acting deal, and it certainly wasn't going to make her famous. But his future, on the other hand, was only looking brighter and brighter as time went on. So that brings us to 1994. Phil ended up deciding to leave the

He said that this was mainly because there was a big turnover in the cast and he felt the show was going in a new direction. And he actually had tried to leave before this in 1991, but was convinced to stay by NBC, who promised to give him his own variety show.

This show was going to be called The Phil Show, and they were going to allow him to produce, write, and act. But the network ended up dropping the show before it even aired. But Phil wasn't left completely empty-handed by this. In 1995, he joined the sitcom News Radio, which was a comedic take on how staff members of a New York radio station did their jobs. Phil played the character Bill McNeil and was definitely a beloved member of this cast.

And he was really successful during this time. He was actually making $50,000 per episode, which is about $90,000 today. And during this time, he was also a voice actor on The Simpsons and was most famous for his role as Troy McClure. Throughout the 90s, Phil acted on news radio and voice acted on The Simpsons. And he was also featured in dozens of other productions, including Tom and Jerry Kids,

The 12 Days of Christmas, Third Rock from the Sun, Sesame Street, and more. And that brings us to May of 1998, when Phil's career and his life changed.

were suddenly taken from him the afternoon of may 27th wasn't anything out of the ordinary their children sean and bergen were being babysat by their nanny lorraine for a few hours while phil and brian were out of the house phil returned home first and relieved lorraine of her duties

and Bryn stayed out for a few more hours. She was actually with a friend at a restaurant, a popular chain restaurant called Bugo de Beppo. She was having dinner and a few drinks, two drinks to be specific, nothing too crazy. And when asked later, Bryn's friend said it was a

a totally normal night and that Brynn seemed fine. She wasn't acting strange in any way. There really wasn't any indication that she was going to go home and do what she did. In the early morning hours of May 28th, around 2 a.m.,

Brynn took a .38 caliber Smith & Wesson gun and shot her husband three times, ending his life. That night is pretty foggy of exactly what happened. Some sources say that Brynn then continued to drink in their house. And after a few hours of that, she decided to tell someone what she had done. Around 3 a.m., Brynn went over to her friend Ron's house.

And after collapsing on the floor and puking, she ends up confessing that she had shot Phil. And at first, Ron didn't even believe her. He just couldn't believe that she had actually done that. And with her being in such a horrible state of mind and drunk, he thought maybe she was confused, confused.

even though she brought the gun with her over to his house and showed him. When Ron looked at the gun, he actually misread the number of bullets, and he just thought there was no way that Brynn had actually done this. After sobering up, Brynn decided to drive home, and Ron went with her. But once he got back to their home in Encino, he saw the truth for himself, and...

And to no surprise, he called 911 right away. And Ron wasn't the only friend that Brynn told. As they were driving back to the house, she also calls her friend Judy and tells her what she had done. But unlike Ron, she believed her and immediately called police. So by the time...

Ron and Brynn got to the house, police were already outside waiting for them. And the goal for police was to not only get Brynn out of the home safely, but also their two children who were inside the home when their father was shot. And only one of those two things happened. Just before police entered the home, Brynn called up her sister and made arrangements for her children. And then she took her own life.

The gunshot was heard just as police were entering the home, and Brynn was then found unresponsive

laying next to her husband's body on the bed. Both Sean and Bergen were removed from the property and put into police custody, and thankfully, neither of the children were physically harmed. However, when police asked them if they had any sense of what happened, Sean said that he heard gunshots, and I cannot imagine how terrifying that was for him. He said that it sounded like doors slamming over and over again,

And Bergen said that she knew her parents were gone, but I don't think she really understood the gravity of what happened until much later. The murder of 49-year-old Phil Hartman really shocked the country at the time. It was devastating to all his fellow comedians and fans. Of course, people knew that he and Brynn had been struggling together.

But what's heartbreaking is just that week, Bill was telling people that things were starting to get better for them. And I think he really thought that maybe they were. But never in a million years did anyone think that Brynn was actually capable of doing this. Obviously, we don't know her exact motive. A lot of people have speculated on why she did it. Was it an argument that led to that moment? Was she angry and bitter and jealous and that all just...

led up to those emotions that just got out of control and maybe the drinking didn't help. Did she really have it in her to be a killer? Her brother doesn't think so. He says that earlier that year, she was prescribed Zoloft. And her brother believes that the Zoloft in combination with her addiction is what caused her to finally snap. And to be clear, this is what he said, not what I'm saying. I'm certainly not

justifying her murdering her husband. But he ended up suing Pfizer and stated that Zoloft is what caused this to happen, but the company settled for $100,000 and never admitted to wrongdoing. And because I'm not a doctor and because this is a very delicate issue that I do not know enough about, I do not want to speculate too much here about why Brynn did what she did or what caused her to do it.

No one truly knows. Many people believe that she was a jealous woman who couldn't stand being second tier to her husband's success and not being in the spotlight and that she killed him out of spite. Others truly believe that her medication and addiction caused her to do something that she normally wouldn't have done. The reality is we may never know what really happened that night, what happened in their room and why she did what she did. And

And out of respect for their kids, I'm just going to leave it at that. As for Sean and Bergen, they ended up being raised by Brynn's sister, Kathy. And from what I can tell, they've grown into incredible adults. Bergen was six years old when her parents died, and she's definitely not super public with her life.

But we do know that she has recently gotten married and works as a consent educator to help end sexual assault, which I think is really amazing. And I'm going to link her Instagram down below in case anyone is interested in learning more about consent education. Sean was only nine years old when he lost his parents, and I don't know much about him now and what he's doing. He isn't very public online, and I'm sure that's for a reason.

Phil is remembered as the man of a hundred voices and his work is still celebrated to this day. But I can't help but think about what a loss to the world this was and what else he could have done. What other influence could he have had on the world of comedy and TV had he been given that chance?

His fellow castmates have never stopped talking about how missed he is, and I think his legacy really lives on. Please do yourself a favor and go check out some of his work. He was really funny, very, very talented. I think Phil would want us all to remember what he was like in life.

and not just remember his death. His ashes ended up being spread among Emerald Bay on Catalina Island, which was his favorite place on Earth. And it does make me happy to know that this was his final resting place.

That is going to be it for me today, guys. Thank you for joining me for another episode and make sure you follow the show on Spotify and Apple podcasts. It really does help me out. If you want to watch the video version of this show, you can find it on my YouTube channel, which will be linked, or you can just search Kendall Ray. I will be back with another episode soon, but until then stay safe out there.