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Bonus #37 - Emmy Blotnick [PATREON PREVIEW]

2023/8/20
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一位听众来电讲述自己过去长期作为‘备胎’的经历,现在想认真恋爱却屡屡失败,因此怀疑是不是因为报应。他描述了作为‘备胎’的轻松和好处,以及现在认真恋爱却困难重重的感受,并询问主持人对报应的看法以及自己未来感情的可能性。 主持人Stavvy首先表示理解听众的处境,并坦言自己也有过类似经历。接着,他表达了自己对‘报应’这一概念的看法,认为‘报应’并不真实存在,更多的是一种心理作用。他指出,如果一个人相信报应,那么这种信念本身就会成为一种自我应验的预言,让人感觉自己正在为过去的错误行为付出代价。但实际上,许多作恶多端的人并没有受到惩罚,反而过着幸福的生活。因此,他认为与其担心报应,不如专注于当下,努力改善自己的处境。 最后,主持人将‘备胎’的生活比作游击战,而认真恋爱则像常规战争。他认为,作为‘备胎’时,没有需要维护的东西,可以轻松自如地享受关系带来的好处,而认真恋爱则需要付出更多努力和责任。 主持人Stavvy认为‘报应’并不存在,这是一种心理作用,许多作恶多端的人并没有受到惩罚,反而过着幸福的生活。他建议这位听众不要担心报应,而是专注于当下,努力改善自己的处境。他还将‘备胎’的生活比作游击战,而认真恋爱则像常规战争,前者轻松自如,后者需要付出更多努力和责任。

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Yo, what up, style? What's going on, my guy? Calling in from D.C., man. Just got a quick question.

like do you think karma is real karma because i think i'm going through i spent a long time as a sad piece side bitch whatever you want to call it sad guy of course and uh i think it's catching that to me then the side guy was the greatest i didn't have to spend no time i didn't have to buy any gifts it was just dick and good times

At the expense of other guys, I guess. But now I think it's time to come back because I'm trying to do it the right way. Can't get no woman. This is not happening. There's always something crazy, something unpredictable, and I can't really put my finger on it. Or am I just built to be a sad guy at this point? Interesting. All right, man. Appreciate your opinion, your advice. Keep going with what you do, man. Love your show. Be easy.

Thank you. Thank you. Yes. Wow. The side bitches lament. This is tough. Yeah, I listen. I've, you know, I'm not going to sit here and say I haven't, you know, maybe done a little bit of this myself.

I don't know that it's, I don't think karma is real, but I think it's kind of a, we had a similar thing before. It's like, it's in your own head. If you think karma is real, then it kind of becomes this thing where it's like this self-fulfilling, like I'm being punished for my deeds kind of thing. Yes, yes. Whereas like, you're not. That shit's not fucking real. You know how many slave owners died happy in a bed surrounded by their loved ones?

Karma doesn't fucking exist evil people rule the world. They will never ever be

have to face their crimes. Occasionally one does by accident and we all get to rejoice. But for the most part, the world is ruled by the most heinous individuals who don't care about us and they will have the best, you know, they will get to enjoy the best lives. So I would say karma's not real personally, you know. I think I have nothing to add. I'm like, yeah, we built like Mount Rushmore to these people. Most of the statues of them

- It's still up. - Yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly. So don't worry about the karma.

But now there is a flip side. It is harder. It's like it's like being a side bitches guerrilla warfare versus conventional warfare You know, you don't have anything to protect when you're a side bitch You have nothing to maintain you just go in and you fuck shit up you get a little pussy you leave before You know you hide under a bed. You hide under a bed. The next morning Yeah, yeah, yeah, doing safe passage