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Child Won’t Follow Rules, Not Motivated by Rewards or Consequences, Gets Angry When Say No

2024/8/7
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Kirk Martin
专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家，提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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与其强迫孩子遵守规则，不如培养孩子的责任感和解决问题的能力。与其关注孩子的服从，不如培养孩子的责任感、决策能力和领导力。家长应该避免权力斗争，给予孩子在设定界限内的选择权，尊重孩子的自主性。家长的焦虑和控制欲会加剧亲子冲突，家长需要自我反思和调整，控制自己的情绪和行为。通过具体例子，说明如何给予孩子自主权，即使他们的方法看起来很奇怪或不合理。家长应该控制自己的焦虑，避免因为自己的焦虑而与孩子发生冲突。一旦孩子拥有了自主权，他们就会对自己的行为负责，并减少与父母的冲突。

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This chapter discusses the challenges of getting strong-willed children to follow rules when traditional methods like rewards and consequences don't work. It emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from obedience to responsibility and doing what is right.
  • Focus on teaching children to do what is right rather than just following rules.
  • Children should be responsible for their actions within clear boundaries.
  • Parents should avoid power struggles by giving children ownership of their choices.

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Child Won’t Follow Rules, Not Motivated by Rewards or Consequences, Gets Angry When Say No

How do I get my strong-willed child to follow rules if rewards and consequences don’t work? What do I do with a child who gets angry when I say no? This is an extremely important podcast because until you learn to give your kids ownership of their choices, you will have endless power struggles. Kirk gives you examples!

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