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My Husband Won’t Initiate Sex

2024/9/9
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Hope: 我与丈夫结婚三年半,一直是我主动寻求性亲密关系,丈夫总是以工作压力大或我不够关心他为借口拒绝。我曾发现他沉迷色情网站并消费大量金钱,这让我非常受伤和失望。 John: 夫妻性生活不和谐很常见,关键在于坦诚沟通。克服羞涩,积极表达需求。丈夫的行为表现出对妻子的漠视和不尊重,妻子应认识到自身价值,勇敢表达需求,即使可能导致婚姻破裂。妻子可能处于讨好型人格,为了安全感而压抑自身需求,应正视现实,为自身幸福做出选择。 John: 夫妻应共同营造积极的氛围,减少阻碍亲密关系的因素。性欲并非一成不变,应共同努力,创造更多亲密时刻。建议阅读《Come As You Are》一书,帮助夫妻更好地理解彼此的需求。

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A wife asks Dr. John Delony for advice on how to address the lack of physical intimacy in her marriage after having children. Her husband seems to prioritize video games and other activities over intimacy, leaving her feeling undesirable and neglected. Dr. Delony emphasizes the importance of open communication, addressing potential underlying issues such as pornography addiction, and setting boundaries to create a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.
  • Lack of intimacy can stem from various factors including stress, unresolved trauma, and addiction.
  • Open communication and setting boundaries are crucial for rebuilding intimacy.
  • Seeking professional guidance through therapy or resources like Dr. Emily Nagoski's book 'Come As You Are' can be beneficial.

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On today’s episode, we hear about:

·     A wife struggling with her husband not initiating sex

·     A woman concerned about the reappearance of an unknown sibling

·     A husband wondering how he and his wife should navigate differing political views

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