Being underestimated allowed Barbara to be invisible and come up from the rear, taking over her competitors' positions in the market without drawing attention. This invisibility gave her the advantage to build her business stealthily.
Barbara consciously changed her self-defeating tape by declaring war on negative thoughts and replacing them with affirmations like 'you're incredible, beautiful, and brilliant.' This intentional reprogramming helped her build self-confidence.
Intuition is crucial for Barbara; she trusts her gut feelings, which she believes are a summation of all her learned experiences. She relies on her intuition to make decisions, especially on Shark Tank, where she trusts her instincts over logical analysis.
When accused of being a prostitute, Barbara used the situation to her advantage by convincing her landlord that she could get higher rent by marketing apartments as one-bedroom plus dens. This strategic move turned the accusation into a lucrative business deal.
The pivotal moment was when her ex-partner told her, 'You'll never succeed without me,' which ignited a burning determination in Barbara to prove him wrong. This insult became the fuel for her to build the Corcoran Group into a successful business.
Barbara views insecurity as a strength that pushes her to over-prepare and be more serious about her work. She believes that insecurity makes her more diligent and helps her perform better, both in business and personal life.
Barbara and her husband have separate bedrooms, which she believes provides the necessary private space and respite from each other's habits. This arrangement allows them to maintain a harmonious and long-lasting marriage.
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You’ve heard her say “You’ve got a deal” on ABC’s hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons, Barbara Corcoran, is an EMMY Award winning Shark and Executive Producer on the show, she’s the Founder of The Corcoran Group and is one of the most successful entrepreneurs in the country! She’s also sharp, quick-witted, and SO funny and today, she’s here to EMPOWER YOU to believe in your dreams and to know that your best days are ahead!
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0:00 Welcome to The Jamie Kern Lima Show
7:16 Change the Tape in Your Head
9:47 "I'm Successfully Insecure"
13:12 Being Underestimated is a Superpower
16:52 Trust Your First Instinct
19:20 Empowered Women Empower Women
22:40 Success In Marriage "Separate Bedrooms"
32:15 From VICTIM to VICTOR
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