Key Insights
Why can't a wife convince her alcoholic husband to go to rehab?
He's resistant and alcohol works for him, providing a necessary escape from reality.
Why is it difficult for a woman to regain her sense of self after a long marriage?
She's been conditioned to believe her worth is tied to her husband's validation.
Why might in-laws pressure a couple to host holidays?
They may feel their home is inadequate or enjoy the convenience of not hosting.
Why is it important for a woman to set boundaries with in-laws who drink heavily around her children?
To protect her children from exposure to unsafe behavior and potential negative influences.
Why does a woman feel more like her husband's mother than his wife?
She's been managing his behavior and ensuring his responsibilities, blurring the marital role.
Why is it crucial to address chemical dependency in a marriage before working on the relationship?
Chemical dependency poses immediate risks to safety and must be managed first for any healing to occur.
Why does a husband's refusal to leave the house despite his drinking problem pose a dilemma for his wife?
It forces her to choose between her children's safety and maintaining the marriage.
Why might a husband who wants a divorce delay filing the papers?
To maintain control and keep his wife in a state of uncertainty and dependency.
Chapters
A wife seeks advice on how to convince her alcoholic husband to go to rehab, especially after a dangerous incident involving their son.
- Husband drove their son home drunk from sports.
- Kids are starting to notice the tensions.
- Wife feels more like a mother than a wife.
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