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My Brother-in-Law Is in Love With Me

2024/8/7
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Maria的丈夫：由于过去感情经历中被欺骗的创伤，对妻子与姐夫的关系产生过度的嫉妒和不信任，试图通过制造冲突来验证自己的猜想，并以此寻求安全感。他需要学习如何处理过去的创伤，并建立健康的信任关系。 Maria：她需要与丈夫坦诚沟通，明确界限，停止为了安抚丈夫而委屈自己。她需要重新找回自我，并享受生活。 Dr. John Deloney：他指出丈夫的嫉妒源于过去的创伤，建议夫妻双方坦诚沟通，建立安全的界限，并帮助丈夫克服过去的阴影。他鼓励Maria停止为了丈夫的感受而牺牲自我，并重新找回自信和快乐。 Joe：由于中暑事件，Joe的职业规划和家庭生活受到严重影响，他需要与妻子共同规划未来，并决定是否继续留在Tucson，以及如何平衡工作和家庭。 Cassie：房屋被盗后，Cassie感到极度不安全，并因此产生焦虑和失眠。她需要正视创伤，并采取积极的措施来重建安全感，例如加强房屋安保措施，并寻求专业的心理咨询。

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A wife seeks advice on how to navigate her husband's suspicion that her brother-in-law is in love with her. Dr. Deloney suggests open communication, establishing boundaries, and addressing the husband's underlying insecurities from past relationships.
  • The husband's jealousy stems from past infidelity in prior relationships.
  • The wife feels pressured to distance herself from her family to appease her husband.
  • Dr. Delony advises the wife to address the issue directly and establish clear boundaries.
  • The wife needs to express her commitment to the relationship while emphasizing her need for personal space.
  • Dr. Delony suggests physical touch as a way for the husband to communicate his feelings of jealousy.
  • The goal is to help the husband question his assumptions and build trust.

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On today’s episode, we hear about:

·      A woman who thinks her sister’s husband is in love with her

·      A man who suffered severe heatstroke, disrupting the career plans he moved his family for

·      A woman who doesn’t feel safe in her home after a recent break-in

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