Their son's death in a bus crash caused by a Haitian immigrant became politicized during the presidential campaign, leading to a wave of anti-immigrant rhetoric and hate directed at the family.
The politicization of their son's death led to public displays of hate and death threats, making their grief more traumatic and isolating.
Nathan publicly asked for an end to the hate at a city meeting and reached out to a trusted politician, Rob Rue, for support.
The community called for retribution and increased enforcement against immigrants, which the Clarks did not support, as they believed in compassion and diversity.
Pastor Justice provided emotional support and shared his perspective on dealing with prejudice and fear, advocating for compassion and understanding.
Nathan used a technique called intentional grieving, visiting places that reminded him of his son and coaching his son's former baseball team to find healing.
The family was overwhelmed with confusion and panic, unable to find their son at the fire station and eventually being told he had died in the crash.
Officer Loney stayed with their son's body after the crash, ensuring he was not alone, which provided a sense of solace to the grieving parents.
A sheriff’s deputy arrived at Nathan and Danielle Clark’s front door on the outskirts of Springfield, Ohio, in September with the latest memento of what their son’s death had become. “I’m sorry that I have to show you this,” she said and handed them a flier with a picture of Aiden, 11, smiling at the camera after his last baseball game. It was the same image the Clarks had chosen for his funeral program and then made into Christmas ornaments for his classmates, but this time the photograph was printed alongside threats and racial slurs.
“Killed by a Haitian invader,” the flier read. “They didn’t care about Aiden. They don’t care about you. They are pieces of human trash that deserve not your sympathy, but utter scorn. Give it to them … and then some.”
“They have no right to speak for him like this,” Danielle said. “It’s making me sick. There must be some way to stop it.”
This was the version of the country the Clarks and their two teenage children had encountered during the last year, ever since Aiden died in a school bus crash in August 2023 on the way to his first day of sixth grade. The crash was ruled an accident, caused by a legally registered Haitian immigrant who veered into the bus while driving without a valid license. But as the presidential campaign intensified, former President Donald Trump and his running mate, JD Vance, began to tell a different story.
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