The core message is to avoid being a 'turkey person' by ensuring that charitable actions are motivated by genuine care for others, not self-gratification. True philanthropy should focus on the value of the person being helped, not the exaltation of the helper.
Courtney started coaching at Manassas because it was convenient and presented an opportunity to give back using his passion and skills in football. He aimed to teach not just football but also life values like character, commitment, and integrity.
Under Courtney's coaching, the team improved from a record of four wins and 95 losses over the previous 10 years to an 18-2 record and a significant increase in the number of students going to college.
Being a 'turkey person' means engaging in charitable acts for self-gratification rather than genuine care for others. It involves giving without consistency or true commitment to the well-being of those being helped.
Courtney's upbringing, marked by dysfunction and the absence of good male role models, led him to value the impact of positive influences like his football coaches. This experience motivated him to give back by coaching and instilling life values in young men.
The term 'turkey person' highlights the importance of examining one's motives in charitable actions. It emphasizes the need for consistency and genuine care for others, rather than actions driven by self-gratification or the desire for personal exaltation.
Courtney recommends watching the movie 'Undefeated' on Amazon Prime, reading his book 'Against the Grain,' and visiting turkeyperson.com for more insights and to connect with his podcast, 'An Army of Normal Folks.'
Michael Knowles sits down with Academy Award-winning filmmaker Bill Courtney for a candid and thought-provoking conversation. From the values that define leadership to the lessons we can all learn from sports, this episode dives deep into what it means to "not be a turkey person."
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